Izipho ezicabangelayo neziphefumulayo zamaMama amaNICU

Izipho eziphezulu zezitha kanye nemindeni yabo

Akukho lutho olunjengomntwana omusha. Injabulo emoyeni, ukulangazela kokubona, ukubamba, nokumanga umntwana wakho osanda kuzalwa okokuqala. Umndeni wakho nabangani bakho balinde ngesineke ukuvakashela wena kanye nosana lwakho esibhedlela ngezimbali, uhalalisela amakhadi, namabhaluni esesandleni.

Kodwa kwenzekani lapho ingane yakho izalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi noma idinga ukunakekelwa okukhethekile ku- NICU ? Konke lokhu kuyashesha ngokushesha, futhi ngokuvamile ushiywa uzizwa usodwa futhi wesaba .

Izinsuku zokuqala ku-NICU akuyona into encane yokwesabisa. Okungaziwa, ukuthi yini-uma, nokudideka ngalokho okuzokwenzeka? Unemibuzo eminingi kakhulu, futhi umndeni wakho nabangane kaningi bashiywa ngemibuzo eminingi kakhulu. Bakhathazekile ngawe, futhi bakhathazekile ngomntwana wakho naye. Bafuna ukukusekela, kodwa izikhathi eziningi abazi nje ukuthi bangazi kanjani. Ngezinye izikhathi uthi izinto noma izenzo zenziwa okungenzeka ngenhloso enhle, kodwa zingakushiya uzizwe ucindezelekile, wedwa, noma ungaqondakali kahle.

Kubomndeni nabangane-kufanele 'ukugubha' kanjani ukufika kokuqala? Uvuma kanjani lo mcimbi obalulekile, lokhu kuphila okuncane okuyigugu? Uzisiza kanjani abazali ukuba babhekane nokuthola umntwana ku-NICU, futhi yini ongayenza ukuze unganikeli kuphela kodwa futhi usize abazali ngokusebenzisa uhambo lwe-NICU? Ufuna ukwenza okuthile; ufuna ukukhombisa ukunakekelwa nokuthi ucabanga ngabo, kodwa kanjani nokuthi kanjani?

Ukukhetha isipho esiwusizo nesisusa umzali omusha we-NICU kungaba yinkinga enkulu. Okulandelayo kuzokusiza ukukuqondisa ngale nqubo enzima.

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Uthando

Akukho lutho olungcono kunokuba ubambe isikhumba sakho esikhumbeni kulokho okubizwa nge-Kangaroo Care. Lesi esinye sezipho ezimangalisa kakhulu futhi ezingenayo izindleko abazali ababeletha ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Kodwa-ke, amancane amayunithi okunakekelwa kakhulu ahlinzekwa ngukuhlinzeka ngokuhlinzeka ngempahla enhle kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni isikhumba nesikhumba. Isipho esinothando nesicabangela kakhulu esivumela isikhathi esihle kakhulu sokudla kangcono kungatholakala lapha.

Ukushiya ingane ku-NICU nokuphuma ngaphandle kweminyango yesibhedlela ngezandla ezingenalutho kungenye yezinto ezithinta inhliziyo kakhulu umama angakwazi ukubhekana nazo. Akukho okushiwo noma okwenzayo kungathatha ubuhlungu obukhulu futhi obungenakulinganiswa. Mbonise ukuthi uyamkhathalela nokuthi uyaqonda ngalesi sipho esicabangela inhliziyo esivumayo esivumela iphunga lomama ukuba lihlale nomntanakhe, ukusiza induduzo, ukuphulukisa, nokunciphisa uma engekho ngokomzimba ku- NICU .

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Ithemba

Amabhuku Abazali:

Uhambo ngokusebenzisa i-NICU kungaba inselele kakhulu ngokomzwelo; ukungazi ukuthi yini ongayilindela noma ukuthi ikusasa elibambe linzima kakhulu. Amabhuku abhalwe ngabazali bengane esengaphambi kwesikhathi abangekhona nje kuphela kodwa aphume ngaphesheya angasiza kakhulu futhi aphulukise. Ezinye izincwadi ezikhuthazayo zingatholakala lapha napha.

Amabhuku wezingane:

Ngokuvamile abazali bachitha amahora njalo ngosuku olulodwa embhedeni wengane yabo, behlezi, bethandaza futhi bexhumana nomntanakho. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi abazali abakhulume kakhulu ezitheni zabo babasiza ukuba bathuthukise amakhono nolwazi lokuqonda. Ukugcwalisa ibhasikidi eligcwele izincwadi ezinganeni kuyisipho esihle, hhayi kuphela ezinsukwini zakuqala ze-NICU kodwa ukuthi izindaba ezinamagugu nezenjongo zizobambelela kuwo wonke ubuntwana. Izincwadi ezinjengalezi ziyizindaba ezinhle futhi ezikhuthazayo ezinganeni ezingaphambi kwesikhathi.

