Ukukhulelwa kuyisikhathi sokushintsha lapho amantombazane eba yizinsizwa. Amantombazane asebancane azothola izinguquko eziningi ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo, kuhlanganise nentuthuko yebele, ukukhula kwezinwele ze-pubic kanye nezinkathi zokuqala zokuya esikhathini.
Izimpawu Zokukhulelwa Emantombazaneni
Njalo intombazane izokhula ngezinga elihlukile kunontanga yakhe. Ngokujwayelekile, ukukhulelwa kungaqala uma useneminyaka engu-8 ubudala, amanye amantombazane angase athuthuke ngaphambili nangemva kwesikhathi.
Izinguquko zingashesha noma zifinyelele kancane.
Ungase uqale ukubona ukuthi indodakazi yakho engaphambi kokuqala ikhule ibe mude noma igcwalise ezinkalweni ngenkathi isiswini sakhe sinciphile. Kungase kube yisikhathi sokuthenga i- bra yokuqeqesha .
Ngeke kube yisikhathi ngaphambi kokuba athole isikhathi sakhe sokuqala futhi ahlangabezane namagundane okwesikhashana okokuqala. Izinguquko ze-hormone nazo zizoletha ukushintsha kwemizwelo .
Intombazanyana yakho ikhula! Uzoba nemibuzo eminingi njengoba ebona lezi zinguquko kuye. Kungenzeka ukuthi ngeke azizwe ekhululekile ukukhuluma nawe ngabo, noma kunjalo.
Abazali kufanele bazame ukuhlala beqaphela ukuthi indodakazi yabo izwa kanjani futhi bafune isikhathi esifanele sokuqala ingxoxo ngakho.
Izinkinga Zemizimba Yomzimba
Kukhona inzuzo yesisindo yemvelo ehambisana nokukhulelwa. Lokhu kungase kuqale ukubangela izinkinga zokuzihlonipha ngomzimba wakhe futhi kungcono ukuqala ekuseni ukusiza ukuba azizwe kahle ngaye.
Chaza ukuthi lokhu kuyimvelo futhi umkhuthaze ukuba akhe imikhuba enempilo ngokudla nokuzivocavoca okuzomsiza ukuba alondoloze isisindo esinempilo.
Amanothi we-Tanner wokuSubana Emantombazaneni
Amantombazane asebasha abhekana nezinguquko eziningi njengoba bebadala. Njengoba beqala ukukhulelwa, imizimba yabo iyashintsha ngendlela engacabangeki. Lezi zinguquko ngezinye izikhathi zibizwa ngokuthi izigaba ze-Tanner futhi zingasiza ingane yakho ukuthi ingane yakho ikhula ngendlela efanele.
Kwabesifazane, kunezigaba ze-Tanner zezinwele zokushicilela kanye nezigaba ze-Tanner zokuthuthukiswa kwebele. Lezi zindawo ezimbili azihlaziyi ngaso sonke isikhathi ngesikhathi esisodwa.
Ukuthuthukiswa Kwebele
- Isisu se-Breast 1. Lesi yisigaba ngaphambi kokuqala kokuthomba. Awekho izicubu zesifuba. I-areola iyaphambana nesifuba.
- I-Breast Stage 2. Kusukela ku-8 ubudala kuya ku-13 ubudala. Inani elincanyana lesishukela sebele sibonakala. I-areola iyanda ngesayizi kodwa isalokhu isilwane ngokumelene nesifuba.
- Isisu se-Breast 3. Kusukela eminyakeni engu-9 kuya ku-14 ubudala. Izicubu zomzimba ziyakhula futhi zikhulu kune-areola. I-Areola iyaqhubeka ikhula futhi isalokhu iphikisana nesifuba.
- Isisu se-Breast 4. Kusukela eminyakeni eyishumi kuya ku-15 ubudala. Izicubu zomzimba ziyaqhubeka zikhula futhi zihlukile odongeni lwesifuba. I-areola kanye ne-papilla (amancane amathumba wezincuzu ezungeze ingono) manje seyakhuphuka kusuka odongeni lwesifuba.
- Isisu se-Breast 5. I-asola iphinda iphinde ibuyele emgqeni wesifuba. I-papilla iphakanyiswa evela e-areola.
Amabele ayeka ukukhula ngesikhathi owesifazane ehlaselwa eminyakeni eyishumi nambili.
Ukuthuthukiswa Kwezinwele Ze-Pubic
- I-Pubic Hair Stage 1. Lesi yisigaba ngaphambi kokuqala kokuthomba. Azikho izinwele zobulili ngalesi sikhathi.
- I-Pubic Hair Stage 2. Kusukela eminyakeni engu-9 kuya ku-13 ubudala. Kunezinwele ezimbalwa, ezinemibala elula, eziqondile ezitholakala kuma-labia amakhulu (ama-labia angaphandle).
- I-Pubic Hair Stage 3. Kusukela eminyakeni eyishumi kuya kwengu-14 ubudala. Izinwele eziningi ziqala ukuvela. Izinwele ziba mnyama futhi ziqala ukugoqa.
- I-Pubic Hair Stage 4. Kusukela eminyakeni engu-10 kuya ku-15 ubudala. Izinwele zase-pubic ziba zikhulu kakhulu, zikhudlwana futhi zinezinwele. Kunezinwele eziningi, kodwa azifaki emathangeni futhi azigcini njengomuntu omdala.
- Isiteji sezinwele ze-Pubic 5. I-"triangle" endala yabantu abadala, isakazeka endaweni yangaphakathi yethanga.
Ukudideka? Ungakhathazeki. Uma unemibuzo noma ukukhathazeka ngokuthi ingane yakho ikhulelwa kanjani, khuluma nomhlinzeki wezempilo wezingane yakho. Umhlinzeki wakho anganquma uma ingane yakho ikhula futhi ikhula ngendlela efanele.
Imithombo:
Behrman, RE, Kliegman, RM, noJenson, HB. UNelson Bookbook of Pediatrics, 2004.
Neinstein, LS. Ukunakekelwa Kwezempilo Kwezingane Zengane: Isiqondiso Esiwusizo, 2002.