Ukuba nabangane abakhulu, ukudlala nezinye izingane endaweni yokudlala, nokuya kumaqembu okuzalwa kanye nokukhishwa kwe-sleeve kukhona imisebenzi evamile yezingane eziningi. Eqinisweni, i-American Academy of Pediatrics ithi "ukwenza abangane kungenye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu zobuntwaneni obuphakathi-ikhono lomphakathi elizoqhubeka nokuphila kwabo bonke."
Nokho, ezinye izingane zihlukumezeka emphakathini futhi zinenkathazo yokwenza nokugcina abangane.
Ingane yakho akudingeki ibe "butterfly" futhi ithandeke kakhulu yizingane zonke esikoleni. Eqinisweni, umntwana onamahloni noma othulile angase abe nomngane oyedwa noma ababili abajabule futhi ajabule kakhulu. Kodwa kungaba inkinga uma ingane yakho ingenabo abangane noma ingakaze imenywe ngaphezulu ukudlala nezinye izingane-ikakhulukazi uma ibonakala ikhathazeka ngalokhu ukwehluleka ukuxhumana nabangane bakhe.
Izingane Ezincane Zenza Abangane
Ngisho nezinsana zibonakala zidlala ndawonye futhi ziba nabangane, kodwa ukudlala iqembu akuvame ukuguquka kuze kuphele iminyaka eyi-3. Kuze kube yileso sikhathi, izinsana nezinsana ezincane zidlala nje ngokwabo ngokuhambisana komunye nomunye ngokudlala okufanayo .
Ngemuva kokuthi baqale ukudlala ndawonye njengabantwana besikole, abantwana banamathuba amaningi okuba abangane abangapheliyo. Izingane ingane yakho encane ebheka "abangane" izoshintsha njalo. Ngisho nezingane ezincane ezifunda esikoleni, kuze kube yilapho zineminyaka engu-10 kuya kweyishumi nambili ubudala, zingase zibe nomngane omusha omusha njalo ezinyangeni ezimbalwa.
Ingane Yakho Ingaba Nabangane?
Kuvame ukulukhuni kubazali ukwazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi ingane inabangani. Uma ungaqiniseki ukuthi ingane yakho inabangane, khuluma nothisha bantfwana bakho ukubona ukuthi uxhumana kanjani nezinye izingane esikoleni. Ingabe uhlale ewodwa eklasini, ngesidlo sasemini noma ngesikhathi sokuphumula?
Ungamane ucele ingane yakho mayelana nabangane bakhe futhi uma unomngani omkhulu, ukuthola umqondo ongcono wokuthi wenza kanjani abangane, futhi.
Ukusiza Izingane Ukuba Zenze Abangane
Uma ingane yakho ingenabo abangane, kungenzeka ukuthi ayinayo amathuba okwanele okwenza. Ukwenza ingane yakho ihileleke emisebenzini eningi nezingane zesikhathi sakhe esifanayo futhi enezintshisekelo ezifanayo kungaba yindlela enhle yokuthola abangane bezingane zakho.
Ezinye izibonelo ezinhle zezindawo lapho ingane yakho ingenza khona abangane zifaka:
- Imidlalo yezemidlalo kanye namakilasi, kufaka phakathi imidlalo yeqembu (ibhola, ibhola, njll) kanye nemidlalo ethile (ithenisi, ubuciko bokulwa, njll)
- Imisebenzi engahambisani nayo, kufaka phakathi umculo nemfundo yobuciko, i-chess club, njll.
- I-Storytime emtatsheni wakho wezincwadi noma esitolo sezincwadi
- Amanye amaqembu ezinkampani, kuhlanganise nabakwa-Boy Scouts kanye ne-Girl Scouts
- Ipaki noma indawo yokudlala
Letha i-ice-breaker-njengethoyi, isilwane, noma ukudla okulula-ukusiza ukudonsa ezinye izingane kumntanakho lapho uya epaki noma kwenye imisebenzi uma ingane yakho ingaveli ngokwemvelo.
Izingane Ezinezinkinga Ukwenza Abangane
Uma ingane yakho iqhubeka ikulwela ukuzenzela abangane, cabanga ukumemela ingane ngaphezu kwedethi yokudlala bese ubheka ngokucophelela okwenzekayo. Ingabe ingane yakho ibuye ihlukumeze, ixhumane, ihlasele, iyathinteka, noma imane inamahloni okwakha ubungane nengane?
Ingabe wenza okuthile okucasula ezinye izingane? Uma kunjalo, bheka ukuthi ungakhuluma nengane yakho futhi umsize enze kangcono esikhathini esizayo. Umsebenzi wokudlala idethi yokudlala, lapho uzenza sengathi ungumngane ozele ukudlala nomntanakho, kungaba yindlela ewusizo yokufundisa ingane yakho izindlela ezifanele zokwenza ezinye izingane.
Izingane eziqhubeka nezixazululo zokwenza abangane zingaba nesimo sezokwelapha esithinta ubuhlobo babo. Lezi zimo zezokwelapha zingabandakanya ukungabi nalutho ukukhathazeka ngokweqile, ukuzithemba, ukukhathazeka nokukhethwa komphakathi (lapho abantwana bengakhulumi nabantu abangaphandle komndeni wabo).
Eqinisweni, ukungakwazi ukwenza futhi ukugcina abangane kungaba yinkomba ebalulekile ingane yakho idinga usizo kuchwepheshe wezokwelapha.
Ngaphezu kwe-ADHD nezinye izimo zezokwelapha ezibalwe ngenhla, ukukhathazeka nabangane kungaba nomphumela ohlangothini noma uphawu lokucindezeleka, ukukhubazeka kokufunda , ukucindezeleka, noma ukuxhashazwa .
Okudingeka Ukwazi
Udokotela wezingane zakho, ingane yengqondo yengane, noma umeluleki kungaba yindlela enhle yokusiza uma ingane yakho iqhubeka nezinkinga zokwenza abangane . Ukuxoxisana ngobungane kuyisihloko esihle sokuhlolwa kwengane yengane yakho minyaka yonke kanye nodokotela wezingane zakho.
Yiba neqiniso ngalokho okulindelwe ingane yakho nabangane bakhe. Uma ingane yakho inamahloni futhi ithule, khona-ke ingase ijabule kakhulu nabangani oyedwa noma ababili abahle futhi bangase bangafuni noma badinga iqembu lonke labangane.
Ngokuvamile, izingane ngokuvamile zinabangane abafana nobudala obufana nabo. Kodwa-ke, abanye bakhetha ukube bezungeza izingane ezindala noma ezincane. Isibonelo, izingane ezine-type hyperactive ye-ADHD zivame ukuqeda ukwenza ubungane nezingane ezincane kakhulu, ngoba izingane zabo zonyaka azifuni ukudlala nabo.
Izingane ezinezinwele ngokuvamile ziba nezinkinga zokwenza nabangane futhi, zikhetha ukuba nabantu abadala ngaphandle kwezingane ezineminyaka yabo. Lezi zintandokazi zingabonisa ukuthi ingane yakho inenkinga yokwenza abangane.
Ungamangaleli izingane ukuba zenze abangane noma zibe nezimo zenhlalo ukuze wenze abangane uma kubangela ukukhathazeka ngokweqile noma uma kungakalungi.
Imithombo:
> I-American Academy of Pediatrics. Ukunakekela Ingane Yakho Yesikoleni: Iminyaka engu-5 ukuya ku-12.