Nakuba amandla amaningi enqatshelwe ekuvimbeleni ukukhulelwa kwentsha, akukho ukusekelwa okuncane kwabesifazane abaneminyaka engama-18 nangaphansi abathola ukukhulelwa kwesisu.
Ukuzizwa kwabantu abadala abangenakuzwela ngokuphathelene nokukhulelwa kwesisu kungahle kube kubi nakakhulu kubantu abasha, abavame ukutshelwa ukuthi, "Lokhu kuyisibusiso," noma "Lokhu kusebenzele okungcono," noma ngisho, "Unenhlanhla" - konke okubi kakhulu izinto ongakusho kumuntu ongeke nje abe nesipiliyoni esingokomzimba esibuhlungu, kodwa futhi nokulahlekelwa ngokomzwelo.
Esikhundleni salokho, intsha kufanele iphathwe ngenhlonipho nangesihawu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kwesisu. Lena inkathi yokucindezeleka ngokomzwelo, ngokwengqondo, nangokwenyama empilweni yonke yabanye, futhi ihlanganisa ukuthi okuhlangenwe nakho okulukhuni kokukhulelwa kokukhulelwa kugcizelela lezo zinselelo kuphela.
Izisusa zokungathathi izidakamizwa ezinganeni
Intsha isengozini enkulu kakhulu yokukhulelwa kwesisu nokucindezeleka kokukhulelwa kunomuntu omdala osezingeni eliphezulu. Njengoba intsha eningi ingazi ukuthi ikhulelwe kuze kube yilapho ekhulelwe, noma ingabe ingafuni ukunakekelwa kokubeletha ukuze kugcinwe ukukhulelwa kube yimfihlo, izici zabo ezingozini zibe yingozi enkulu nakakhulu. Izingozi ezinjalo zibandakanya:
- Ubudala, ikakhulukazi kwentsha engu-15 nangaphansi
- Ukukhuluphala, inkinga ekhulayo phakathi kwabantwana babo bonke ubudala
- Ukuba nesisindo somzimba
- Izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi
- Ukusebenzisa kabi izidakamizwa, kuhlanganise utshwala nokusetshenziswa kogwayi
- Preeclampsia
- Isifo sikashukela
- Ukungabi nokunakekelwa kokubeletha
Ukwelashwa Kwangasese
Ngokuvamile, ukwelashwa kokukhipha isisu akufani neze nentsha kunabesifazane abadala.
Kubalulekile ukucabangela izimo ezimbalwa ezikhethekile ezithinta intsha, noma kunjalo:
- Ukungabi nalwazi. Ukukhulelwa phakathi neminyaka eyishumi nambili kuyisikhathi sokuqala sowesifazane, futhi intsha eningi ingakaze ibhekane nokuhlolwa komzimba; Empeleni, kungenzeka ukuthi abakaze baphathwe esibhedlela. Intsha izovame ukukhathazeka nokwesaba izinqubo kanye nezivivinyo ezingadingeka ukuba zibe yingxenye yokunakekelwa kwazo.
- Izinkinga Zokuvuma. Ngaphandle uma kwenzeka eziphuthumayo, izifunda eziningi zizodinga imvume yomzali enganeni ukuba athole ukwelashwa kokuphutha komzimba. Ngokuphindaphindiwe, lesi yisikhathi sokuqala umzali efunda ngokukhulelwa kwentombazane yakhe, okwenza ucindezeleke kakhulu esimweni esivele sinzima.
- Ukugwema Ukwelashwa. Kube khona amacala abasha abagwema ukwelashwa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kwesisu ngenxa yokwesaba ukungena enkingeni nabazali, kanye nokwesaba ukwahlulelwa ngabangane, emndenini nasezifundweni zezokwelapha. Intombazane ephathelene nokulahlekelwa yedwa ngeke ifunde izimpawu zokuxwayisa zezinkinga , njengokutheleleka, ukuphuma ngokweqile, noma ukugcina i-placenta, futhi ingabeka impilo yayo engozini.
- Amalungelo Omlingani. Kuye ngomthetho wendawo, inqubomgomo yesibhedlela, nokuthandwa kwabazali, ezinye izinto ezibalulekile ezinganeni zingavunyelwe ukuba khona ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kwesisu. Lokhu kungaba nzima kona kokubili kwentsha kanye nomunye wakhe ophawulekayo, inqubo yakhe yosizi ingathinteka.
- Izinkinga Zezomthetho. Kwezinye izimo, ubunzima obungokomzwelo bokukhulelwa kwesisu kuzoba nezinkinga zomthetho. Ngokuya komntwana osemusha ngesikhathi sokulahlekelwa ukukhulelwa, isisebenzi sezenhlalakahle esibhedlela singase sibophezele ukubika leli cala ezinsizakweni zomphakathi njengokudlwengulwa ngokomthetho.
Izinkinga Zokubuyisela
Njengomunye umuntu emva kokulahlekelwa ukukhulelwa, intsha inezindaba zokutakula ezingokomzimba nezingokomzwelo zokubhekana nazo. Njengomusha, kungenzeka kube nezinkinga ezengeziwe ekubhekaneni.
- Ukuziphendulela. Intsha ingase ibe nomuzwa wokuthi unecala ngokukhulelwa okokuqala, futhi inecala ngokulahlekelwa kwayo. Le mizwa ingaba yinkinga yecala uma intsha izwa ingakhululekile ukuthi ukukhulelwa kwakhe kuphelile ngaphandle kwengane okufanele ayikhathalele.
- Ukungabi Nesekelo. Intsha ingabhekana nokuthukuthela kubazali bayo, futhi isahlulelo sontanga-kanye nomndeni-nganoma yikuphi ukukhulelwa. Ukuntula ukusekelwa kwezenhlalakahle kungabangela imizwa yokudabuka, futhi kungabangela ukuthuthukiswa kokucindezeleka .
- Amazwana angenayo. Njengoba kuboniswe ngenhla, abantu abaningi bazizwa bekhululekile ngokukhululekile bekhuluma ngokungafanelekile kwentsha ngemuva kokukhulelwa kwesisu. Kungenxa yokuthi ingane ingase ingahle ihlele ukukhulelwa ayisho ukuthi wayengazizwa eboshiwe nomntanakhe, kungakhathaliseki ukufaneleka kwesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Ukumbiza ngokuthi "inhlanhla" noma ukukhanyisa ukulahlekelwa kwakhe kwenza intombazane inomuzwa wokuthi ubuhlungu bayo abubalulekile noma abukeli. Lokhu ukungabi nokuzwela kungenza inselele inzima kakhulu.
- Ukutholwa kokuqala ngokufa. Kwabanye abasha, ukukhulelwa kabi kungase kube yinto yabo yokuqala "ngokufa," futhi amakhono okubhekana nawo angase angakabi okwanele. Intombazane ingazizwa ihlukaniswe kakhulu kule simo.
- Ukulahlekelwa Ubuntwana. Ngisho nentombazane evuthiwe ngokuqinisekile ngeke ishintshwe ngokuhlangenwe nakho kokukhulelwa nokulahlekelwa okulandelayo. Ukubhekana nemizwa yokudabuka kungaba nzima nakakhulu lapho intombazane ibhekana nokulahlekelwa kwesigaba somntwana sokuphila kwakhe.