Okushiwo Ukuphakama Ekuvuleleni Okuhlangenwe nakho
Ezingqondweni, ngokuvamile umuntu ubalwa ngesisekelo sezinto ezinhlanu zobuntu. Lezi, njengoba kuchazwe yi-University of Oregon's Personalality and Social Dynamics Lab, zifaka:
- Ukuchithwa (ngezinye izikhathi kuthiwa Ukuhlinzwa). Ububanzi obubanzi bokuKhuphuka kwezingcingo kufaka phakathi izici ezinjalo ezifana nokukhuluma, amandla, nokuqinisekisa.
- Ukungavumelani . Kuhlanganisa izici ezifana nozwela, nomusa, nomusa.
- Unembeza. Kuhlanganisa izici ezifana nokuhlelekile, okuphelele, nokuhlelekile.
- I-Neuroticism (ngezinye izikhathi iguqulwa futhi ibizwa ngokuthi Ukuzinza Emotional). Kuhlanganisa izici ezinjengezikhathi ezijulile, ezithandayo, nokukhathazeka.
- Ukuvuleka Okuhlangenwe nakho (ngezinye izikhathi kuthiwa Intelligence noma Intellect / Imagination). Kuhlanganisa izici ezinjengezintshisekelo ezinkulu, nokucabanga nokuqonda.
Ukuvuleka Kwakho Okuthola Ukulinganisa Kusho Ukuthini?
Umuntu ovulekile ukuzwa ukudala, ukuguquguquka, ukufuna ukwazi nokuzijabulisa. Uyakuthanda ukuba nengqondo yakhe nezinzwa zakhe zivuselelwe, njengokubuka ubuciko, ukulalela umculo omusha, isampuli yokudla okungavamile nokufunda izincwadi nezinkondlo. Umuntu ovulekile uyathanda ukuhlukahluka ekuphileni kwakhe kwansuku zonke futhi ufuna ukufana.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umuntu ophansi ekuvulelekeni uvame ukujabulela ukulandela imizila, ukuthanda ukubikezela kanye nokuhleleka nokuvame ukubandakanya umcabango wakhe njalo.
Izinkolelo zakhe zivame ukufanisa isimo se-quo kanye nokukhetha kwakhe emsebenzini, izingubo, nokunye ukuthenga kuvame ukuhambisana namazinga ajwayelekile.
Ubuningi bomuntu buwela ngapha nangapha phakathi kwalezi ziqili ezimbili.
Ukuvuleka Kokuthola Isilinganiso Kusetshenziswa Kanjani?
Izilinganiso ezinhlanu ezilinganiselwe zisetshenziselwa ukuhlola ubuntu ngezinhloso ezihlukahlukene.
Ngokwesibonelo:
- Ukunquma ukufaneleka kwemisebenzi ethize;
- Ukunquma izindlela ezifanele zokufundisa;
- Ukusiza ukufanisa abantu ngabanye amaqembu noma ubudlelwano;
- Ukusiza ukubikezela impendulo yomuntu kwisimo esinikeziwe.
Abantu ababa phezulu kwi-Openness to Experience bavame ukubhekwa njengabaholi abahle. Izindlela ezifana nobuciko nokuguquguquka ngokuvamile zihlotshaniswa nama-CEO, abaculi abaphumelelayo, nabacwaningi abasha. Ngenkathi ukuvuleka okuhlangenwe nakho ngezinye izikhathi kuhlanganiswa nekhono lobuhlakani (IQ), iqiniso liwukuthi ukulinganisa akuhambisani ngqo nokuhlakanipha.
Ukuvuleka Okuhlangenwe nakho kuyisici esibalulekile lapho sicabangela ubuhlobo. Umuntu ofisa ubuhle nokuzijabulisa angeke abe ngumdlalo omuhle othanda ukuhleleka nokuvumelana. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abantu ababalelwa phezulu e-Openness Experiences bavame ukubaluleka ubuciko namasiko phezu kwesiko nokuphepha.
Ukwandisa Ukuvuleka Okuhlangenwe nakho
Ukuvuleka ukuzwa kancane kancane kwanda kuze kube ngu-20 ubudala. Abazali abangamashumi amabili nabo bangakha phezu kwalokhu kwenyuka kwemvelo ngokukhuthaza ukucabanga okuhlukumezayo. Ungakwenza lokhu ngokubhala izinkondlo ndawonye noma ukuya emnyuziyamu wezobuciko bese ukhuluma ngalokho okubonwa yilowo nalowo emidwebo.
Ucwaningo luphakamisa, Nokho, ukuthi Ukuvuleka Okuhlangenwe nakho kungase kube ngezinga elithile, njengefa. Iphinde ifakwe ngokuhlangenwe nakho komuntu siqu kanye nobumnene. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, noma kunjalo, kungenzeka ukuthi ukuqeqeshwa kwengqondo kungakwandisa ukuvuleka kwakho okuhlangenwe nakho. Ukuzibekela inselele ukuzama izinto ezintsha kungakusiza ukuba uvuleke ngokwengeziwe ukuzwa.
Imithombo
Rathus, Ph.D., Spencer. I-Psychology: Imiqondo nokuxhumeka, i-Brief Version. Umagazini we-8. 2007. Belmont, CA: Thomson, Wadsworth.
> Srivastava, Sanjay. Ukulinganisa izizinda ezinkulu ezinhlanu zobuntu. Ubunikazi Bobuntu Nezenhlalo Zomphakathi, iYunivesithi yase-Oregon. Iwebhu. 2017.