Izinyathelo Nezimpawu Zokukhulelwa Nendlela Ongasiza Ngayo
Ukubeletha kuyisigaba esivamile sokuthuthukiswa okwenzeka lapho umzimba wengane ususelwa emzimbeni omdala futhi uvuselela amathuba okukhiqiza. Njengoba izingane zingena ebusheni, ziyoba nemibuzo eminingi ngemizimba yazo futhi abazali bazobona izinguquko eziningi ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo. Ngezansi isiqondiso sokuqonda ukukhulelwa, nokusiza phakathi kwakho ngezigaba zokukhula.
Kuyini ukuphumula?
Ukukhulelwa yisandulela ngukushintsha komuntu wonke. Yisikhathi soshintsho lapho umzimba womuntu uguqulwa khona kusukela komntwana kuya emzimbeni womuntu omdala. Amakhomoni azokwenza ukukhula okuhlukile kubafana namantombazane futhi kungabangela ukuhlukunyezwa kwemizwelo yomuntu omncane ngisho nomzimba nesikhumba.
Kungathatha iminyaka emibili kuya kwengu-4 ngaphambi kokuba umzimba wakho we-interne ushintshe ngokugcwele ngokukhulelwa. Ingane ngayinye izokuthuthukisa ngezinga elihlukile kunontanga yabo. Kungaba nzima ukuba izingane zingaziqhathanisi nabangani babo abakhula ngokushesha kunabo.
Ukukhulelwa Emantombazaneni
Amantombazane angena ekukhuleni ngaphambi kokufana nabafana futhi akuvamile ukuba amantombazane aqale ukubonisa izimpawu ezineminyaka engama-9. Kwabaningi amantombazane, ukuya esikhathini kungase kuqale eminyakeni engama-11 noma 12.
Izimpawu zomzimba ukuthi intombazane ingena ekukhuleni zihlanganisa ukukhula kwebele , ukuthuthukiswa kwebele , ukusikeka kwebele , ukukhula kwezinwele, ukugcoba komzimba, iphunga lomzimba , ukukhwabanisa nokuya esikhathini.
Amantombazane abonisa izibonakaliso zokukhulelwa ngaphambi kweminyaka engama-8 ayaziwa ukuthi anenkathi yobushakathaka . Lesi yisimo esingelashwa okufanele sihlolwe yidokotela wezingane.
Ukukhulelwa Kwabafana
Kwabafana, izibonakaliso zokuqala zokukhulelwa kungenzeka zenzeke ezineminyaka eyi-11 noma 12.
Izimpawu zomzimba zokuthi umfana uyangena ebusheni zihlanganisa ukujula kwezwi, ukukhula kwemisipha, ukukhukhumeza nokunyakaza kwezinwele, izimpande, ukukhula okuvuthayo, iphunga lomzimba omdala, ukukhula kwamathambo namapenisi, amaphupho amanzi noma ikhono lokuzikhandla.
Indlela Yokusiza Izingane Zakho Ngesikhathi Sokubeletha
Qaphela izinkinga zokuzihlonipha. Lapho izingane zingena ebusheni ngaphambi kwesikhathi noma kamuva kunontanga yabo, zingase ziziqaphele, zikhathazeke noma zicindezeleke ngesimo sabo. Lezi zingane zingadinga usizo lokulungisa noma ukufunda indlela yokubhekana nayo.
- Endabeni yabantwana abaphuza ukungena ekukhuleni, banikeze isikhuthazo futhi baqiniseke ukuthi imizimba yabo izoshintsha uma sekuyisikhathi esifanele.
- Kubantwana abakhula ngokushesha, baqinisekise ukuthi abangane babo maduze bazolandela. Bangakwazi ngisho nokuyibuka kahle futhi bakwazi ukusiza abangani babo uma sekuyisikhathi sabo.
Yiba nesineke mayelana nokushintsha kwemizwelo. Ezinye ziguqukela kahle ngokuguga , Abanye bangabhekana nokuziphatha okubi, ukuqhuma kwentukuthelo noma ezinye ukuphazanyiswa ngokomzwelo.
- Kubalulekile ukunikeza ingane yakho ulwazi oluningi ngangokunokwenzeka mayelana nomzimba wakhe oguqukayo kanye nengane yakho ukuqonda ukuthi kungani umzimba wonke wonke ushintsha. Thola izinsizakalo ezithembekile wena nomntanakho ongazithola ukuze uthole ulwazi nokusekela.
- Zenze utholakale ukukhuluma ngokukhululekile nengane yakho mayelana nalezi zinguquko uma kudingeka.
- Khumbula ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi intsha encane ifuna nje ukushiywa yedwa, futhi. Banike leso sikhala uma besidinga.
Yilungele imibuzo. Ingane yakho ingazizwa ikhululekile ngokwanele ukuza kuwe uma inemibuzo mayelana nezinguquko zomzimba wayo. Uma bengamahloni amancane, yibeke engxoxweni ukuze bazi ukuthi ukhona ukuze usize.
- Akudingeki uthathe inkambo yokuphazamiseka kumuntu wezinto eziphilayo noma unikeza imininingwane ethile. Sebenzisa isipiliyoni sakho ukunikeza ingane yakho iseluleko abayidingayo.
- Uma uqala ukubona izimpawu zokukhulelwa, zilungele ukuhlanzeka kobuntu abazokudinga. Imikhiqizo efanelekazi yezingane ezincane ezisendlini yokugezela ngenhloso yokuqala yendodakazi yakho. Hlalani nilungele ingane yakho uma iqala 'ukuzwa njengendoda' noma imikhiqizo yama-acne ekuphumeni kwakhe kokuqala.
- Uma kuziwa ekuthuthukisweni ngokobulili, vula futhi uthembekile lapho uphendula imibuzo. Indodana yakho ingesaba ngephupho elimanzi futhi lilungile. Kufanele ulungiselele ngempendulo efanelekile ukuze ubathuthukise ngazo zonke izinguquko.
Lindela okungalindelekile. Ngokuvamile, imibuzo mayelana nokukhulelwa ingavela kubazali abahlaza okwesibhakabhaka nabamangala lapho kubonakala sengathi yisikhathi esibi kunazo zonke (ukulungisa ukudla noma ukulungisa wonke umuntu ekuseni).
Uma ingane yakho ifika kuwe, ibalulekile kubo. Thatha isikhathi sokubhekana nokukhathazeka kwabo ngokushesha. Uma ukwethuka, zinike umzuzu ukuze uziqoqe.
Misa futhi uhlale phansi neshumi lakho leshumi nanhlanu, noma ngabe ingxoxo esheshayo. Uma usuphuzile emsebenzini noma unenkinga ethile yesikhathi, thuthuzela okusemandleni akho, uphendule noma iziphi izidingo ngokushesha bese ukhetha ingxoxo uma nje kokubili ukhona.
Ungafaki ingxoxo isikhathi eside kunanoma yikuphi okudingekayo. Ngeke ufune ukushiya ingane yakho ngokukhathazeka okungenakuqhathaniswa ngosuku lwabo lwesikole noma ukukhathazeka izinsuku ezimbili ngokuthile okusemvelo.