Lungiselela ukuzwa kwezingane zamanye amazwe

Amathiphu abalulekile ekulalelweni kwengane yakho

Ukuya ekulalelweni kwengane yakho yokuqala kungesaba, ikakhulukazi kubazali abangajwayele inqubo yokugcinwa kwengane. Kodwa-ke, ngokuhlela kancane kancane kusengaphambili, ungabonisa icala elikhohlisayo futhi unqobe ukugcinwa kwengane. Ngaphandle kokusebenza eduze nommeli wakho wokugcina ingane, sebenzisa lezi zinsiza ezilandelayo ukuze ulungiselele ukuzwa kwakho.

Amathiphu Okubalulekile Kokuzwa Kwentuthuko Yengane Yakho

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Qondisisa Imithetho Yomntwana Esimweni Sakho

Imithetho yokugcinwa kwabantwana ihlukahluka kombuso kuya kombuso. Ngakho-ke, enye yezinto zokuqala okudingeka ukwenze ijwayele imithetho yokugcina ingane embusweni ophethe ukulalela kwakho. Ukufunda ukuphrinta okuhle kungaba nzima, kodwa kuzokusiza ukuba uzithole ukuthi yini ophikisana nayo ngaphambi kokuya ekulalelweni kwengane yakho. Ukufunda emithethweni yakamuva kungakusiza ukulungisa uhlu lwemibuzo yokubuza ummeli wakho njengoba usuku lwakho lwenkantolo lusondela.

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Qonda izinga eliphansi lomzali

Izinga elingcono lomzali liqala uma umzali ecela ukugcinwa kuphela. Ngokuyinhloko, ijaji kumele liqiniseke ukuthi omunye umzali ungcono kunomunye, okungaba nzima ukufakazela. Ukuze uzilungiselele kangcono ukulalela ingane yakho, qiniseka ukuthola ukuthi yiziphi izinkantolo ezisesimweni sakho ozifunayo futhi uthintane nommeli wakho mayelana nokuthi ungabonisa kanjani ukuthi ungumnakekeli ongcono kakhulu wezingane zakho.

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Letha Amadokhumenti Okufanele eNkantolo

Sebenzisana nommeli wakho ukuthola ukuthi yimaphi amadokhumenti okuzolethela ukugcinwa kwengane yakho nokuzwa ukuthi amarekhodi akho siqu azovunyelwa. Angase asikisele ukuthi ulethe irekhodi yocingo eningiliziwe, isimiso sokuvakasha esichaziwe, ubufakazi bokukhokha izingane, kanye namanye amanothi.

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Funda i-Courtroom Etiquette efanele

Abazali abanethemba lokunakekela izingane kumele baziphathe ngendlela efanele enkantolo noma engozini yokulahlekelwa ukulalela ingane. Xoxa ngezimfanelo ezifanele zomthetho wenkantolo nommeli wakho ukuze uthole ukuqonda okungcono kwalokho okulindelekile, kanye nanoma yimiphi imingcele okumele uyibuke. Ngaphezu kwalokho, yenza indima ethile edlala nommeli wakho kusengaphambili, uma kungenzeka, futhi uqinisekise ukuthi uqonda okulindelwe okuvezwe ngaphambi kokuvela kwakho enkantolo.

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Yazi Yini Ongayilindela Ngesikhathi Sengane Yakho Yokulalela Ukulalela

Ukulalelwa kwezingane ezingaphansi kwesigceme kuvame ukungabi nenhlanhla noma yokuncintisana kunamanye amacala enkantolo. Abazali abafuna ukunqoba izingane kumele bazi ukuthi yini okufanele balindele kusengaphambili ukuze bakwazi ukulungele futhi balindele isinyathelo ngasinye senqubo. Iminye imininingwane abantu abaningi abangazi ukuthi amacala okugcinwa kwezingane akuzwakala ngaphambi kwejaji; okugcinwe ngamacala obugebengu. Icala lakho lizokwethula phambi kwejaji, futhi uzokwenza izinqumo futhi akhiphe ukugcinwa kwezingane. Uzoba nelungelo lokukhalaza umyalelo, kodwa ngeke kunqunywe yijaji.

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Indlela Yokugqoka Ngokwezingane Zakho Ukuzwa

Okokugcina, abazali abanethemba lokunakekela izingane kumele bahlelele ukuveza umbono wokuqala. Izambatho ezifanele zendlu yenkantolo akufanele neze zishaywa indiva. Uthola ithuba elilodwa lokwenza umbono omuhle kuqala kujaji. Ngaphambi kokuba azwe icala lakho noma aze azi ngisho negama lomntanakho, uzokwenza umbono wakho ngokubukeka okusekelwe. Ngakho-ke khuluma nommeli wakho ngalokho okufanele ukugqoke futhi uqinisekise ukuthi uzethula ekukhanyeni okuhle kakhulu ekulalelweni kwengane yakho.

Ihlelwe nguJennifer Wolf.