Lapho izikole zibeka ama-twins ukubeka ekilasini, abazali kufanele balwe
Abazali bamawele babhekene nezinselele eziningi. Ngamazinyane amabili, kukhona ubusuku bokulala, izinqwaba zama-diapers, nokuphakelayo kwe-clock-clock. Kodwa njengoba amawele amancane ekulungele ukuqala isikole, abazali bangase bazithole bebhekene nenkinga enkulu: isikole esibambelela ekuhlukaniseni izingane zabo emakilasini ahlukene, kanye nezingane eziphazamiseke ukuthi azikwazi ukuba ndawonye.
Yini abazali okufanele bayenze? Ngenye yezinkinga ezinkulu ezibhekene nabazali bamawele .
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi amathanga ahlanganyela ndawonye ekilasini elifanayo noma cha kuyinkinga ekhanga. Impendulo ihlukile kuyo yonke iqoqo lamawele, futhi isinqumo esifanele singashintsha unyaka nonyaka. Kunezizathu eziningi zokuncoma ukugcina amawele ndawonye kanye nabaningi abathanda amakilasi ahlukene amawele . Kodwa ngeshwa, ezimweni eziningi, imikhaya yamawele ayikho ilungelo lokunquma nhlobo. Esikhundleni salokho, isikole siyabakhetha. Futhi, ezimweni eziningi, isinqumo sesikole ukuhlukanisa amawele ngokusekelwe emibonweni engafanele, ulwazi olunqunyelwe, noma nje lula.
Kwamanye amazwe, umthetho uvikela amalungelo omndeni wamawele amabili ukuba abe negalelo ekufundeni kwezingane zabo. Kodwa yini abazali okufanele bayenze lapho bephikisana nezifiso zabo? Nazi ezinye iziphakamiso.
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Yini ongayenza uma ungavumelani nenqubomgomo yesikole sakho mayelana nokubekwa kwamakamelo okufundela iziqu?
- Okokuqala, thola ukuthi umthetho uhlangothini lwakho. Mhlawumbe umbuso wakho usuvele usungule uMthetho wamawele. Hlola lesi sihloko ngolwazi oluthe xaxa, noma vakashela iwebhusayithi ye-Twins Law ukuze uthole izibuyekezo.
- Cela ukuthi ubone noma iyiphi inqubomgomo ekhona ngokubhala. Izimboni ezimbalwa zezifunda zineziqondiso ezibhalwe phansi. Ezimweni eziningi, "kumane nje kwenziwa ngendlela."
- Yenza ucwaningo lokusekela icala lakho. Abanye abaqondisi besikole abaqapheli nje ubufakazi bobufakazi obuhlobene nalolu daba futhi bangase bazimisele ukucabanga kabusha ngesimo sabo ngokusekelwe ocwaningweni lwamuva. Qalisa izinto ezivela ku-Multiples of America (ebizwa ngokuthi i-National Organisation of Mothers of Twins Clubs), amawebusayithi afana nalolu, nezihloko ezivela ezincwadini ezifana nama-Twins Magazine. Ezinye izinsiza zibalwe ngezansi. Uma wenza ikhala elizwakalayo, inhloko yesikole sakho ingase ihlehlise phansi.
- Funa imibono evela ochwepheshe ababazi izingane zakho kangcono. Xhumana nodokotela wakho wezingane ukuze uthole umbono wezokwelapha, futhi ukhulume nabanakekeli abasebenzisana ne-multiples yakho ekunakekeleni kwesikhashana, esikoleni, noma ku-playgroup setting. Bhalisela ukusekelwa kwabafundisi bakho bamanje, uma kusebenza. Bacele ukuthi babelane ngemibono yabo mayelana nobuntu bomuntu siqu kanye nezidingo zezemfundo, kanye nokuchaza ubudlelwane bomshado wabo wewele. Bacele ukubhala incwadi ukusekela icala lakho.
- Gcina umzila wephepha noma iphephandaba. Qopha ngokuningiliziwe noma yiziphi izenzakalo noma ama-anecdotes asekela icala lakho. Isibonelo, uma amawele akho ephazamiseka noma ephazanyiswa uma ehlukanisiwe, noma uma umuntu ejwayele ukuxhumana okuningi.
- Fakela incwadi ehlelekile nenhloko noma umphathi wesikole. Incwadi yakho kufanele ihlanganise izisekelo eziningana: isitatimende sakho siqu, imiphumela yengqondo yokuhlukaniswa kwamabili, izinkinga zomthetho ezihlangothini lwakho (njengemithetho ehlongozwayo embusweni wakho nomthetho kwezinye izifundazwe), ukusebenza kwezemfundo, nokuningi kokufaka okuvela emgomweni, imithombo engaphandle, njengezo zonke izibonelo ezingenhla. Umgomo wakho ukukwazisa mayelana nocwaningo kanye nomthetho osekela ukugcina amawele ndawonye lapho uceliwe ngabazali, futhi kungani uzizwa ukuthi kunesithakazelo esihle sabantwana bakho ukuba babe ndawonye. Qinisekisa ukuthi (noma bazoba) baphumelele lapho bebonke, bese benza icala ukuthi kungaba yingozi uma behlukanisiwe. Faka izinkomba kokubili ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo kanye nomthelela olandelayo ekusebenzeni kwezemfundo.
- Uma uthishanhloko wakho engayikuyeka, hamba ngqo ebhodini lesikole kanye nokuphathwa kwesikole (umphathi). Thumela izincwadi (noma ama-imeyili), nazo zonke izincwadi ezixhasayo, futhi ulandelele ngamakholi wefoni uze uthole impendulo.
- Okokugcina, ungesabi ukwenza amagagasi. Abazali abaningi beziphindaphindwe bazizwa besatshiswa ngabaphathi besikole kanye nemiphumela yokwesaba uma bephikisa igunya labo. Ungabameli bakho bezingane, futhi kufanele ukwenze okusemandleni abo.
- Noma inkambo, gcina ithoni yobuchwepheshe, inhlonipho kuyo yonke into yokuxhumana ukuze ungathukutheli izikhulu zezikole (obani ozodinga ukubhekana nazo iminyaka eminingana ngenkathi amawele akho esesimweni sesikole) Zethule njengomuntu "ozakwethu" kunalokho kunomphikisi noma umzali ofuna, futhi uqiniseke ukuthi nonke ninomgomo ofanayo - impumelelo yesikole kubantwana benu.
Kubalulekile ukuthi wenze ucwaningo lwakho ukuze ulungele kahle ukuvikela isimangalo sakho ukuthi kunesithakazelo esihle kakhulu samathanga akho ukugcinwa ndawonye. Nanka eminye imithombo yocwaningo yokusekela icala lakho:
Ukubekwa Kwemakamelo Amaphondo Amathathu Nezinye Iziqu Eziningi Emabangeni Amantombazane Ngama-Eight Ezikoleni E-East Tennessee: Imibono Yabaphathi Be-East Tennessee.
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