Ukukhulelwa kungase kube yisikhathi esididekayo se-kati, kanye nabazali. Njengoba ushintsho lwengane, kanjalo nemizwa yakhe, umzimba, izithakazelo, ngisho nemibono yomndeni ingashintsha. Nakuba ungase ukhethe ukuthi ingane yakho ihlale encane kuze kube phakade, ukukhulelwa kuza, futhi lokho kusho ukuthi kufanele ulungiselele. Nakhu okumele abazali bazi ngakho ngaphambi kokuba ingane yabo ihlase ukukhulelwa. Futhi ungakhathazeki, ukukhuluma ngephakathi kwakho mayelana nokukhulelwa akudingeki ukuba kungakhathazeki, uma nje ulungele.
Izinsisekelo Zokusuka Ekukhuleni Okufanele Uzazi
AmaTweens ashintshana ngezinga lawo, futhi lokho kungenza izinto zibe nzima kulabo abangena ebusheni ngaphambi noma ngemuva koontanga babo. Amantombazane aqala ukubhekana nezibonakaliso zokuqala zokusana phakathi kweminyaka engama-8 no-12. Abafana baqala ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngokuvamile phakathi kweminyaka engama-9 no-14. Ukukhulelwa kwentsha kungase kube nomthelela omkhulu kumntanakho, futhi udinga ukwazi izinselele ingane yakho kungabhekana uma ubusuku bufika ngokushesha kunokuba kamuva. Xoxa ngokukhathazeka nodokotela wezingane zakho, ukuze ukwazi ukusiza ukuphatha ukuhlukunyezwa kwontanga, ukuziphatha okungalungile, nokukhathazeka phakathi kwakho okungenzeka.
Ukukhuluma Ngalezo Zinguquko
Ukukhulelwa kuyonke mayelana nokuguqulwa, futhi kuya phakathi, ushintsho lungaba yinto enhle kakhulu. Qinisekisa ukuthi uyazi ukuthi yini ongayilindela, ngakho ungalungiselela ingane yakho izinguquko ezedlule futhi ukhulume naye mayelana nokukhulelwa nezinselele kanye nemivuzo yayo. Khumbula ukuthi abanye abayishumi nambili bajwayela kalula ukushintsha, kanti abanye bakuthola ukucindezela nokucindezela.
Yilungele ukuxoxa ngezikhathi eziningana ngenkathi yobuzwa bokukhulelwa, kunokuba ingxoxo eyodwa yesikhathi eside. Futhi qiniseka ukuthi u-kati wakho uyazi ukuthi uhlale ukhona ukuze ukhulume nganoma yini engase imkhathaze.
Izinsiza Zamantombazane
Kunezinhlobo zemithombo etholakalayo kumantombazane asondela ekukhuleni.
Amabhuku namakethi uhla kusukela ekufundiseni kakhulu kuze kuhlanganise nje kuphela izinto eziyisisekelo. Nquma ukuthi iyiphi indlela engcono kakhulu phakathi kwakho, bese uthenga eduze komunye owenza ngaye.
Izinsiza zabafana
Kukhona nje kungabonakali ukuthi kunezinsiza eziningi zabafana abangena ekukhuleni njengoba kunamantombazane. Kodwa kuthatha kuphela umthombo omuhle ukunikeza ingane yakho ulwazi, nokuzethemba akudingayo.
Ukwenza kube kuhle
Kulula ukuba abantu abangu-13 babone kuphela ukungalungi mayelana nokukhula, nokushintsha. Kodwa ukukhulelwa akuyona yonke into embi. Qinisekisa ukuthi ubonisa izici ezinhle zenguquko, ukhula, uthatha imithwalo yemfanelo eminingi, futhi ufunda izinto eziningi.
Okunye okucatshangwayo
Kungaba mnandi futhi kujabulise ukubona phakathi kwakho kuthatha isithakazelo kobulili obuhlukile, ukuthandana, nokukhula. Ukuphila kwenzeka ngokushesha, ngakho-ke qiniseka ukuthi ulungele izinguquko ezedlule, ukuze uxoxe ngamanani omndeni, okulindelwe, imithwalo yemfanelo, nokuningi.
Kwabesifazane kuphela
Amantombazane avame ukukhathazeka ngokuthi bayothatha isikhathi sabo sokuqala ngenkathi bengasekho ekhaya. Qinisekisa ukuthi ulungisa indodakazi yakho ukuze uthole isipiliyoni ngaphambi kwesikhathi, uma ungenakube khona lapho isikhathi sifika.