Khumbula ingoma, iqhubekile phakathi nawe? Yilapho wena kanye ne-kati yakho kukhona iminyaka embalwa elandelayo, unamathele eminyakeni eyishumi nantathu - phakathi kweminyaka eyisisekelo kanye neminyaka esemusha. Ukuqonda ukucindezelwa kwezenhlalakahle, ezemfundo kanye namasiko nezinselelo ezibhekana nazo, kanye nezinye izingozi, zingakusiza ukulungiselela wena kanye nezibalo zakho ngalesi sigaba se-bumpy yentuthuko.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi awuzi ingane yakho kanye nokuthi unayo esikhathini esidlule, nansi ambalwa amaqiniso amnandi mayelana nama-tweenagers ethu ashintshayo.
Amaqiniso NgamaTweens Anamuhla
- Isikhathi sokuqala sentombazane siqala eminyakeni yobudala eyi-12 1/2.
- Amaphesenti angamashumi ayisishiyagalombili nesishiyagalolunye abantu abayishumi nambili athi bathathwe kabi .
- Amaphesenti angu-40 kwangu-2 avuma ukuxhaphazwa ngezikhathi ezithile.
- Amaphesenti angamashumi amabili ama-graders ayisishiyagalolunye avuma ukuphuza esisodwa noma ngaphezulu.
- Cishe eyodwa kwabayishumi nesishiyagalolunye kuthiwa beyibuhlobo besoka / intombi. Ngokudabukisayo, abangaphezu kweyodwa kwabayishumi kulabo abayishumi nambili bathi ukulala ocansini kuyingxenye yokuphola.
- Amaphesenti angamashumi amabili nambili we-tweens asevele anamaselula, futhi ungakwazi ukubheja abasele ukuthi bahambe.
- Kunconywa ukuthi ama-preteens athole okungenani amahora ayisishiyagalolunye okulala ebusuku.
- Izingozi zezimoto ziyisizathu esiyinhloko sokufa kwezingane ezingxenyeni zeminyaka eyi-18. Isici esiyinhloko engozini kulezi zingane livela ohlala esihlalweni somshayeli. Ngokusho kocwaningo lwamuva, abantu abangu-13 abagibela abashayeli basencane basengozini enkulu, kulandelwa abantu abahamba emotweni nomshayeli odakiwe.
- Abadayisi bafuna imali yakho ye-tween. Kucatshangwa ukuthi amandla okuthenga we-tweens yanamuhla cishe angama $ 40 billion.
- Amaphesenti angamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye kwayishumi ase-inthanethi.
- Kulinganiselwa ukuthi abantu abaningi abayishumi kuphela bathola isigamu samanani anikezwa nsuku zonke we-calcium.
- Tweens ukunakekelwa lokho abantu abadala abakucabangayo ngabo futhi balingise ukuziphatha kwabo.
- Izinsana ezinomlutha wokugembula zivame ukubika ukuqalisa ukugembula ezineminyaka engaba ngu-10.
- Ucwaningo lukazwelonke lwamantombazane angaphezu kuka-2 000 ubudala abaneminyaka yobudala eyi-8 kuya ku-17 bathola ukuthi iningi likhathazekile kakhulu ngokuhlekwa yizinhlekelele zemvelo noma ukuhlasela kwamaphekula.
- Ingxenye yamantombazane abaneminyaka eyi-8 kuya ku-10 abajabuli ngobukhulu bawo, kuyilapho amaphesenti angu-40 e-graders asebelokhu edla ngaphambi nangaphezulu kwengxenye yamantombazane abaneminyaka eyi-9 kuya ku-15 asebenzise ukulahlekelwa isisindo.
Okuncane Okungaphezulu Kweqiniso
- Isikole esiphakathi kungaba yisikhathi esinzima sezinsuku ezingu-13. Bazama ukulingana kodwa abazi njalo ukuthi bangayenza kanjani. Ngisho kanye nama-thirteen aqinisekisayo angaziqhenya futhi aziqiniseki ngokwabo phakathi neminyaka yesikole esiphakathi. Khuthaza uhlangothi lwakho ukukhulisa umphakathi wakhe ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwesikole. Imisebenzi eyengeziwe ye-curricular ingasiza ingane yakho ukuthola abangane, funda ukuzethemba nokuthuthukisa izithakazelo. Ukusekela izithakazelo zakho ze-tween bese uchitha isikhathi uzama ukugcina amasiko omndeni ahamba - i-tagerager yakho ikhula, kodwa kuzoba nezikhathi lapho ebuyela emuva ekuziphatheni okufana nengane.
- Amathanga angashintsha kusuka kwesithakazelo esisodwa kwenye ngaphandle kokungabaza. Uma ingane yakho igitala ngesonto elilodwa nebhola elilandelayo, ungamangali. I-kati yakho iyazama ukuthola okuningi mayelana naye. Yiba nesineke njengoba ingane yakho ikhetha amathuba futhi ikhuthaze phakathi kwakho ukuze uzame futhi ufune okuhlangenwe nakho okusha.
- Ingaphakathi lakho lidala ngokwanele ukuba lingene ngaphakathi kwendlu . Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho iyayiqonda ukuthi kufanele ihlinzekele imisebenzi yomndeni kanye nemithwalo yemfanelo nokuthi kufanele iqoke emva kwayo.
- Yazi abangani bakho be-tween. Abangani bengane yakho bayokutshela okuningi mayelana nendawo yakho lapho engekho, futhi ungafunda ngezingozi ezingase zibe khona noma ukucindezela kontanga ingane yakho ibhekene nayo.