Ukulungiselela Ingane Yakho Ukuhlukunyezwa Ngokobulili
Yiziphi ezinye zezibonelo zokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili okwenzeka ezinganeni esikoleni?
Sonke singabantu bezocansi, kusukela ebusweni kuya ethuneni. Ngisho njengezinsana nezinsana, kungasiza ekufundeni izinto eziyisisekelo zobulili, njengegama elifanele lezingxenye zomzimba zomuntu. Njengoba izingane zethu zithuthukisa ngokocansi, ziba nesifiso esikhulu mayelana nemizimba yazo, mayelana nobulili, nangokwesini.
Ekupheleni kwesikole samabanga aphansi, ukuvuswa kocansi kubonisa ngezindlela ezithile ezingathandeki. Abafana ikakhulukazi baqala ukukhuluma ngokuphindaphindiwe ngemizimba yamantombazane, okwenza imibono yokuhlambalaza nokuthuthuka okungafuneki.
Lena yingxenye enhle kodwa engokwemvelo yentuthuko yezingane, futhi izalwa ngaphandle kokoma kwabo ukuthola olunye ulwazi. Njengomzali, ungaphatha ezinye lezi zici ezimbi ngokuphambanisa ngokunika ingane yakho ithuba elifanele, imfundo yasemakhaya ebulili, ubumfihlo, nemingcele yomuntu siqu. Ungalungiselela ingane yakho ngezinto ezincane ezimnandi angase azihlangabezane nazo esikoleni. Nazi izibonelo ezimbalwa zokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili ezingatholakala ezindaweni zokuqala, eziphakathi nendawo eziphakeme:
- ukuthintana okungavumelekile, okungathandeki ngokomzimba, njengokuthinta, ukuqhuma, ukuthatha noma ukukhipha
- amazwi ahlambalaza ngokobulili, ubulili, ikhono, noma isigaba
- ukuziqhayisa ngobuqili bobulili kwabanye ukuzwa
- ukwesabisa indlela yokuziphatha, okungabandakanya amagama okuzishaya indiva, igama lobulili olubizayo, ikati elibiza, ukulinganisa, noma amahloni amahloni
- graffiti ngamagama alotshiwe ezindongeni noma amadeski; isibonelo esivamile: "isikhathi esihle, shayela ..."
- ukulandelwa omunye umfundi / ukukhishwa
Ngokusho kwe-American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU), amaphesenti angu-81 kubo bonke abafundi abhekana nokuziphatha okungafuneki ngokobulili phakathi neminyaka yabo yesikole.
Ngesinye isikhathi, lokhu kuziphatha kudlulela okungaphezu kwemvelo yengane yelukuluku futhi kuqhubekela phambili ekuziphatheni okuhlukumeza kakhulu . Kungani intsha ixhashaza abanye ngokobulili? Kunezizathu eziningi. Kungabenza bazizwe benamandla. Bangase bakwenze ngoba bafuna ukubonakala bavuthiwe ngokocansi. Bangase bathole ukuhleka kwenkulumo okuthakazelisayo. Bangase babheke ukunciphisa imizwa yabo yokungavikeleki kanye nokuzithoba.
Ungasiza ingane yakho ukubhekana nokuxhashazwa ngokocansi ngokusiza ekuzivuseleleni ngokuzizwa bezethemba lapho kubhekene nabahlukumezi babo. Bafundise ukuba babone ubuso, futhi baqinisekise. Bazisize ukwakha ukuzethemba. Bakhuthaze ukuba babe nobuhlobo obuhle.
Khumbula, futhi, ukuthi uma ingane ihlukunyezwa, kungenzeka ukuthi ilimaza. Yiba uhlelo lwakho lokusekela kwentsha. Qinisekisa ukuthi akuyona iphutha labo ukuthi liye laba isisulu sokuxhashazwa. Sebenza nabo ukuba banqume ukuthi ukuxhaphazwa kufanele kuthathwe kanjani.
Futhi ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye, yiba khona kubo.