Umbuzo: Ngingakugcina kanjani umfana wami ekuthatheni i-Diaper yakhe kanye nezingubo?
Indodakazi yami enenyanga engu-28 isiqalile isitimela samanzi. Ezinsukwini ezithile wenqabe ukuphuma emanzini akhe amahora kanye nabanye angeke ahlale kuwo. Manje wenqaba ukugqoka izingubo noma i-diaper. Uzogqoka amabhulukwe wokuqeqesha kodwa unezingozi. Akathandi ukuba abe manzi noma angcolile futhi uye ngisho nokuvuka ekhwaza (futhi ehamba) emva kokuthungela esikhwameni sakhe.
Uyabhekwa esihlalweni futhi ngicabanga ukukhipha ngaphandle uma ehlala kuyo izingubo zakhe. Ikhaya lethu liba isitsha sezindlu zangasese. Ngidinga iseluleko sokugcina izingubo zakhe. Ubonakala ekulungele ukuqeqeshwa ngamapayipi ngoba ngeke ashiye i-diaper kodwa siphumelele kakhulu.
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Akusizi kahle ukuqeqeshwa nge-Potty
Kuzwakala sengathi indodakazi yakho ihambela ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi , kodwa angicabangi ukuthi ukhona lapho. Ake ngibhale ukuthi yini okukuyo:
- Uyohlala ebhodweni - Lesi isinyathelo esihle sokuqala futhi ngokuvamile sibonisa isithakazelo ekuhambeni kwamanzi, kodwa hhayi ngokuzimisela noma ikhono .
- Ungakwazi ukucindezela ngokuzimela - Kunzima ukwenza intuthuko enkulu ngaphandle kokuba ingane yakho ikwazi ukuzinqanda, ngakho lokhu kuhle.
- Akuthandi ukungcola noma ukumanzi - Kufanele uqiniseke ngamazwi ukuthi uma ebeka u-pee wakhe kanye ne-poo ebhodweni, angakugwema konke ukuthuka.
Futhi yini okungeyona kuwe:
- Ngezinye izikhathi ngeke uhlale ebhodweni - Lokhu akusho ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuphela kokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi, kodwa akusiyo ukusetshenziswa okuningi okuqhubekayo uma engahlali njalo uma ehlala ebhodweni noma uma eqinile ngokugwema.
- Ungagxila ngokuzimela futhi wenza njalo - Ah, amandla akhe ubuye ubuthakathaka bakhe. Ikhono lokususa izingubo ngokuvamile liyingxenye ye- puzzle enkulu kakhulu yokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi ngamanzi . Ngezinye izikhathi liyingxenye ye-puzzle enkulu kakhulu yokwandisa amakhono emoto futhi kufanele iphathwe njengento ehluke ngokuphelele.
- Usebentisa indlu yokugezela ezindaweni ezingalungile njenge-crib kanye nezihlalo zakhe - Uma engaboni ukuthi wenza lokhu, lezi zigameko zingezingozi nje ezenzekile ngenkathi engenazo izingubo. Uma ekwenza ngenhloso (njengokufihla ekhoneni ukuya) khona-ke kungaba yisibonakaliso sokuthi usekulungele ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi kodwa wesaba amanzi. Esikhathini sakho, kubonakala sengathi unesingozi, noma kunjalo.
Ukulungiswa ekukhululeni
Ngakho ngempela, okwenzekani lapha akuyona isimo sokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi , kodwa kunalokho isimo sokuziphatha. Okokuqala, ngizoyeka noma yikuphi uhlobo lokuqeqeshwa kwamathambo ukuze ukwazi ukubhekana nalokho okuqhubekayo. Okulandelayo, ngifuna ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi bobabili unesidingo esithile futhi izidingo zakho zombili zivumelekile: Udinga ukujwayela ukuthatha izingubo zakhe. Lokhu kujwayelekile futhi akufanele kudangele ngokuphelele. Udinga ukuba agcine izingubo zakhe esikhathini esiningi futhi angasebenzisi yonke indlu yakho njengendlu yangasese.
Okokuqala, Umzila WeSoft
Myeke abe nesilinganiso esithile esithile usuku ngalunye lapho angakwazi ukuzikhukhumeza futhi abe njengenqunu njengoba angathanda. Abanye abazali banenhlanhla ukwenza lokhu ekuseni ngaphambi kokugqoka. Abanye abazali bathanda ukukwenza emva kwesikhathi sokugeza kusukela ingane yabo isivele ihamba.
Njengoba ukususa izingubo kubonakala sengathi yingxenye yesikhalazo sendodakazi yakho, ngizohlela isikhathi lapho esevele egqoke ngakho isidingo sagcwaliseka kuye.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhetha isikhathi sini, qinisekisa ukuyihlanganisa nomkhuba owaziyo esikhundleni sesikhathi esingaqondi kahle. Ngale ndlela, uma eqala ukuthatha izingubo zakhe ngesikhathi esinqunyiwe, ungathi kuye, "Asekho. Ungathatha izingubo zakho ngemuva kokudla kwasekuseni." Lokhu kwenza kube mnandi kakhulu kuncane kunokuba, "Beka izingubo zakho emuva! Akusi-10:30 okwamanje."
