Ucwaningo oluthile luye lwabona ukuthi amantombazane angase abe nokukhulelwa ngaphambi kwamantombazane akwenze esikhathini esedlule, into ebizwa ngokuthi umkhuba wezwe. Yize kungokwemvelo ukucabanga ngezinto eziphilayo ezibangelwa ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili , empeleni, izinto eziningi ezingokwengqondo nezengqondo zingase zenze intombazane ekhulelwe ekuqaleni.
Ukukhulelwa Ngokweqile Nokungabi Nabababa
Uma intombazane ingenabo ubaba wayo ophilayo ehlala naye, kungenzeka ukuthi afike eminyakeni yobusana ngaphambi kwamantombazane abekhona uyise.
Eqinisweni, ezinye izifundo zikhomba ukuthi ubaba osele ude engekho, ukukhulelwa ngokushesha kuzoqala. Abanye abacwaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ukuba khona komama wesilisa noma isoka endlini kubaluleke nakakhulu ekukhusheni okungakafiki kunokuba ubaba engekho. Ngamanye amazwi, akunandaba uma ubaba engekho, kodwa kunalokho noma ngabe umuntu uthathe indawo yakhe. Batshela ukuthi abesilisa abangathandeki badala ama-pheromone - amakhemikhali angenawo umoya angathinta ukusebenza kwe-hormonal. La ma-pheromone angabangela intombazane ukuba ikhule ngokushesha. Le ncazelo isekelwe kwizifundo zesilwane, futhi kukhona nobufakazi bayo kubantu, futhi.
Ukungqubuzana komndeni
Uma umndeni ulwa kakhulu, intombazane engaphambilini kuleyo mndeni ingase ifinyelele ekukhuleni. Nakuba abacwaningi abaqiniseki ukuthi kungani lokhu kwenzeka, ukucindezeleka isikhathi eside kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo - ngokomzimba, emphakathini noma kwengqondo - kubonakala sengathi kushesha ukuvuthwa kwamantombazane.
Ngakho-ke, ukungqubuzana phakathi kwabazali (kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ushadile noma cha), ukungasebenzi kahle emndenini wonke kanye nomfudumalo omncane emndenini sekutholwe konke okuhlobene nokukhulelwa kwangaphambili emantombazaneni.
Izifo Zengqondo Zomzali
Uma umzali - ikakhulukazi umama - enesifo sengqondo, kunobunye ubufakazi bokuthi indodakazi yakhe cishe izoba nengane yokuqala kunabangane bakhe abanomama onempilo.
Kungani isimo somqondo wengqondo somzali singase sithinte? Njengengxabano yomndeni, ukuba nomzali onesifo sengqondo kungaba umthombo wokucindezeleka okukhulu, okungapheli. Uma ukucindezeleka kubangela ukuvuthwa okusheshayo, kulandela ukuthi impilo yengqondo yomzali ingayithinta ngempela isikhathi sokukhulelwa kwengane.
Umthombo:
U-Ellis, uBruce J., noGarber, uJudy. Izimpikiswano zengqondo zokuhlukahluka kwamathuba amantombazane okuchitha isikhathi: Ukucindezeleka komama, ukuhlala komama wesilisa, nokucindezeleka komshado nomndeni. Ukuthuthukiswa Kwabantwana. 2000. 71: 485-501.
Walvoord, Emily C. Isikhathi sokukhulelwa: Ingabe siyashintsha? Ingabe kunendaba? I-Journal ye-Health Adolescent. 2010. 1-7.