Ukubhalisa ukugcinwa kwesitoreji okwesikhashana akusikho okunzima ukukwenza, futhi kungavikela izingane zakho ezimweni lapho ungatholakali ukuhlinzekela ukunakekelwa kwazo. Isibonelo, nasi ezinye zezimo lapho umzali oyedwa engadinga ukunikeza umgcini womthetho wesikhashana:
- UChenille ungumama ongashadile ohamba emsebenzini. Ngenxa yokuthi u-ex wakhe akahileleki ekuphileni kwezingane, udinga ukusayina abazali bakhe ngesikhathi esifanayo uma eyazi ukuthi uzoba emgwaqeni isikhathi eside.
- ULarissa ungumzali ongabodwa wezempi okhonza e-US Army. Uma esetjenziswa, ubeka umgcini wezomthetho okwesikhashana wezingane zakhe ukuze anikeze ukunakekelwa kwabo ngenkathi ephuma ezweni.
- UMarco usemuva ekudakiseni izidakamizwa futhi unikeze abazali bakhe imvume okwesikhashana aze athole umsebenzi futhi abuyele ezinyaweni zakhe.
Lezi zimelela izibonelo ezimbalwa nje. Nakuba kungakaze kube yisinqumo esilula, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ungayina kanjani ukugcinwa kwesitoreji okwesikhashana lapho kwenzeka khona. Futhi ngenhlanhla, inqubo akuyona yonke into enzima. Eqinisweni, inselelo enkulu kunquma ukuthi ubani ocela usizo!
Ubani Ozokhathalela Izingane Zakho?
Uma unquma ukuthi ngubani ozokwenza umgcinisi womntwana wakho okwesikhashana, cabanga ngalokhu okulandelayo:
- Isikhathi seminyaka yabantwana bakho nezidingo. Izingane ezincane zizodinga ukunakekelwa nokunakekelwa okwengeziwe. Noma kunjalo, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi intsha ingabhekana nezinkinga ezahlukene ngesikhathi sokungabikho komzali okwesikhashana. Sebenzisa isikhashana ucabange ngobuntu bakho bezingane zakho, ukuthi bangase baphendule kanjani, futhi ubani ozofaneleka kakhulu ngezidingo zabo ezithile.
- Okuhlangenwe nakho kwesihlobo noma umngane ongabanika ukugcinwa okwesikhashana. Impendulo ebonakalayo ingase ibe ukufuna umzali omunye. Kodwa akudingeki ukhiphe abangani nezihlobo abangakabi nabantwana. Ngesikhathi ukhetha umgcini ophethe izingane ekhaya kungaba induduzo, okubaluleke nakakhulu ukuzimisela kwabo ukunikeza izingane zakho ukunakekelwa nokunakekelwa abazidingayo!
- Amalungiselelo okuphila okungenzeka. Ukulala embhedeni ngezimpelasonto akuyona into enkulu, kodwa uma ubheke ukuthi kudingeka ukunikezela isikhathi esithile isikhathi esithile, uzofuna ukukhetha umuntu onesikhala esanele sokuhlala izingane zakho ngendlela efanele.
Izizathu Zokusayina Ngokwezifiso Zesikhashana
Uma uhlela ukuba uhambe ubusuku obuthile nje, ungase uzibuze ukuthi ukusayina ngokusemthethweni ukugcinwa kwesitoreji kuyadingeka ngempela. Ngokuqinisekile, akunjalo. Noma kunjalo, kunezinye izinzuzo ezibalulekile zokusungula ukugcinwa kwesikhashana nomuntu omethembayo.
- Ukwamukela umqaphi okwesikhashana kuzokusiza ukuvimbela noma yikuphi ukungqubuzana okungenzeka ukuthi ngubani ophethe ukunakekelwa kwezingane zakho ngenkathi usuhambe.
- Ukwenza ngokusemthethweni othile umgcini wesikhashana kungamvumela ukuba avumele ngokushesha ukwelashwa, uma kunesidingo, kufanele izingane zakho zigule noma zilimale lapho ungekho.
- Ungabeka futhi imingcele ukuthi uzoba umgcini wesikhashana isikhathi esingakanani.
Indlela yokwenza umama wakho abe yisikhathi esincane sokuqinisekisa
- Phrinta ifomu lesondlo sokugcina.
- Gcwalisa ngokuphelele.
- Yiba nefomu lokugcinwa kwesikhashana lesaziso. Lesi sinyathelo esibalulekile siqinisekisa noma ubani othola ifomu (njengabasebenzi bezokwelapha) ukuthi ngempela isignesha yakho kwifomu.
Ukugwema Izingxabano
Okokugcina, uma u-ex wakho ehilelekile ekuzimpilweni kwezingane zakho, uzofuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uyazi ukuthi unika ukugcinwa okwesikhashana. Ezinye izivumelwano zokugcina izingane zichaza ukuthi omunye umzali 'uqale ukuphika' ezimweni lapho kudingeka khona umsizi wesibili (ngisho nomntwana). Ngakho-ke uzofuna ukufunda isivumelwano sakho sokugcina ngokucophelela futhi ucabange ukukhuluma nommeli.