Izimpikiswano kukhona ukulimala okuvamile kubantwana abakhuthele kanye nentsha. Ingxabano yindlela yokulimala kwengqondo engabangelwa ukushaya kwekhanda, noma ukuzamazama okujulile okuye kwaphazamisa ubuchopho ngaphakathi kwekhanda.
Uma ingane yakho noma ingane yakho isitholile kanzima ekhanda noma ibonisa noma iyiphi yalezi zimpawu, zithole ukuthi ihlolwe udokotela ngokushesha.
Ngenkathi izingane eziningi kanye nezinsizwa ezinezinkinga ziphulukisa futhi zibuyela emisebenzini evamile, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthola ukuhlolwa okufanele futhi ulandele imiyalelo yokwelashwa evela ochwepheshe bezokwelapha ukuze uthole imiphumela engcono kakhulu futhi elula yokubuyisa.
Njengoba izinkambiso ziwuhlobo lokulimala komqondo, hhayi ukuphatha kahle ingxabano ebusheni kunemiphumela engalungile yesikhathi eside.
Uma udokotela ethola ukuthi ingane yakho inomncintiswano ngempela, kubalulekile ukuthi ulandele uhlelo lomhlengikazi lokuba ingane yakho ibuyiselwe. Uzofuna ukusebenza nomsebenzi wengane yakho kanye nemisebenzi yangaphandle ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi ingane yakho ingathatha isikhathi esidingekayo ukuze ilulame. Ungase futhi ufune ukubuyela kulolu hlu lwezimpawu phakathi nesikhathi sokutakula ukuze ubone ukuthi ingane yakho ibhekene nokubuya noma ukwanda kwezibonakaliso zokuncintisana.
Uhlu lwezimpawu zokuncintisana:
- Uzizondeka Konke kusukela ekuboneni izinkanyezi ukuba uzizwe sengathi zihlungiwe izikhathi eziningana.
- Ukudideka Mhlawumbe abakwazi ukukhumbula okwenzekile ngaphambi noma ngemuva komcimbi okwenze ukuthi kube nomncintiswano. Mhlawumbe ingane yakho ayiqondi imibuto oyicelayo kanye nayo evame ukuyenza.
- Insizwa Ukulimala komqondo kungase kubonakale sengathi ubuhlungu ekhanda. Lesi isibonakaliso esivame kakhulu phakathi nesikhathi sokutakula.
- Inkulumo ekhishwayo Lesi sibonakaliso siyoba khona kuye ngokuthi iyiphi ingxenye yobuchopho eyalimala. Uma ngabe yiziphi izingxenye ezihlobene nenkulumo yalimala, khona-ke inkulumo izobe ihamba kancane noma iqhutshwe.
- Umzwelo noma i-Moody Ukulawula okuningi ngokomzwelo kwenzeka ezinxenyeni ezahlukene zobuchopho. Lesi sibonakaliso singabonakalisa kumntanakho njengokwanda ngokucasuka, ukudabukisayo, ukucindezeleka, noma ukuzijabulisa nje.
- Awukwazi Ukulala Noma Ukukhathala Zonke Isikhathi Sokulala Ukulala sithinteka kakhulu ebuchosheni. Hlanganisa lokho ngesidingo esengeziwe sokuphumula ukuze utholakale cishe kunoma yikuphi ukulimala, kanti ingane yakho ingase ikhathele kakhulu ngaso sonke isikhathi, noma ingakwazi ukulala.
- Ukulahlekelwa Ukulinganisela Lokhu kungase kwande ukuxuba, isizungu, noma nje umuzwa we-off-kilter.
- I- nausea Ukuzwa okugulayo kuya kwesisu kuyisifo esivamile sokushukela isisu. Kungaba bukhulu ekuzizweni kokuzwela kancane kancane ekuhlanza kwangempela.
- Ukukhanya noma ukuzwakala komsindo Ingane yakho ingase ifune ukugwema ukukhanyisa okukhanyayo noma okujwayelekile. Umsindo ozwakalayo kanye nomsindo omkhulu wendawo yangasese ungabacasula kwezinye izimo zokuncintisana. Ngalesi sibonakaliso, ingane yakho izofuna ukuthola izindlela zokugwema lolu hlobo lokugqugquzela, njengoba kuyisibonakaliso sokuxwayisa ukuthi kule ngxabano ethile, ubuchopho bukwazi kuphela ukucubungula ulwazi oluthe xaxa noma ulwazi olukhanyayo okwamanje.
