Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane yakho inesithuthwane, i- dyslexia , noma ukukhubazeka ngokomzimba, kubalulekile ukukhuluma ngakho. Kungase kudingeke ukuthi ubuyekeze ingxoxo kaningi.
Njengoba ingane yakho ikhula, cishe iyoba nemibuzo emisha noma ukukhathazeka ngokukhubazeka kwabo. Indlela ozoxoxa ngayo nalezi zingxoxo kuyoba nomthelela omkhulu endleleni ingane yakho ezwa ngayo ngaye kanye namandla akhe.
Yamukela ukukhubazeka kwengane yakho
Ngezinye izikhathi, abazali bagwema izingxoxo ngokukhubazeka kwengane. Besaba ukuthi ukukhulisa indaba kuzokwenza ingane yabo izwe kabi noma ukuthi izobangela ingane ukuba icabange ukuthi ayikwazi ukuphumelela.
Kodwa ekugcineni, ukungazinaki isihloko i-kids i-reservice enkulu. Ingane engatshelwe ukuthi unayo i-autism ingase ingaqondi ukuthi kungani ilwa nobudlelwano bohlobo. Angenza izifiso ezingalungile ngaye futhi akhule akholelwe ukuthi akakwazi ukubonakala.
Ngokufanayo, ingane engaqapheli ukuthi ifunwe ukukhubazeka ingase icabange ukuthi iyisiphukuphuku. Kodwa ekufundeni ukuthi izinkinga zakhe zivela ekukhubazekeni okufundayo okwenza ukuba afunde okuncane kakhulu kunokuba iningi labangane bakhe lingamenza azizwe ekhululekile, ngakho-ke qaphela ukukhubazeka kwengane yakho futhi uzimisele ukukhuluma ngayo ngane yakho.
Uma umkhombisa ukuthi akuyona imfihlo, cishe akanamahloni noma ahlazeke ngokukhubazeka kwakhe futhi kungenzeka ukuthi uzizwe ekhululekile esikhumbeni sakhe lapho eyazi ukuthi ulungile ukukhuluma ngakho.
Bamba Izingxoxo Eziqhubekayo Nengane Yakho
Kunezinhlobo eziningana zokukhubazeka-ngokomzwelo, ngokomzimba, ngokwengqondo, nangokwezinzwa. Uhlobo lokukhubazeka ingane yakho luzodlala indima enkulu endleleni oya ngayo le ndaba.
Isikhathi lapho wena nomntanakho nifunde ngokukhubazeka kwakhe kuyoba yinto ebalulekile ezingxoxweni zakho.
Uma ufunde ngokukhubazeka kwengane yakho ngosuku owazalwa ngalo, uzoba nesipiliyoni esihluke kakhulu kubazali abafunda ngokukhubazeka kwengane lapho efunda iminyaka eyishumi ubudala.
Impendulo yakho ekukhubazekeni kwengane yakho iyoba nomthelela endleleni ingane yakho yokuzibheka ngayo, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthumela umlayezo ovuma izinselelo ingane yakho ebhekene nazo, kanti futhi uma umtshela ukuthi uyinkane ekwazi ukunikela kakhulu emhlabeni.
Yiba Okubalulekile Ezingxoxweni Zakho
Ukubeka imizwa eningi ezingxoxweni zakho kuzoshukumisa ukuthi ingane yakho izwa kanjani. Ukuveza ukudabuka ngenxa yokulinganiselwa kwakhe noma ukukhathazeka ngekusasa lakhe kungabangela ingane yakho ukuba nayo leyo mizwelo nayo.
Ngakho-ke ulwazi lwanamuhla ngendlela efanele. Khuluma ngesayensi ngemuva kokukhubazeka kwengane yakho, noma uvume ukuthi ngenkathi ezinye izingane zingathatha izitebhisi, kudingeka zisebenzise i-elevator. Kodwa ungafaki imibono eminingi kakhulu ngalezo zinto.
Gwema izinkulumo ezinde nezinkulumo ezikhuthazayo ezinyakazayo. Ingane yakho izofunda kabanzi mayelana namakhono akhe kanye namandla akhe esizayo ngokusekelwe kulokho okwenzayo, kunalokho okushoyo. Uma umphatha njengomntwana onamandla, uzobe ethanda ukuzibona ngaleyo ndlela.
Hlonipha Kodwa Gcina Ulwazi Lwesikhathi Esifanele
Uma ingane yakho ibuza imibuzo mayelana nesimo sakhe noma isimemezelo sakhe, qiniseka. Vele uqiniseke ukuthi ukwaziswa owabelana ngakho kuyindlela enomusa.
Owesine oneminyaka engu-4 obuza ngesimo sakhe sobufuzo ngeke aqonde i-neuroscience ngemuva kokukhubazeka kwakhe kanti oneminyaka engu-10 akudingeki wazi ngakho konke ucwaningo lwamuva lwezokwelapha ngenxa yokuthi uthatha imithi ethile.
Nika ingane yakho izimpendulo ezilula kumbuzo wakhe. Uma efuna ukwaziswa okwengeziwe, uzobuza imibuzo eminye-noma uzobuza umbuzo ofanayo ngendlela ehlukile.
Mema Ingane Yakho Ukubuza Imibuzo
Imibuzo yengane yakho mayelana nokukhubazeka kwayo izoshintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Uma engena ekukhuleni noma lapho eqala ukucabanga ngezinketho zomsebenzi, cishe uzoba nemibuzo emisha.
