Ubulili obukhulelwe akufani neze nokulala ngokocansi uma ukhuluma ngezinto eziyisisekelo. Kodwa kumishini yezocansi nokukhulelwa, kukhona ukungafani, noma kunjalo. Ukunaka kulezi zohlukaniso kusho ukuhluka phakathi kokuhlangenwe nakho okuhle kuwe nomlingani wakho futhi okungenzeka kube nombi.
Izinguquko zomzimba
Iziphi izinguquko ezitholakala kakhulu ekukhulelweni yilezi zitho zomzimba ezikhulelwe?
Phakathi ne-trimester yokuqala, lesi sibeletho sizoqala ukukhula kodwa sizobe sifihliwe kahle ngesikhumba. Lokhu kusho ukuthi awunakwenzeka ukubona izinguquko ezinkulu emathunjini abantu abaningi abazihlanganisa nokukhulelwa. Lokhu akusho ukuthi akuzona izinguquko ezothinta impilo yakho yobulili.
Esinye sezibonelo ezinkulu zezinguquko ezithinta ubulili ku-trimester yokuqala yizinguquko emabeleni. Abesifazane abaningi bazothola ukuthi amabele abo aqale ukukhula, futhi bazizwa bekhudlwana kunaphambi kokukhulelwa. Nakuba lokhu kungase kube mnandi kakhulu kumlingani wabo, kungase kufike nokukhathazeka okukhulu kwamabele . Qiniseka ukuthi ukhuluma nomlingani wakho ngokuthi amabele abo azizwa kanjani uma unomuntu okhulelwe. Uma ngabe ungumuntu okhulelwe, qiniseka ukuthi ukhuluma nomlingani wakho futhi ubatshele ukuthi yini engamukeleki. Lokhu kukhulumisana kuyoba usizo kakhulu ekuhambeni ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.
Njengoba uhamba engxenyeni yesibili yokukhulelwa isisu siqala ukukhula. Ekuqaleni, lezi zinguquko azivumi ukuthinta impilo yobulili. Ukuthi wena noma umlingani wakho angayithola ukuthi ikhangele. Lokhu kuvamile ngokuphelele. Uma isisu sakho sithola kancane kancane futhi ukhulelwe ungase uthande ukucabangela ezinye izikhundla ozijwayele ukusebenzisa ngaphambi kokukhulelwa.
Ngokuyinhloko, ufuna ukugwema ukucindezela kakhulu esiswini. Ngenkathi ingane ihlanganiswe ngokuphelele ngaphakathi kwe-amniotic fluid, ingahle ingakhathazeki kumama.
Izimpawu Zokukhulelwa
Izimpawu zokukhulelwa zingase zingabi yizinto ozicabangela njengokuthinta impilo yakho yobulili ngaphambi kokubeletha. Kodwa bobabili abalingani bazothola ukuthi izimpawu zokukhulelwa zingadlala ingxenye enkulu emvuthwandaba wezobulili. Uma unina-to-be engazizwa kahle lokhu kuzovame ukubeka umdanso ekuphileni kwakho kocansi. Noma kunjalo, izimpawu eziningi ziphakathi.
Kukhona uphawu lokukhulelwa olungasiza kakhulu owesifazane okhulelwe kanye nokuphila kwakhe kocansi. Futhi lokho kungase kwandiswe amathuba okuthiwa i-orgasm kanye / noma ibe yi-multi-orgasmic ngenxa nje yokwanda kwegazi egazini le-clitoris nesisu. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ungaba nobulili obuncane, kepha ungaba nobulili obuhle.
Ukuhamba kwezingane
Ngesikhathi se-foreplay, kungenzeka ukuthi wena noma umlingani wakho uzizwa ukuhamba komntwana kusuka ngaphandle. Kuvame kakhulu ukuthi umama azizwe ukunyakaza kwezingane ngaphambi kwamasonto angu-30 bese kungomlingani. Ngemuva kwamaviki angu-30 womabili amalungu angazwa sengathi umntwana uhamba ngaphandle ngaphandle kwesisu. Lokhu kungenzeka noma kungashintshi indlela ozizwa ngayo ngokwenza uthando.
Lokhu kuyinto okumele uxoxe ngayo wena nomlingani wakho. Kuyinto evamile ukuqaphela ukunyakaza okungaphezulu kwe-fetal ngemuva kwe-orgasm. Lokhu akubhekwa njengento embi. Uma ukhathazekile njalo cela umbelethi wakho noma udokotela ukuze uthole iseluleko.
Ekugcineni, impilo yakho yobulili imane nje, impilo yakho yobulili. Ungavumeli izinto ezingalindelekile zingashintsha ukuthi wena nomlingani wakho uzizwa kanjani ngomunye nomunye ngokobulili. Ungase uphelele phezulu futhi uphansi nge-libido yakho noma abalingani bakho i-libido futhi lokho kulungile.