Ukuhlonipha uSuku Lokuqala Lokuqeda Isikhathi , ake sigubhe ubuhle bawo bonke abantwana be-preemie nayo yonke imindeni ye-preemie. Kodwa ake sithathe isikhashana ukukhumbula umzabalazo wangempela we-prematurity.
Kuyini Ukuqeda Ukuqeda?
Akusikho okufunwa ngumzali. Ever.
Kuyinto ephazamisayo ukuhamba ensimini engaziwa.
Ushayelwa umzabalazo onzima kakhulu wokubeletha ngaphambi kokuba uhlangane nomntanakho.
Kusho ukuzalwa okuzungezwe ukwesaba nokungaqiniseki esikhundleni sokujabula nokugubha.
Kusho ukungabi ndawonye, umzali nengane.
Kusho UKUHAMBISA ingane yakho.
Kuzwa sengathi kunqanyuliwe kusuka kumuntu oyedwa endaweni yonke owawukulindele ukuxhuma nayo.
Iphenduka ukulindela okujabulisayo ezinqumweni ezingenakwenzeka.
Kusho ukuzwa amagama afana nokuthi "ukukhubazeka, ukugabuka, ukuphuphuthekisa, izinga lokusinda" lapho lokho okufisa ukukuzwa kwakukuthi "Siyakuhalalisela! Ukuphelela! Kuyajabulisa! Kuyamangalisa!"
Kumele ucele imvume yokuthinta ingane yakho siqu.
Kuthiwa, "cha, awukwazi ukuthinta ingane yakho okwamanje."
Yamahora wokulinda, izinsuku, ngisho namasonto ngaphambi kokuthi ukwazi ukubamba ingane yakho.
Kusho ukubona ingane yakho ebuthakathaka, esesabekayo embozwe imishini eminingi kangangokuthi awukwazi ukubona ingane ingaphansi kwayo yonke into.
Kusho ukuthatha ukusho okuhle futhi uhambe kude nomntanakho, usuku nosuku.
Kusho ukukhala lapho uhamba, ubusuku emva kobusuku.
Kufunda ngemishini ephezulu yezokwelapha ezifana ne-ventilator kanye namathole wokudla lapho uthanda ukufunda ngezingane ezihamba phambili kanye ne-diaper usula abashisayo.
Kudinga ukuthi uhlangane nabantu abaningi kunakho okungenzeka ukhumbule, bonke babo abonakala bazi okuningi mayelana nomntanakho okwedlula wena.
Kusho ukuhlangana nabahlengikazi abazobe bethinta ingane yakho, bondle ingane yakho, bathe ingane yakho futhi bayigubha ingane yakho uma ufuna ukuyenza ngokwakho.
Kuyinto epitome yokungabi nokulawula.
Kusho ukufunda okuningi ngokunakekelwa kwezingane kubantu abangabazi - abahlengikazi bakho be- NICU , abahlinzayo bokuphefumula, ababelapha ngokomzimba nokuningi.
Kusho ukwazi abantu abakukhathalelayo, kanye nomntanakho, ngokujulile kunalokho owakulindele.
Ifunda amagama amasha ongazange wazi ukuthi ukhona, njenge-CPAP, i-bradycardia, i-desat, ne-apnea. Amazwi ongathanda ukungazi.
Ikhuphuka konke ebusuku, ubusuku bonke, endlini engenalutho ene-nursery engenalutho ngosuku oluthile lomshini wokubamba . Noma kusho ukulahlekelwa ithemba lokunakekela ingane yakho ubisi lwakho.
Kufunda ukuthola izintandane zakho zokubeletha ngaphansi kokucindezeleka okukhulu.
Kodwa ufunda ukuthembela emasikweni akho , futhi uma uzithola ulungile, kuyajabulisa kakhulu kunalokho obeke wacabanga .
Ifunda ukwenza izinguquko ze-diaper nge-tubing iv, ukuhola okuqapha, imigqa ye-PICC, kanye nezinkabi ze-pulse endleleni futhi ufunde ukuziguqula njenge-pro .
Ifuna ukubekezela okungenakwenzeka. Kodwa ukwaneliseka lapho ukubekezela kukhokha? Akubalulekile.
Kugubha lokho okwakungabonakala njengokufezekisa okuncane, okufana nokuzuza kwesisindo se-5-gram noma isipuni sebisi esithathwe ebhodleleni.
Noma nje ukubamba ingane yakho.
Kugujwa neminye imindeni eqonda kahle ukuthi uyaphi.
Kusho ukuthi uzizwa uwedwa, ngoba abangane bakho endala nomndeni wakho abaziqondi kahle.
Kukhala ngaphezu kwakho konke okwakulindele ukukhala, bese ukhalela kakhulu ngenxa yalokho okushiwo enye imindeni eceleni kwakho.
Kunzima ukugcina ukholo, nokuzama ukuqonda konke.
