Indlela inkantolo inquma ngayo ukusekelwa kwezingane zokuhlelwa kokugcinwa kokubambisana
Ukugcinwa okuhlangene kubhekisela ekugcinweni komntwana ngokomzimba kanye / noma ngokomthetho ngemuva kokuhlukana kwabazali noma isehlukaniso. Ezimweni ezinjalo, abazali bahlanganyela emithwalweni yansuku zonke yokukhulisa ingane, kufaka phakathi izibopho zezezimali. Ngenxa yalokho, abazali abaningi bayazibuza ngokugcinwa kokubambisana, ukusekelwa kwengane nokuthi uhlelo luyoba nomthelela kanjani inani lokusekelwa kwengane.
Izibopho zokusekela izingane zilawulwa yi-Act Support Standards Act (CSSA.) Nokho, i-CSSA ayibheki izinkinga zokuxhaswa kwabantwana ngokuhlanganyela. Lapho kunqunywe izibopho zokusekela izingane, izinkantolo zisingatha amalungiselelo okubamba ngokuhlanganyela ngokuhlukile.
Ukusebenzisa Isitatimende Somthetho Wezinqubomgomo Zokusekelwa Kwabantwana
Isimiso sidinga inkantolo ukuba iqondise umzali ongenayo imithwalo yemfanelo yansuku zonke yengane ukukhokha isabelo sesibopho sokusekelwa kwengane ngokusekelwe ezintweni ezithile, njengenzuzo, inani lezinye izingane, njll. Umbuso ngamunye ulandela ifomu ehlukile ukunquma izibopho zokusekela. Uma abazali benomntwana ofanayo, amaphesenti angamashumi amahlanu esikhathi, ngokuvamile, inkantolo ingase ingahle iyala ukuthi umzali akhokhele ukusekelwa kwengane. Kodwa-ke, ezinye izifunda zingase zithwale isibopho sokusekelwa kwengane, esinqunywe yifomula yokusekela ingane esebenzayo futhi ihlukanise isibopho ngesigamu, kanjalo sifinyelele ngesamba esifanele.
Kwamanye amazwe, ukusekelwa kwengane kubalwa ngokusekelwe ezinsukwini ezingakanani ingane echitha nomzali.
Kwezinye uthi, emva kokuba isibopho sokuxhaswa esiphezulu samukelwa, umzali onomholo omkhulu noma isabelo somthwalo wesondlo sabantwana angabhekwa njengowomzali ongabheki, ngakho-ke kufanele akhokhe leso sabelo kumunye umzali ngaphandle ifomula izoletha umphumela ongalungile.
Uma kunjalo, ngokwengqondo yayo, inkantolo ingalawula inani elisha lokusekelwa kwengane elizobe lilungile kubo bobabili abazali.
Izivumelwano Ezihlanganyelwe Ukusekelwa Kwengane Kwabazali Phakathi Kwabazali
Abanye abazali banesivumelwano somlomo, esivumela ukuba bagweme ukukhokhela ukusekelwa kwengane uma ingane ingekho ukunakekelwa komzali oqondene nabo. Ukwengeza, ezinye izivumelwano ezibhaliwe zizobhekana ngqo lapho uxhaswa khona. Kodwa-ke, izifunda eziningi azivumeli ukuyeka ukusekelwa kwengane lapho izingane zihambela noma zigcinwe ngumzali okhokhela ukusekelwa kwengane; lokho kungase kube yinkinga ngoba izidingo eziqhubekayo ezinganeni - ezifana nemisebenzi engaphezulu kwezemfundo, izinkokhelo zedokotela, noma amalungiselelo ezindlu - kuzodingeka zikhokhwe ngisho nalapho ingane ingekho lowo mzali.
Izinto ezicatshangwa ekunqumeni / ekuguquleni okuhlanganyelweyo Ukusekelwa kwabantwana:
- Ikhono lomzali ngamunye ukugcina izindlu ezihlukene zengane
- Izindleko zezimali ezingavamile ezivela ngenxa yokulungiswa kokubambisana (okungukuthi izindleko zokunakekela izingane ezengeziwe, izindleko zokugqoka, noma izindleko zokuhamba)
Kunezizathu eziningana zokuthi kungani umzali kufanele aqhubeke nokuhlinzeka ukusekelwa kwabantwana ekuhlelweni kokugcinwa kokubambisana. Okubaluleke kakhulu, izinkokhelo zokusekela izingane ngokuvamile zihlinzeka ngokulungiswa okulula kubantwana; izinkokhelo nazo zinomthelela omuhle entweni yenhlalakahle yengane, ukusebenza esikoleni kanye nokulungiswa komphakathi jikelele.
Abazali kufanele bazame ukwenza isivumelwano mayelana nokusekelwa kwezingane ekuhlelweni kokubambisana. Abazali bangakha uhlelo lokubeletha ukulandelela izindleko nokugcina ukukhulumisana okuvulekile uma / uma imali edingekayo. Uma abazali bengakwazi ukuxhumana ngokuphumelelayo, inkantolo ingakwazi ukuzimisela ngokukhokha okukhokhelwayo kokuxhasa izingane ekuhlelweni kokubambisana.
Ihlelwe nguJennifer Wolf.