Ngenhlanhla, lezi zimpawu kufanele zihambe njengoba ingane yakho isuka ekuncintweni kwayo. Ukuthatha isikhathi sokuphulukisa kahle nokubuyisela emcimbini kuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho izoba nomphumela omuhle kakhulu engqondweni nasemzimbeni.
Amanye amathiphu okuhlola ukucubungula
- Hamba ukuhlolwa ngokushesha uma uqaphela izimpawu, noma ube nokukhathazeka mayelana nomncintiswano. Ekuqaleni ukuhlolwa kwenziwa, ngaphambili ukuphathwa kahle kweprotocol kungenziwa. Hlela eceleni kokuqapha futhi uthathe ingane noma intsha ukuba ihlolwe uma unenkinga mayelana nokuncintisana
- Zama ukuthola ulwazi oluthe xaxa mayelana nesigameko lapho ingane yakho ithola khona inhloko ekhanda. Indawo eqondile lapho ikhanda liye lawa khona, izikhathi ezingakanani, ukusheshisa, isikhathi esithile sosuku, ngabe ingane yakho ilahlekelwe yini noma cha, noma yikuphi ukuziphatha okungavamile ngokushesha ngemva kokushaywa ikhanda ekhanda kukhona eminye imininingwane edokotela umhlinzeki uzofuna ukwazi.
- Khumbula ukuhlala uzinzile. Ingane yakho ingase ibone ukuziphatha okungavamile noma izimpawu zokuncintisana emahoreni ngokushesha ngemuva kokuthola ukushaya ekhanda. Yize lokhu kungase kukuthukuthelise ukuba ubone, ingane yakho noma ingane yakho izokudinga ukuba uzolile ukuze uthole ukuhlolwa okufanele kanye nokwelashwa.
- Futhi, khumbula izingqikithi ezimbalwa zokuqala ngemuva kokuthola inhloko ekhanda kungase kungabonakali ngokucacile ukuthi kuyoba kanjani ukucubungula okukhulu noma okude isikhathi eside. Nakuba kubalulekile ukuthola ukuhlolwa kuqala, ngezinye izikhathi izingane kanye nentsha bayoba nokudideka, ukulahlekelwa ibhalansi noma ezinye izimpawu kuphela emahoreni ambalwa okuqala ngemva kokushaya kwekhanda, bese beba nezimpawu ezimbalwa emva kwalesi sikhathi.
Njengoba ubuchopho kungumzimba omkhulu womzimba osetshenziselwa ukufunda, qiniseka ukuthi uqhubeka uthintana nesikole somntanakho mayelana nokuqhubeka kokutholwa kwengane yakho. Ukuphumula ngempikiswano ngokuvamile kuthatha isikhathi eside kubantwana kanye nentsha. Njengoba lokhu kuthuthukiswa kwengqondo yomuntu osemusha kanye nokuphulukiswa, ukuthatha izinyathelo ezifanele ezidingekayo kubalulekile ukuba ubuchopho babo bube ngumbono omuhle kakhulu wokuphila kwabo bonke.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Nakuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukulandela ukulandelwa kwezokwelashwa ngesikhathi sokuphulukiswa kwengxabano, khumbula ukuthi intsha eningi eyithola izinkambiso futhi ilandele izivumelwano zayo ezinikeziwe ineziphumo ezinhle. Ochwepheshe bezokwelapha bazovame ukuqina kakhulu ekunikezeni iseluleko nemiyalo uma kuziwa ekuncintweni kwentsha. Uzophawula nokuthi izibonelelo ezinikezwa udokotela wakho kanye nezihloko ze-intanethi - njengalezi zixwayiso ezilodwa ngokubaluleka kokulandela izivumelwano zokuphulukisa ingxabano.
Qinisekisa ukuthi ukulandela i-protocol kuyoholela emiphumeleni engcono kakhulu kunazo zonke. Ngokwenza uziqaphele izimpawu zokuncintisana, lokho ingane yakho okufanele iyenze futhi akufanele iyenze ngombono, nokuthi ungayiqapha kanjani inqubo yokuncintisana, uthatha izinyathelo ezidingekayo ukusekela ukuphulukiswa kwengane yakho.