Kuyingozi kakhulu ngokomzwelo - umhawu wama-moms esigcwele, intukuthelo emzimbeni wakho ngokukuyeka, unecala lokuthile ongazange ukwazi ukulawula.
Ukubhekana nalawo mzwelo usuku nosuku, futhi usathola amandla okubuyela emuva ku-NICU futhi ukwenze njalo .
Kufunda ukuthanda abahlengikazi abakufundisayo kahle, abasiza ekumomotheka, nabathanda ingane yakho.
Kuzwa ukubonga okutholwa okusha ngezinto ezincane kakhulu.
Kuthola abangane abasha obungakaze wenze ngaphambi kwalokhu, labo abaqonda lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho okuyingqayizivele, okuyingqayizivele.
Ukuthola ukuqiniseka ngokwengeziwe ukuthi ungayinakekela kanjani ingane yakho, emva kwezinsuku eziningi nobusuku obunjalo, imvelo engenayo.
Akungakholelwa ukuthi ingane yakho, eqala kancane kakhulu futhi enesibindi, manje isilungele ukuya ekhaya.
Kuyesaba emcabangweni wokulahlekelwa abaqapheli ukuthi bakuqaphele konke ukuphefumula nokushaya kwenhliziyo - abaqapheli abagcina ingane yakho iphephile ngalesi sikhathi.
Kusho ukwesaba ukuthatha ingane yakho ekhaya ngenkathi ngesikhathi esifanayo ujabula ngokwengeziwe kunalokho owacabanga ukuthi kungenzeka.
Kusho ukuhlala nazo zonke lezi zinkathazo, ukwesaba, nokukhathazeka, kodwa nokho uzivumela ukuba uthande ngokuphelele futhi uthembe ngokujulile naphezu kwakho konke .
Njengoba lo mama esho, ithola.
Kodwa nakho kuyamangalisa, ukuthobeka, ukukhuthazeka nokuhle.
Kuyinkinga.
Kuyinto uthando.
Kweminye imindeni, akulona lokhu kunzima. Kwabanye, kuningi, kunzima nakakhulu. Futhi masingalokothi sikhohlwe imindeni esibhekene nesikhathi sokuqeda ukulimala. Ngoba kwabanye, ukuguqulwa kwangaphambi kokuqala kusho ukuthi akalokothi ulethe ingane yabo ekhaya. Kusasho ukuthi uthando, futhi lisho ukubeletha, kodwa kusho nokulahlekelwa okungenakubekezelela. Ungabasiza kanjani?
Ungasiza kanjani
Ukuqeda isimo sokuqala kuyinkinga enkulu emhlabeni jikelele. Kunezinhlangano eziningi ezinhle ezizama ukwenza umehluko. Nazi izindawo ezimbalwa ezifanele ukuvakashelwa:
Ukusekela kokuSebenza kokuSungulwa kwe-US
Yonke Into Encane - Isitolo se-Inthanethi ne-NICU nezipho kanye nemikhiqizo ekhethekile ye-préemie
I-Grahams Foundation - Abazali abanamandla bama-prevoc ngokusebenzisa ukusekela, ukugqugquzela nokucwaninga
Bamba Ukubambelela - Usizo lwe-Preemie abazali ngokusekela kontanga, imfundo, kanye nezinsiza
I-Preemie Thing - Izithako ezithandekayo, ezimnandi ezigubha yonke into ye-preemie
I-Small Giraffe Foundation - Ucwaningo lwezimali nokusekelwa kwabazali bokungakafiki
March of Dimes - Ukuthuthukisa impilo yezingane ngokuvimbela ukukhubazeka kokuzalwa, ukuzalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi, nokushona kwezingane.
Ukuphulukiswa kwe-NICU - Ukwelashwa kwe-NICU eqondene nomuntu ngamunye nomndeni, kanye ne-blog nokufundisa nokusekela
I-NICU Ukusiza Amandla - "Ukusekelwa Komndeni kokuqala okubuthakathaka"
I-Parijat Deshpande - Ukusekela kanye nezinsiza kubomama abanokukhulelwa okuphezulu
I-Peekaboo ICU - NICU umhlengikazi owaziyo ohambweni lokungakafiki
I-Zoe Rose Foundation - Ukusekela, imfundo, nokuvikela imindeni yabantwana abasebancane
Ukusekelwa kwe-Preemie yamazwe ngamazwe
Ukujabulisa - Ukusekelwa kwe-Prematurity (England)
Insiza ye-Neonatal Trust - Prematurity (eNew Zealand)
Isisekelo Sabantwana Basemangalisa - Ukusekela, imfundo, kanye nemithombo yemindeni yezingane ezisanda kuzalwa nezigulayo (Australia)
I-National Premmie Foundation - Inhlangano kazwelonke e-Australia kubazali ababelethwe ngaphambi kwesikhathi noma ukulahlekelwa yilabo abashadile. Kuyinto inethiwekhi enkulu yokusekelwa kwe-preemie e-Australia.