Kodwa, ingane yakho ngeke ikubuze le mibuzo uma ecabanga ukuthi iyakhathaza kakhulu ukuba uphendule, futhi uzogwema ukuveza isihloko uma ecabanga ukuthi uzonciphisa ukukhathazeka kwakhe.
Yenza kucace ukuthi ujabule ukuphendula imibuzo noma nini futhi uqinisekise ukuthi ingane yakho iyazi ukuthi ingacela abanye abantu imibuzo-njengodokotela noma amanye amalungu eqembu lakhe lokwelapha. Siza ingane yakho ibone abantu abadala abathembekile abazovuma ukuphendula imibuzo yakhe.
Khuluma Ngobani Osiza Ingane Yakho
Esikhundleni sokugxila kuzo zonke izinto ezimbi ngokukhubazeka kwengane yakho, khuluma ngabantu bonke abenza umzamo omkhulu wokumsiza. Xoxa ukuthi ososayensi bacwaninga kanjani isimo nokuthi yini abanethemba lokuthola.
Futhi, khuluma ngendlela odokotela bakhe, abathintekayo, othisha nabaqeqeshi abaye batshalwa ngayo ekusizeni ukuba afinyelele amathuba akhe amakhulu. Mkhumbuze ukuthi kukhona abantu abaningi eqenjini lakhe abasekela imizamo yakhe.
Siza Ingane Yakho Ukuthola Okushiwo Kwabanye
Ezinye izingane esikoleni-futhi mhlawumbe ngisho nabantu abadala emphakathini-zingabuza ingane yakho imibuzo ngokukhubazeka kwayo. Ngenkathi ingane yakho ingenayo imali kunoma yiziphi izincazelo, ukumsiza ukuba athuthukise iskripthi ukuphendula imibuzo kungamsiza azizwe ekhululekile uma ekhetha ukuphendula.
Buza ingane yakho ukuthi yini engathanda abanye abantu ukuba bazi. Ingane engathi, "Ngine Tourette's Syndrome. Yingakho ngivumelana ngezinye izikhathi, "angakwazi ukuyeka umhlukumezi ezindleleni zakhe futhi angakwazi ukuqeda amahemuhemu abanye abasakaza ngaye.
Ukudlala indima ngezindlela ezehlukene angaziphendula emibuthanweni ehlukahlukene noma imibono. Uma kunzima ukuthola amagama, mnike iskripthi esilula. Msize ayenze nawe futhi akhulume ukuthi uyamsebenzela uma esebenzisa nabanye abantu.
Gxila Emandleni Ezingane Zakho
Ungavumeli zonke izingxoxo zakho zibe ngokukhubazeka kwengane yakho. Gcina isikhathi esiningi ukukhuluma ngamandla, futhi.
Qinisekisa ukuthi uyazi ukuthi ukukhubazeka okungokwenyama akufanele kumvimbele ukuba aphumelele esikoleni futhi ukukhubazeka kokufunda akusho ukuthi angeke aphumelele esikoleni. Ungase nje adinge usizo oluthile lokufinyelela imigomo.
Khuluma ngazo zonke izinto azijabulelayo futhi umkhumbuze ngazo zonke izinto ozithandayo ngaye. Ingane engakwazi ukubona amakhono kanye namathalenta kungenzeka kakhulu ukuba uzizwe unemfanelo futhi uqiniseka.
Thola Imodeli Yempilo Enhle Ingane Yakho Ingakwazi Ukuxoxa Nakho
Zonke izingane zizwa zidangele futhi zikhungatheke ngezinye izikhathi. Kodwa izingane ezikhubazekile, leyo mizwa ingaba yande. Ukubona izibonelo ezinempilo ezinokukhubazeka okufanayo kungasiza ingane yakho izwe iphefumulelwe.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyazi umuntu omdala emphakathini onokukhubazeka okufanayo njengengane yakho noma kukhona abadlali, abaculi noma osomabhizinisi abaphumelelayo abanokukhubazeka okufanayo, bakhuluma ngabanye abantu abaphikelela.
Funa Ukusekela Wena Nengane Yakho
Ukukhuluma nabanye abazali abaqonda ukuthi umndeni wakho uhlangabezana nani kungakusiza uzizwe uqiniseka kakhulu ezingxoxweni ozenzayo nengane yakho. Cabanga ngokujoyina iqembu lokusekela-kungaba ngaphakathi komuntu noma ku-intanethi-lapho ungakhuluma khona nabanye abazali bezingane ezinokukhubazeka okufanayo.
Funa izeluleko ezivela ochwepheshe abasebenza nengane yakho. Udokotela wezingane wengane yakho, ochwepheshe wezinkulumo, uthisha wezempilo, noma uthisha wezemfundo ekhethekile angakwazi ukunikeza ulwazi olunzulu mayelana nendlela yokukhuluma nengane yakho mayelana nokukhubazeka kwakhe.
Ukuthola ukwesekwa kwengane yakho kubalulekile futhi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iviki elide isikhathi sehlobo ehlobo noma iqembu lokusekela inyangazonke izingane ezinokukhubazeka okufanayo, ingane yakho ingase ikujabulele ukwazi ezinye izingane ezihlangene nakho. Ngakho khuluma nengane yakho uma inentshisekelo yokuhlangana nezinye izingane ezinokukhubazeka okufanayo.
Uma enesithakazelo, sebenzisa ukwenza lula lokhu kusebenzisana. Ukuchitha isikhathi nabanye abantwana abaye babhekana nezingqinamba ezifanayo kungaba usizo ekusizeni ingane yakho ukuba ikwazi ukufinyelela okusemandleni akhe.
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