Ingabe kufanele uyeke ukusebenza ngokushesha?
Njengoba ukukhulelwa kwakho kwehla, ungase uzibuze ukuthi kufanele ushiye umsebenzi wakho bese uqala ikhefu lakho lokubeletha. Ingabe kufanele usebenze kuze kube usuku lwakho olufanele? Mhlawumbe ungahlala kuze kube sekulethwa kwezidingo? Ingabe kukhona impendulo eyodwa efanele?
Mina ngokwami ngenzile ngezindlela zombili. Ngiyeke umsebenzi wamaviki ngaphambi kokuba ingane yami izalwe, ngiphupha ukuhamba okude, amabhati kanye nama-naps nganoma isiphi isikhathi sosuku futhi amahora amaningi asetshenziswe ekamelweni lokulungisa lilungele.
Kuphendulela ukuthi kwakukhona ithuba lokuba abantu bangikhathaze futhi mina ngikhathazeke kunanoma yini enye. Ngakho-ke ngiye ngasebenza kuze kube yilapho ngibeletha kabili. Ngangikhulelwe amawele. Ngaya emsebenzini ngoLwesihlanu futhi ngibeletha ngoMgqibelo, emasontweni angama-40 edlulile. Ngesinye isikhathi, ngaya emsebenzini, hhayi emsebenzini futhi ngigijimela ekhaya maphakathi nosuku ukuze ngibe nomntwana amahora ambalwa kamuva.
Ayikho impendulo eyodwa efanele embuzweni wokuthi uzoyeka nini ukusebenza. Noma kunjalo, kunemibuzo lapho ubuka izimpendulo zayo, ungase ufunde kalula ukuthi yini engcono kuwe:
- Ukukhulelwa kwakho kuhamba kanjani?
Uma ubhekene nokukhulelwa okuphezulu , njengamawele noma ezinye izinkinga zokukhulelwa ezinjenge-preterm labor , ungase udingeke uhambe ngokushesha, kunokuba kamuva. Wena nodokotela wakho noma umbelethisi kufanele uxoxe ngezinto ezinempilo kuwe nomntanakho noma izinsana zakho. - Usuke ushiye isikhathi esingakanani sokubeletha?
Uma unamasonto ayisithupha nje kuphela, ukuyeka umsebenzi wakho ngaphambi noma ngosuku lwakho olufanele , kuzokwehla iwashi ngesikhathi lapho ungase ungakabi khona nengane yakho. Uma uhamba ngaphezu kwamasonto amabili, lokho kushiya amaviki amane kuphela nomntanakho. Angase angakhuli ngokwanele ukuqala ukunakekelwa kwansuku, uma uhlela ukubuyela emsebenzini, ngakho-ke ungase uphakamise ukuthatha amaviki amabili eholide elingakhokhelwa.
- Uzokwenzani ngesikhathi?
Ngithembele, akukho lutho olubi njengokuhlezi nxazonke ezithinta izithupha zakho ezilindele umntwana. Uma ususa futhi ingane ingekho, ungase uthole ukuthi unomsindo wezinyembezi futhi lokho kungase kube nokucindezeleka kunokuba usebenze. - Uzizwa kanjani?
Uma unenkinga yokungalali ebusuku, ukuvuvukala nobuhlungu uma uhlala isikhathi eside, ungase uthande ukucabangela ezinye izindlela. Ngokuqinisekile ungakwazi ukuthatha isikhathi, kodwa kuthiwani ngokushintsha isimo sakho somsebenzi ukuze uhlale ngaphezulu? Ungangena kamuva bese uhlala kamuva kusihlwa?
- Ingabe unezinye izinketho?
Ungakwazi yini ukuqala isimiso somsebenzi oguquguqukayo? Mhlawumbe ungasebenza ekhaya izinsuku ezithile. Uma ungenza izinsuku ezithile noma usebenze ekhaya, ungase ube nemikhiqizo emibili yomhlaba. Khuluma nomphathi wakho nokucindezeleka ukuthi lokhu kungenzeka kukugcine emsebenzini isikhathi eside. Kuyinqoqo-win for both parties.
Bheka zonke izimpikiswano ezizungezile lapho uqala khona ikhefu lakho lokubeletha. Xoxa nabo nomndeni wakho. Thola imibono evela kubangani bakho nabasebenza nabo. Bese ukhuluma nomphathi wakho. Ngokuvamile kunomhlabathi omuhle ophakathi.