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Ukuphefumulelwa

Ezinye izipho ezicatshangelwayo nezikhunjulwa zihlanganisa isithombe esakhiwe ngenjongo, izingcaphuno ezikhuthazayo, imicabango, noma izinkondlo ezisiza ukuphakamisa imimoya njengoba abazali bebhekana nezinsuku ezinzima kakhulu. Amanothi e-crib afana nalawa enza izipho ezincane ezimangalisayo enikeza ukugqugquzela okukhuthazayo ukuqhubeka phambili, kusiza abazali ukuba bathathe usuku olulodwa ngesikhathi futhi bagxile ezintweni ezinhle zohambo.

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Imemori

I- NICU ayikho ohlelweni lokuzalwa lomuntu. Izipho zokuwasha zezingubo ezincane ezincane ezisanda kuzalwa kanye nama-booties manje kufanele zilinde. Izithombe zezithombe ezisanda kuzalwa ze-"Anne Geddes" manje azitholakali, futhi incwadi yezingane kuya ezinkundleni zezintatheli kanye nokuphumelela kwezinsana ngokuvamile kuvaliwe kungenalutho, njengoba uhambo lweNICU luhluke kakhulu nolusana olusanda kuzalwa.

Kodwa, lokhu akusho ukuthi lezi zinto akufanele zivunywe noma zigujwa. Ukwenza lezi zinkumbulo, ukubaluleka, nokuziqopha konke kubaluleke kakhulu futhi eminyakeni ezayo, kuzoba lezi zinkumbulo ezizobaluleka impilo yonke.

Ungabasiza Kanjani Abazali Ukuthatha Lezi Khumbula?

Izithombe ezinsukwini zakuqala: Izibhedlela eziningi zinikeza izithombe ezishadile kodwa kaningi lapho ingane isilungele ukukhishwa ku-NICU. Ukudweba uhambo kanye nezinye izinsuku zokuqala kuzosiza abazali ukuba bangakhumbuli kuphela kodwa babhale ezinye zezinto ezibalulekile. Ukuthola i-photographer enjengale noma lena engakwazi ukuthatha lezi zikhathi futhi ukusiza ukurekhoda lezi zinkumbulo isipho esibaluleke kakhulu.

Izambatho zokuqala zezitha zingase zifike izinsuku, amasonto, noma ngisho nezinyanga emva kokuzalwa. Ukugqoka ingane okokuqala kungenye yezinto ezibalulekile kakhulu. Siza abazali ukuba bagubhe ngalesi sikhathi ngomshini noma i-onsi engacabangi kuphela kodwa futhi ingaba i-keepsake, okusiza ukukhumbula izinsuku zakuqala ze-NICU.

Uhambo lokuhamba . I-NICU ingabangela imizwelo abazali abangakaze bazi ukuthi ikhona, imizwelo enamandla kangangokuthi kuphela labo abaye baphila ngayo bangaqonda ngempela. Ngokungaqiniseki konke ukuhlala kwe-NICU kuletha, kunzima ngempela ukuthatha isikhathi sokugubha lokhu kuphila okusha. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqaphela uhambo, imizwelo, okufeziwe, kanye nezinselele, nokugubha bonke.

Abazali, Uhambo lokuhamba:

• Tshela indaba yamandla, isibindi, ithemba, nokuphulukiswa.
• Ukusiza ukunciphisa ubuhlungu obungokomzwelo bokuhlangenwe nakho kwe-NICU, ukuncipha kwengcindezi nokukhathazeka.
• Nikeza izindlela zokurekhoda nokuhlanganyela uhambo lwabo, ukunikeza umugqa wesikhathi kanye nendlela ebonakalayo yokugubha impumelelo ngayinye yezemigomo ngendlela enhle futhi enamandla.
• Buyisela umuzwa wokuzibheka, uzikhuthaze ukuba uqhubekele phambili, wazi ukuthi abodwa.
• Letha induduzo ngesikhathi sokucindezeleka kanye nomoya wenjabulo ohambweni lwabo.

I-NICU Journey Ubuhlalu inikeza indlela abazali ukuba batshele ngayo indaba yabo, indaba yengane yabo, futhi baqaphele, babhale, futhi bagubhe uhambo endleleni.

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Ukusekela

Ake sibhekane nakho. Uma ungazange ube khona, awusoze waqonda ngempela ukuthi kunjani ukuba nomntwana ku-NICU. Ukusekelwa kwalabo abaye bahamba uhambo futhi bebekhona kungenza umehluko emhlabeni. Finyelela kulawa maqembu ama-preemie abazali kumalungu wakho noma ilungu lomndeni bese uhlanganisa uhlu lwamawebhusayithi afana nalolu noma lolu lunganika ukusekelwa ezingeni lendawo noma cishe. Ungase futhi uhlele iphakheji lokunakekelwa komzali we-NICU lapha. Qinisekisa othandekayo wakho ukuthi akulungile kuphela kodwa kubalulekile ukukhuluma ngohambo futhi ufune usizo oluvela kulabo abatholakalayo ukunikeza isandla esiqondisayo nesothando.

Khumbula ukuthi inombolo eyodwa ongayenza ihlinzeka ukwesekwa kwakho. Ukwazi ukuthi umndeni nabangane bakhathalele ngempela bangenza umehluko emhlabeni kubazali ababhekana nohambo oluyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu ekuphileni kwabo.