Izindlela Zokuthola Intsha Emuva Ngethrekhi
Ukuthola umntanakho unamabanga angaphumeleli kungakhungathekisa futhi kusabe. Ngemuva kwalokho, amakilasi ahlulekile angasho ukuthi i-GPA ephansi, ukukhathazeka ukungena ekolishi, mhlawumbe ngisho nokukhathazeka iziqu esikoleni esiphakeme ngesikhathi.
Lapho abafundi besikole esiphakeme bewela emakilasi abo, ukubamba iqhaza kungaba nzima kakhulu. Lapho amamaki eqala ukweqa, intsha eningi ishiya.
Uma ingane yakho ihluleka isigaba-noma isivele ihlulekile sonke semester-thatha isenzo. Kunezinto eziningana ongazenza ukuze uxazulule inkinga.
Thola iNkinga
Uma ingane yakho isencane noma isengozini yokungadluli, hlala phansi futhi uxoxe ngenkinga. Cela umntanakho usizo ukuze avule izizathu azidlulanga. Ngezinye izikhathi abafundi abaqala ukuphuma beqinile baphazamiseka ngenkathi abanye abafundi nje bengashukunyiswa ukuba bahlale endleleni.
Khuluma nengane yakho bese uhlola noma cha noma iyiphi yalezi zindaba ibambe iqhaza ebangeni elingaphumeleli.
- Ingabe amakilasi anzima kakhulu? Ngezinye izikhathi intsha isayinela amakilasi asemqoka kakhulu futhi aphelelwa amandla.
- Ingabe ingane yakho ingenzi umsebenzi wesikole? Uma ingane yakho ingayenzi umsebenzi wesikole, kuyoba nzima kakhulu ukudlulisa ekilasini. Thola ukuthi umsebenzi wesikole awuqediwe yini, ungangeni ngesikhathi, noma uma ingane yakho ingaqondi ukuthi ungayenza kanjani.
- Ingabe ukuhlolwa okuphansi kunciphisa inkinga? Abanye abafundi balwela ukukhathazeka kokuhlolwa noma abaqiniseki ukuthi bangafunda kanjani izivivinyo.
- Ingabe ingane yakho yayingabikho kakhulu? Uma ingane yakho ilahlekelwe isikole ngenxa yokugula noma ezinye izinkinga, ingaphazamisa kakhulu amamaki.
- Ingabe ingane yakho ingaphansi kokucindezeleka okuningi? Uma ingane yakho igxilile, kungenzeka ukuthi kunzima ukugxila nokuqedela umsebenzi wakhe.
- Kungenzeka yini ukuthi inkinga yempilo yengqondo ibe yingxenye yenkinga? Izinkinga zempilo yengqondo , njengokucindezeleka noma ukukhathazeka ngokuvamile kuvame ukufaka amamaki ahlulekayo. Izinkinga zokuhlukumeza izidakamizwa nazo zingaba yisici ekwenzeni amamaki wehla
Khuluma Nabafundisi
Nakuba ingane yakho ingase ingathandi ukuthi ukhulume nabafundisi, kubalulekile ukukhuluma nabo ukusiza ukunquma inkinga. Ingane yakho ingase ingaqapheli ukuthi ayinakekeli ekilasini noma ukuthi ulahlekelwa umsebenzi omningi. Cela imibono yabothisha ngalokho ingane yakho okudingeka iyenze ngokuhlukile ukudlula ekilasini.
Cabanga ukuthi ngabe ingane yakho ingaba nokukhubazeka kokufunda futhi. Ngezinye izikhathi ukukhubazeka kokufunda noma i-ADHD kungabonakali kuze kuphele iminyaka yesikole esiphakeme. Buza ukuthi ngabe ukuhlola noma ukuhlolwa kwengqondo kungasiza yini noma cha.
Inkinga-Sombulula Nengane Yakho
Uma unomqondo ongcono wokuthi kungani ehluleka, hlala phansi futhi uxazululwe inkinga nengane yakho . Xoxa ngemibono yakhe ngokuthi angayithuthukisa kanjani ibanga lakhe. Ngezinye izikhathi, izixazululo ezilula kodwa ezidala zingenza umehluko omkhulu.
- Ingabe udinga ukwakhiwa okwengeziwe ngomsebenzi wesikole? Abanye abasha abakwazi ukubhekana nokukhululeka okukhulu mayelana nokuthi bazokwenza nini futhi kuphi. Ukusungula isikhathi somsebenzi wesikole kungakusiza.
- Ingabe kunzima ukukhumbula lokho anakho ngomsebenzi wesikole? Intsha engahlehliswa kahle ngokuvamile ivame ukubeka phansi amaphepha abo noma ayikhohlwe ukuletha umsebenzi wabo ekhaya. Thola amasu okusiza ingane yakho ihleleke kakhulu.
- Ingabe uyakhohlwa ukubhala izabelo zakhe? Abanye abasha bazama ukukhumbula zonke izabelo zabo ngaphandle kwencwadi yesabelo. Abanye abasha bakhohlwa ukubhala izabelo zabo phansi. Ukuba nengane yakho ibhale phansi umsebenzi wakhe futhi icele uthisha ukuba ayilandele ngemuva kwekilasi ngalinye angaqiniseka ukuthi izabelo zakhe zilotshiwe phansi.
- Ingabe udinga usizo olwengeziwe? Intsha eningi isaba ukucela usizo ngoba inamahloni noma ingaqondi, ngisho nalapho uthisha ezama ukuchaza le mqondo futhi. Ukuhlala esikoleni ukuze uthole usizo olwengeziwe, ukuhlangana nomfundisi noma ukujoyina i-homework club kungaba ngamasu awusizo kubafundi abaningi.
- Ingabe nje akashukunyelwanga ukwenza umsebenzi wakhe? Ngezinye izikhathi intsha nje akuzona zonke ezashukumisela ukuqedela umsebenzi wazo. Kungenzeka ukuthi balahlekelwa isithakazelo noma basuke benesithukuthezi ngesihloko esithile. Xoxa ngamasu azosiza ukugqugquzela ingane yakho ukuba yenze umsebenzi wakhe ufezeke.
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Sebenzisanani ndawonye ukuthuthukisa uhlelo lokubhekana namabanga ahlulekayo. Xoxa ngamasu angamsiza ukumsiza ukuthuthukisa ibanga lakhe, njengokuhlela ukufundisa. Uma engakwazi ukudlula ekilasini, khuluma nesikole mayelana nezinketho ezihlukile ezifana nezikole zasehlobo noma izifundo zemfundo yabantu abadala.