Izindleko zokuHlelwa Kwezimali Zokungcwaba
Umbuzo akekho owake wafuna ukubuza: "Uhlela kanjani umngcwabo wengane?" Ukuhlela inkonzo yesikhumbuzo somntwana, noma kunjalo, yindlela eyodwa abazali abangayenza ngayo isikhashana ukukhumbula ingane yabo kanye nabangani nomndeni uma bekhetha.
Abantu abaningi abazi ukuthi bangaphila ukulungiselela umngcwabo, futhi lokho kulungile. Ayikho inhlangano ethize okufanele ihlangabezane nenkonzo, futhi into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ihlonipha ingane yakho nganoma iyiphi indlela ehlangabezana nezidingo zakho nomlingani wakho.
Ake sixoxe ngezinye zezinto ongafisa ukuzifaka, kusukela kumculo kuya ekufundeni, kanye nezinsiza ezitholakalayo njengoba usila.
Ukunquma Ngomngcwabo Umntwana
Umbuzo wokuqala ngaphambi kokuqhubeka phambili ukunquma uma ufuna umngcwabo noma uhlobo oluthile lwenkonzo yokhumbuza ingane yakho. Futhi, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi ayikho indlela efanele noma engalungile. Abanye abantu bafisa isikhumbuzo esincane nesingasese, kanti abanye bamukela ukwesekwa kweqembu elikhulu labangane nomndeni. Isevisi yakho ingafana nesevisi yendabuko kumuntu omdala, noma elula njengokuchitha imizuzu embalwa emthandazweni othulile emathuneni.
(Funda kabanzi ngokuhlela umngcwabo wengane elahlekile ngokukhulelwa komzimba noma ukubeletha .)
Izinyathelo Zokuhlela Inkonzo Yesikhumbuzo Yengane
Isinyathelo sakho sokuqala ukuthi unqume ukuthi ufuna umngcwabo noma isikhumbuzo somntwana wakho, bese ngabe ufuna umngcwabo wendabuko noma umhlangano omncane wabantu abambalwa.
Le nsizakalo ingahluka kusukela enkonzweni yesonto kuya embuthaneni emathuneni ukuze usebenzise isikhathi esincane engadini. Uma uzobe ukhetha ukungcwaba ngaphezulu kokushiswa, ikhaya lakho lomngcwabo lizokuqondisa kuzo zonke izinqumo. Ngokushisa, abanye abazali bakhetha ukulinda isikhashana ngaphambi kokuthi babe nesikhumbuzo ukunquma ukuthi bafuna ukwenzani ngomlotha.
Abanye abantu bafisa ukugcina umlotha embizeni ekhethekile, kanti abanye bakhetha ukuwasabalalisa endaweni ekhethekile ehlonipha ingane.
Ngezansi sizokwabelana ngokunye kokufundwa-kusuka kumaKristu kuya kwezwe-kanye nomculo abazali abangase bafise ukuba yingxenye yensizakalo. Khumbula ukuthi akudingekile ukulandela uhlelo oluthile. Abanye abazali bafuna isikhathi esifushane sokuthandaza.
Nasi uhlu lwezinyathelo zokuhlela umngcwabo wendabuko noma wesikhumbuzo. Uma unenkinga yokwenza isinqumo, zama ukucabanga ngalokho okufunayo kunalokho okukholelwa kulindeleke kuwe.
Ukukhetha umculo ngomngcwabo wengane yakho
Umculo uvame ukuba yingxenye ekhuthazayo kakhulu enkonzweni yomngcwabo noma yesikhumbuzo futhi ikuvumela ukuba uveze imizwa yokuthi amagama ambalwa akwanele. Thatha isikhashana ubuyekeze amathiphu ambalwa ukuthi ungakhetha kanjani umngcwabo wengane noma ingane .
Njengawo wonke umsebenzi, azikho izinhlobo zomculo ezilungile noma ezingalungile ozozikhetha. Abanye abantu bakhetha izingoma zomuntu ongasese kanti abanye bakhetha ukucula izingoma. Abanye abantu bakhetha umculo wamaKristu kanti abanye bakhetha umculo wezwe. Ukukhetha okukhethwa kukho okukhethwa kukho yilokho okukholelwa ukuthi kuzodumisa ingane yakho futhi ukuveza imizwa yakho yokulahlekelwa, kanye / noma, kulabo abakholwa kukho kubalulekile, bakholelwa ethembeni elizayo.
