Ukuguqulwa kokuqala kungathinta amakhulu ezinkulungwane zemindeni minyaka yonke, kanti iqiniso liwukuthi iningi lezingane ezingakazalwa zizalwa zakudala noma zibuthakathaka kakhulu ukuze ziphile. Kuhlangene nokuqeda ukuqina kwabantu abaningi abazama ukukugwema ukucabanga ngakho. Inqubekela phambili yezokwelapha iye yafika kakhulu futhi eminingi, izingane eziningi ezingaphambi kwesikhathi zisinda ukuze ziphile ukuphila okude, ezijabulisayo, ngakho ukuhlala ekubhekeni kokufa kubonakala kungalungile.
Kodwa iqiniso elidabukisayo kakhulu ukuthi abazali abaningi bezitha zezilwane abazitholi ukuletha izingane zabo ekhaya. Futhi laba bafanelwe ngokukhethekile induduzo nokuzinikezwa kwabalobi abaziqondayo.
Lezi zincwadi-omama, obaba, izingane ezincane, izingane zakubo, ogogo nomkhulu, abangane nomndeni-zinikeza izinhlobo ezahlukene zezindlela nezindlela zokubhala ukuze uqiniseke ukuthola okusiza.
Funda kuze kube sekupheleni kwezinsiza ezengeziwe ze-inthanethi zabazali abafelwe.
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Wena unguMama wabo bonke omamaNgu-Angela Miller
Incwadi enhle kakhulu, enemibukiso namagama aphefumulayo aduduzayo njengomunye umama osizi.
Amandla akhe okunika amandla akhuthaza omama abashonelwe, futhi le ncwadi ingasiza umama osizile ukuba abe nomuzwa wokuthi unomngane ophelele kakhulu-omunye umama oqonda kahle futhi uyazi ukuthi yini okuzoyisho.
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Izikhali ezingenaluthonguSherokee Ilse
Incwadi ejulile efudumele futhi enobubele, yilokho abafundi abaningi abafisa ukuthi babethole ngaphambi kokufa kwengane yabo ngoba kuneseluleko esihle kakhulu sokuthola ukufa kwangempela kanye nezikhathi ezungeze leso sikhathi esisheshayo.
Noma imuphi umndeni onenhlanhla yethemba lokuthi umntwana wabo uzophila ungadabukisa umqondo wokuthola incwadi mayelana nokulahlekelwa ngumntanakho. Kodwa kubazali abaziyo ukuthi ingane yabo ngeke isinde, noma labo abafuna ukulungiselela kahle lokho kungenzeka, le ncwadi ingaba isipho esinamandla, esingavamile esizosiza umndeni ukuthi uvumelane nezikhathi futhi uphulukise.
Uma umntwana usufile kakade, le ncwadi isesekelo oluhle futhi abazali bayazuza kakhulu ekuhlakanipheni nasekuqondeni umlobi owenzayo.
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I-Cradle engenalutho, Inhliziyo EphukileNguDeborah L. Davis
Leli bhuku lisiza abazali abadabukisayo bazizwe bengasondelene nomthwalo osindayo wokulahlekelwa. Linikeza umzwelo wokuzwelana nokuqonda ukuthi abazali bezingane ezincane bafe kanjani ngendlela efanele kakhulu.
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Umhlahlandlela woBaba: Uma umntwana efaNguTim Nelson
Leli bhuku lokuqondisa ephaketheni liphelele kubazali abadinga incwadi ngokuqondene nokufa kwengane. Inikeza iseluleko esihle ekukhulumisaneni nomlingani, ukuphatha ukubuyela emsebenzini, ukukhuluma nezinye izingane nokunye okuningi, ngokufunda okufishane nokulula.
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Usizi oluthileNgu-Ingrid Kohn, MSW noPerry-Lynn Moffitt
Le ncwadi enengqondo ezinikele ekulahlekelweni kokukhulelwa kuyisisetshenziswa esihle kumndeni wonke-omama, obaba, ugogo nomkhulu, umndeni, nabangane. Njengencwadi eyabhalwa ochwepheshe bezezempilo, inembile, inembile futhi iyasebenza, kodwa izindaba kanye nezingcaphuno ezivela emindenini edabukisayo kulo lonke le ncwadi zisiza ukuthi zizwe zithandekayo futhi ziduduza.
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Ngaphandle Kwezinyembezi: Ukuphila Ngemva Kokulahlekelwa InganeNgu-Ellen Mitchell
Leli bhuku lihlanganyela izindaba ezingu-9 ezihlukene zokulahlekelwa ingane, njengoba kubhaliwe omama, okunikeza uhlobo oluthile lokududuza. Esikhundleni sokufunda indlela yokufunda nokukhathazeka, le ncwadi ivumela abafundi ukuba bazicabange ezindabeni zabanye, futhi bazizwe ukusekelwa nobubele besifazane abaye bahamba ngendlela efanayo.
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Ukuphulukisa Inhliziyo Ebuhlungu Yomzali: Imibono eyi-100 ewusizoNgu-Alan D. Wolfelt PhD
Le ncwadi iyigugu-inokwethenjelwa, inengqondo, isihawu. Umbhali uyavuma ukuthi akayena umzali osizi, kepha kunomqondisi oye wasiza izinkulungwane zabazali abadabukisayo.
Kubhalwe ekufundeni okulula kokufunda amabhulogi okuhlakanipha, indlela yakhe ngobumnene iphinde ivumele abazali bazi ukuthi bodwa, kubasize bazizwe bexhaswa futhi bakhuthaza ukuba bathole ukusekelwa abayidingayo, bese banikeza izindlela eziningi ezivivinyelwe & zeqiniso zokusiza.
