Ukuba namahloni nokwehlukaniswa akuyona into efanayo, nakuba kungase kubonakale kufana. I-introvert ijabulela isikhathi esedwa yodwa futhi iyancipha ngokomzwelo ngemva kokuchitha isikhathi esiningi nabanye. Umuntu onamahloni akafuni ukuba yedwa kodwa wesaba ukuxhumana nabanye.
Cabanga ngezingane ezimbili ekilasini elifanayo, elilodwa langenamahloni.
Utitjhere uhlela umsebenzi wabo bonke abantwana ekamelweni. Ingane engenazifiso ifuna ukuhlala edeskini yakhe futhi ifunde incwadi ngoba ithola ukuthi ikhona nezinye izingane ezicindezelayo. Umntwana onamahloni ufuna ukujoyina ezinye izingane kodwa uhlala etafuleni lakhe ngoba wesaba ukujoyina.
Izingane zingasizwa ukuba zinqobe amahloni abo, kodwa ukuzwakalisa kuyinto engxenyeni yomuntu njengezinwele noma umbala weso. Ngamanye amazwi, abantu bangathola ukwelashwa ngenhloni, kodwa hhayi ukuthola ukufakaza. Akuwona wonke ama-introverts anamahloni. Eqinisweni, abanye banamakhono omuhle emphakathini. Kodwa-ke, ngemuva kokuhlanganyela emisebenzini yomphakathi, i-introvert izosuswa ngokomzwelo futhi idinga isikhathi yedwa "ukulayisha kabusha" amabhethri abo angokomzwelo.
Nakuba ukwelashwa kungasiza umuntu onamahloni, ezama ukuvula i-introvert kwi- extrovert ephumayo angabangela ukucindezeleka futhi aholele ezinkingeni ngokuzethemba. Ama-Introverts angafunda amasu okubhekana nokuwasiza ukuthi abhekane nezimo zomphakathi, kodwa azohlale engenazo.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho ingaba isingeniso, ungase ufune ukubheka ezinye zezici zokungena futhi ubone ukuthi zingaki zazo ingane yakho.
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Okokuqala okumele ukwenze ukubona ukuthi ukungena ngemvume akuyona isifo esidinga uhlobo oluthile lwezokwelapha. Ngalowo mqondo, ingane yakho engenisiwe ayidingi ngempela usizo.
Nokho, ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho ijabule futhi iphilile, kunezinto ezithile ongayenza.
Into engcono kakhulu ongayenza enganeni yakho ukuqonda ukungena ngemvume futhi wamukele ukuthi lokhu kuyisici esivamile somuntu. Yamukela ukuthi ingane yakho ingase ibe yi-butterflies yenhlalakahle owawuyethemba ukuthi uzoba khona, ukuthi ikhaya lakho lingase lingagcwaliswa nabangane abaningi bomntanakho njalo. Yamukela ukuthi ngokuqinisekile ingane yakho izokujabulela ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi isodwa. Yamukela ukuthi ingane yakho ingaba nabangani abambalwa abaseduze.
Uma ungakwazi ukwamukela lezi zici, khona-ke ngeke ube nomngcingo wokucindezela ingane yakho ukuba ihlanganyele emisebenzini eningi yomphakathi kunokuba uzizwa ekhululekile.
Qinisekisa futhi ukuthi ukunikeza ingane yakho isikhathi esithile ngemuva kwemisebenzi yomphakathi.Uma ingane yakho iye ephathini, isibonelo, ungamangali uma efuna ukuchitha isikhathi esedwa. Ukusuka komunye umsebenzi wezenhlalo kuya kwesinye, ngisho nesidlo sakusihlwa, kungabangela ukucindezeleka kwengane futhi kumenze abe ne-cranky encane.
Ukukhulisa ingane engakafiki kungase kube nzima, ikakhulukazi kubazali abaxoshiwe. Kodwa njengabantwana bonke, okudingayo kakhulu uthando nokuqonda.