Lolu hlu lwemikhakha yomculo yesikhathi samanje yomngcwabo wengane, kuhlanganise ne- Tears e- Eric Clapton eZulwini (eyabhalwa umngcwabo wengane yakhe eneminyaka engu-4 ubudala, uConor,) iveze imizwelo engafana nokulahlekelwa kwengane.
Ukukhetha ukufundwa kweSikhumbuzo
Kusukela ekufundeni okuphefumulelwe kuya izinkondlo, kunamakhetho amaningi angasiza ukuveza imizwelo lapho kunamagama ambalwa.
Lezi zifundo zobuKristu zomngcwabo wengane zihlanganisa imibhalo engase ihlinzeke induduzo kulabo abathola ukuthi kunzima ukubhekana nokufa kwengane engakabi nethuba lokuphila ngempela.
Zingaveza ukukhanya okuhlukile ngezizathu zokuthi kungani ngezinye izikhathi ukuhlupheka kuvunyelwe ezweni lethu elingaphelele.
Abanye abantu bangase bakhethe ukufundiswa okungokwenyama emngcwabeni wengane , abaningi babo abanganikeza izwi izinhlungu eziyingqayizivele zokufa kwezinsana.
Okokugcina, izinkondlo ezikhuthazayo zomngcwabo wengane zingasiza ukuveza imizwelo kanye nemizwa ngendlela enye ngaphandle kwezingqungquthela ezingafinyeleleki.
Ukubhekana Nokufa Kwezingane
Ukufa kwengane kuhlale kuyingozi, futhi kunemizwa eminingi ongayithola. Lokhu kungabuka ekuzizwa kungenamandla, ukuzwa sengathi impilo ilahlekelwe incazelo ekhethekile, ukukhululwa kwabazali abathile, njengoba abantwana babo bezama ukubhekana nokuphila ekugcineni. Ukubhekana nokufa kwengane akulula neze, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungazelelwe noma ngemva kokulwa kanzima.
Ukuthembela emndenini nabangane kungasiza, njengoba kungabheka okholweni lwakho. Abazali abaningi okufanele balondoloze inkumbulo yabo ngandlela-thile ngokuthatha izinwele, bakha insimu yokukhumbula , noma batshale isihlahla.
Kubangane Nomndeni: Ukusekela Abazali Abalahlekelwe Ingane
Uma kungumngane noma ilungu lomndeni olahlekelwe ngumntwana, kungenzeka ukuthi awunaso umqondo wokuthi ungathini (noma ungasho) kubazali . Uma uhlangabezane nokulahlekelwa noma usizi ngokwakho, cishe uyazi ukuthi izimpikiswano ezibuhlungu zingaba kanjani. Impendulo yakho engcono kakhulu ukulalela abathandekayo bakho futhi uqinisekise imizwa yabo noma ngabe yikuphi okwenzekayo. Kungabuye kube nokucabangela kakhulu ukubhala usuku ekhalendeni lakho futhi ufunde ngendlela ethile kubazali ngezinsuku zokugubha usuku, izinyanga neminyaka ezayo. Ungaqiniseka ukuthi abazali bazolila ukulahlekelwa kwabo ngenkathi bezwa belahlekile, njengoba wonke umhlaba ubonakala ungcono ukukwazi ukuqhubeka nokuphila.
Ngezansi Ukuhlela Umngcwabo Ngomntwana
Inkonzo yomngcwabo noma yesikhumbuzo evela emntwaneni ingaba lula njengokubuthana nabathandekayo abathandekayo emathuneni, njengokuhlelekile njengomngcwabo wendabuko, noma kuphi phakathi. Abantu abaningi bathola umculo noma ukufunda kuwusizo ukuveza ukuthi yimaphi amagama aphuthelwa yiwo kuphela, kodwa azikho izidingo kulokho okufanele ufake khona enkonzweni. Njengoba kuphawuliwe ekuqaleni, inhloso yomngcwabo wakho ukuhlonipha ingane yakho futhi ulethe abathandekayo ndawonye ukukusekela njengoba ususizi.
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