Le ncwadi ayikho ngokuqondile ngokukhulelwa kokukhulelwa, kodwa kunezinye izinhloso ezibhekiswe kubazali abalahlekelwe izingane nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Izitatimende ezilula, ezinika amandla neziphakamiso zisebenza ngokuphelele, futhi le ncwadi ngokuqinisekile iyoduduzeka kakhulu kunoma yimuphi umzali osizi.
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Ukuphulukiswa emva kokulahlekelwaNguMartin Whitmore Hickman
Ebhalwa ngumama olahlekelwe indodakazi yakhe eneminyaka engu-16 ubudala, le ncwadi ingenye ingcebo, nakuba kungase kungabi ngokuqondile ngokukhulelwa kokukhulelwa. Kuphathelene nokuphulukiswa, futhi ukwethembeka ukuletha nokuvuleka kwenqubo yakhe kuwusizo olukhulu kunoma ubani osizi. Kubhalwe ekhasini elilodwa lokufakwa kwekhasi (Ikhasi elilodwa loJanuwari 1, elinye ikhasi likaJanuwari wesibili, njll), le ncwadi kulula ukufunda ngokulinganisa amancane, kulula kubazali abaningi ukuthi bangabhekana nencwadi ebanzi yokukhathazeka.
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Ukukhulelwa Ngemva KokulahlekelwaNguCarol Cirulli Lanham
Ngokuvamile abazali abaye balahlekelwa usana banethemba lokuzama futhi ukuba nezingane. Ubukhulu obungokomzwelo bokuthola ukukhulelwa okusha ngemuva kokulahlekelwa okudabukisayo kwengane yangaphambilini kungazizwa kunzima kakhulu. Le ncwadi ibeka kahle izimpendulo zemibuzo emibili yezobuchopho kanye nezokwelapha ibe ngumhlahlandlela olula wokufunda.
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Impendulo Ecacile Yomfanekiso Wokucabanga Kwami: IsimemoNgu-Elizabeth McCracken
Le ncwadi inikeza indlela ehlukile kuneziningi-kuyimemori, ebhalwe ngumlobi onethalente mayelana nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe okulahlekelwa usana. Kubafundi abafuna ukuzicabangela emlandweni olotshiwe kahle, othembekile womunye olahlekelwe ngendlela efanayo, le ncwadi iyamangalisa.
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NgizokuthwalaNgo-Angie Smith
Le memo ibelana ngendaba yomntwana otholakala nesimo esibulalayo ngaphambi kokuzalwa, nomzabalazo womndeni ukubhekana nokuhlupheka okukhulu. Lena indaba esekelwe ekukholweni ezogqugquzela futhi iduduze imindeni eminingi ehamba nokulahlekelwa usana.
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Ukudabuka Ingane EngangingaziKathe Wunnenberg
Lokhu kuncike ekukholweni kuyisisekelo esihle sokududuza imindeni efuna ukuxazulula usizi lwabo futhi ithole induduzo ngamazwi omunye umama owaziyo.
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Kuvele OkuthileNguCathy Blanford
Umeluleki wezobuhlungu ohlakaniphile uye wadala le ncwadi enhle yabantwana, abazali abayigugu njengesiqondiso sokusiza izingane ezincane ukuba zithole izimpendulo ezizidingayo lapho zibhekene nokulahlekelwa ngumfowenu omncane noma udadewabo omusha. Imifanekiso emihle, amagama athakazelisayo, nezincazelo ezicacile ezifanele eminyakeni yobudala kwenza le ncwadi ibe isipho sangempela.
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Othile Wafika Ngaphambi KakhoNguPat Schwiebert
Incwadi yezingane oye wafuna uma usufuna ukuchazela izingane zakho eziphilayo mayelana nendodana yakhulile efile. Leli bhuku elisekelwe enkolweni linikeza induduzo nezimpendulo ezinganeni ezincane ezifuna ukuqonda ngomzalwane noma udadewabo abazizwile kodwa abangazange bazihlangabezane nazo.
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Sasizoba Nomntwana, Kodwa Sasibe Nengelosi KunalokhoNguPat Schwiebert
Le ncwadi elula ye-paperback yindlela efanelekayo yobudala yokuba abazali baxoxe ngezingane ezincane ezisiza ukuchaza lapho ingane ifa. Kuyindaba emfushane, ekahle kubantwana abancane abaneminyaka engu-2-8.
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I-Twin Yami Yonke NjaloNgu-Valerie R. Samuels
Enye incwadi yabantwana, lona ukhuluma ngesineke indaba yokulahlekelwa kwewele elilodwa kanti amanye amawele asinda. Lesi simo esiyingqayizivele sidinga incwadi yaso siqu, futhi lo uqotho, uzwela futhi ucabangela.
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I-Invisible StringNguPatrice Karst
Incwadi yalezingane ayikho neze ngokudabuka noma ukulahlekelwa ngumntakwethu, kodwa indaba enhle futhi evuselelayo mayelana nokuthi sonke sixhunyiwe kanjani, ngisho nalabo esingaboni.
Abazali abafuna izindaba ngezingane zakini ezingezona usizi nokufa kuphela, kodwa into eyobe ishukumisa umuzwa wokuxhumana nezingane ezilahlekile, le ncwadi ingaba induduzo enkulu.
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Awukatholanga yini okufunayo?Uma ufuna okuningi kunezincwadi, kunemithombo enhle kakhulu ku-intanethi ukusekela imindeni esilusizi. Amasayithi ambalwa amnandi afaka:
- I-Still Standing Magazine
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- I-Faith's Lodge
- Uhambo Olubuhlungu
- Abangane Abanobubele