Ukukhulisa ingane enesipho kungaba nzima futhi kudingekile, futhi izidingo zingaqala kusukela esemncane. Yiqiniso, abazali abajwayele ukukwazi ukuthi usana lwabo lunesipho esivela kuzo zonke izici zezingane ezinezintandokazi azibonakali ngokushesha kakhulu. Ngokwesibonelo, abazali abazi ukuthi ingane yabo inomqondo omuhle noma amakhono afanele okucabanga. Abasazi ikhono lomntanakho lokuxazulula ukuxazulula noma ukucabanga noma ukukwenziwa.
Kodwa ukungazi ukuthi ingane ayinalo isipho akusho ukuthi akukho zibonakaliso nhlobo noma ukuthi abazali abakwazi ukuziqagela kahle. Uma kakade unomntwana obonisa izimpawu zobunikazi, kungenzeka ukuthi umntwana omusha uphethwe. Noma uma omunye walaba bobabili abazali abanesipho, kungenzeka ukuthi umntwana unesipho esivela kuleso sipho yisici esizuzwe njengefa.
Yiziphi Ezinye Izici Zesana Esinezipho?
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abazali bayaqaphela ukuthi umntwana wabo unesipho noma cha, bangase babone ubufakazi bezinye zezici zezingane ezinesipho : isidingo sokuvuselela ingqondo. Ngisho nezinsana ezinamakhono zibonakala zidinga lokho kukhuthazwa. Ngeshwa kula mazinsana, abakwazi ukwenza okuningi ukuthola lokho kuvuselelwa kwengqondo. Uma sebekhulile, bangakwazi ukukhasa bese behamba bezohlola izwe elibazungezile futhi bathole ukuvuselela kwengqondo, kodwa uma nje beyizinsana, abakwazi ukuzihambela okuningi ngokwabo. Okukhulu kakhulu abangakwenza ukuguqula amakhanda abo.
Insana enesipho esingaba nekhono ingakhungathekisa ngokuntuleka kwezinto ezintsha ukuhlola ngokubukeka. Futhi lapho bekhungatheka, benza konke okwenziwa yizinsana zonke. Bakhala futhi baphikisana. Abazali balezi zinsana ezinesineke bazikhungathekisa ngokwabo ngoba abazi ukuthi yini engalungile.
Ingabe i-Fussing From Colic noma enye into?
Ingane yabo kungenzeka ukuthi idliwe kakade.
Kungenzeka ukuthi uvele wavusa noma evukile isikhathi esifushane, futhi izindiza zihlanzekile futhi zomile. Into yokuqala abazali bacabanga ngayo yi- colic . Yini enye engase ibangele lokhu kulila nokuphikisana?
Ukuphikisana kungenziwa ngenxa yento elula njengokuntuleka kwengqondo. Abazali abaningi abanezinsana ezinamakhono bathola ukuthi uma bashintsha indawo yabo yomntwana noma babheka njalo njalo, ingane iyeka ukukhala nokuphikisana. Ingane nje yayidinga okuthile okusha ukubuka. Ngesikhathi esilandelayo usana lwakho lukhala futhi awukwazi ukuthola ukuthi yini engalungile, zama ukuhambisa ingane yakho. Ngezinye izikhathi konke okudingekayo kushukumisa isihlalo somntwana ukuze ingane ibheke isiqondiso esihlukile.
Izinsana ezinamakhono aphezulu zingadinga ukuhanjiswa njalo, ngezinye izikhathi kaningi njengemizuzu engu-20!
Kubalulekile ukuqaphela, noma kunjalo, ukuthi ingane ingaba ne-colic noma into engathà sina. Uma ukukhala kuqhubeka, kufanele nakanjani uxoxe nodokotela wezingane zakho. Kodwa-ke, uma ingane yakho ima ukukhala emva kokuthi umhambise, kungenzeka ukuthi leyo nkinga yukuntuleka kwengqondo.