Ukuqeda inkinga yasekhaya-njenge-toilet, mchazele ukuthi uma efuna ukuhlala ehamba, angeke ahlaziye noma aphikise kuphi ngaphandle kwamanzi noma i-diaper.
Khona-ke, qiniseka ukuthi useduze futhi umenze azi ukuthi usulungele ukusiza uma edinga. Mtshele ekamelweni elingasuswa kalula uma kunokwenzeka (tile noma izinkuni ezinzima - i-yay, i-carpet - boo) bese unamathela esikhathini esibekiwe. Imizuzu engamashumi amathathu iyisiqalo esihle sokuqala. Uma esebenzisa indawo yokugezela noma yikuphi amanzi kodwa i-potty noma i-diaper, kufanele agqoke izingubo zakhe. Uma enqaba, khumbula ukuthi ungumzali futhi unezinketho.
Yima Isizathu Sakho Uma Izinto Ziba Nzima
Ngivame ukuzwa abazali bethi ingane yabo "yenqaba" ukwenza okuthile. Ngiyaqonda ngokucacile ukuthi intando encane ingaba namandla kangakanani nokuthi kulula kangakanani nje ukunqotshwa kuyo futhi ugweme idrama. Ngesikhashana, lokho kubonakala kusebenza. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, akunjalo futhi kwenza isiyalo sibe nzima nakakhulu. Lokhu kungenye yalezi zikhathi lapho wenza khona ongakwenza ukuze uhambisane nezidingo zakhe, kodwa, kudingeka ahloniphe imithetho oyibeke kuyo.
Ezikhathini ezimbalwa zokuqala kumele agqoke izingubo zakhe, kungase kungabi kuhle, kodwa uma ulandela, ngeke kube umzabalazo njalo futhi ekugcineni uzohambisana nemithetho yakho. Gcizelela ukugqoka izingubo zakhe futhi ungagxila engozini. Mbeke izingubo zakhe uma engeke akwenze yena futhi aqhubeke ewabuyisela. Ezimweni eziningi, ekugcineni uzobona ukuthi unzima futhi akusona isikhathi sokuhamba nge-naked.
Okufanele Ukwenze Uma Izinto Zithola Ngokuqinile
Uma ezama ukusebenzisana nemithetho, kungase kudingeke wenze izinto zibe nzima nakakhulu kuye. Ngisanda kubona amanye ama-pajama kuleli sonto ayingxenye eyodwa futhi uhlale ngoba i-zipper isemuva. . Ngokuqinisekile lokho kuzosiza ezinkingeni ozithola naye ebusuku.
Amanye amacebo:
- Ukubeka izingubo emuva emuva ngakho-ke kunzima ukususa
- Ukushintshela kumabhanisi wendwangu njengamavidyo nokuhlanganisa kungasondeka nakakhulu
- Ukusebenzisa i-tape tape ukuvikela ama-diapers noma ukumboza izi-zippers nezibopho
- Ukugqoka ingane yakho esimweni esiseduze nobunqunu ngangokunokwenzeka - cabanga ukukhanya okukhanyayo noma ukuphakama kwe-tank kanye ne-diaper engalungile - ngezinethemba lokuthi inkululeko (kusukela ekugqoke izingubo) izobusa.
Enye indlela yokwenza ukuthobela kumzuzise ngenkathi ukungeza kahle ukuphuma kwesikhathi. Ngaso sonke isikhathi uma enqaba ukugqoka izingubo zakhe uma eceliwe futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi ethatha izingubo zakhe ngaphandle kwekhefu lakho elikhethiwe, umfake izingubo zakhe futhi usebenzise isikhathi sokuphuma. ( Funda kabanzi mayelana nendlela yokwenza umsebenzi wokuphuma isikhathi lapha .)
Emva kokunikeza lezi zixazululo, zonke izidingo zakho kufanele zihlangabezane ngenjabulo. Isikhathi sisehlangothini lwakho kusukela intsha yekhono lakhe lokuqeda ukuvala lizogqoka maduzane, ukuze kuthathelwe enye enye into ebalulekile yokuzibusa. Kodwa uma kusenenkinga ngemuva kokuthatha lezi zinyathelo, kungase kudingeke ucabange ukufuna iseluleko sochwepheshe. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi uma indodakazi yakho ibonakala igxile ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo ngokugqoka izingubo. Umhlinzeki wakho wokunakekelwa kwezempilo angakutshela othile endaweni yangakini ukusiza ukunquma ukuthi ngabe ingane yakho ihlupheke yini nge-disorder processing disorder noma enye inkinga.