Ubuhlobo bakho be-tween bungaba bubi phakathi neminyaka yesikole esiphakathi
Ngesikhathi ingane ifika esikoleni esiphakathi, ubungane bebaluleke kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni njengempilo yomndeni. Abafundi besikole esiphakathi banxanela ukwamukelwa kubangane babo futhi babheke abangani ukuba bazisize bahambe ekukhuleni kanye nakho konke okuza nalo. Ubuhlobo buyenza konke kube mnandi futhi kungenza ngisho nezinsuku ezimbi zibe ngcono kakhulu.
Kodwa ubungane kulokhu okuthuthukiswa kwengane nakho kungaba nzima kakhulu.
Ngezansi amathiphu ukukusiza ukuthi ulungiselele uhlangothi lwakho ngezinkampani zokuhlaziya nabangane esikoleni esiphakathi kweminyaka. Ukwazi ukuthi ubungani bangashintsha kanjani, ukuqeda noma ukuqinisa kungasiza ophakathi kwakho ngezinselele zobungane azobhekana nazo ekugcineni.
Abalungile Nababi Bobuhlobo Besikoleni Esiphakathi
Okuhle
Kungokwemvelo ukuba abantu abangu-13 benze okubaluleke kakhulu abangani babo futhi, ngalesi sikhathi ekuthuthukiseni kwabo, bangase bakhethe inkampani yabangane babo phezu kwenkampani yabazali babo kanye namanye amalungu omndeni. Lokhu akufanele kube ukukhathazeka kuwe, kodwa kunalokho into okufanele ujabulele. Qinisekisa ukuthi ungenzi ingane yakho uzizwe unecala ngokufaka ukubaluleka okunjalo kubangane bakhe, yingxenye evamile yentuthuko futhi kusho kuphela ukuthi ingane yakho ikhulisa umjikelezo wayo wokufaka abanye ngaphandle komndeni. Izingane zidinga inethiwekhi yabangane abanamandla kule minyaka ukusiza ukubhekana nokuphila nokuzijabulisa lapho ukhula.
Ubuhlobo obuningi obuhlala isikhathi eside bungase kungabi nje kuphela esikoleni esiphakathi, kodwa empeleni bangakhula njengoba behlangene nakho kanye nezithakazelo ezivamile zitholakala. Ngisho nabangane abaya ezikoleni ezahlukene noma abangebanga elilodwa esikoleni bangase babe namanje okwanele ukujabulela inkampani yomunye nomunye. Ubuhlobo obunamandla obudala bungaba nethonya elihle empilweni yakho yangaphakathi.
Izinzuzo zingafaka:
- Ukujabulela isikhathi ndawonye ngemuva kwesikole
- Ukuba nomuntu ozokhuluma naye noma ozithengise
- Ukuthola elinye iphuzu lokubuka uma ubhekene nenkinga
- Ukuhlanganyela izithakazelo ezivamile
- Ukubhekana nezinkinga zesikole (njengomfundisi onzima noma isihluku esikoleni ) ndawonye
- Ukukhulumisana ngaphandle kwenkinga
- Ukuba nomuntu okunamathela kuwe
- Ukwazi ukuthi awunayo yonke yedwa
Okubi
Kubalulekile njengoba ubungane besesikoleni esiphakathi, lokho akusho ukuthi kuzoba lula ngaso sonke isikhathi. Abaningi esikoleni esiphakathi bathola ukuthi ubungane babo bungashintsha esikoleni seminyaka ephakathi njengoba abangane behlukana noma bakha abanye ubungane. Abafundi besikole esiphakathi bangase besabona abangane abadala njengoba bephishekela izithakazelo ezahlukene noma izinkanuko, noma uma abafundi beya ezikoleni ezahlukene bangase bangabi nethuba lokuxhumana nabangane abadala.
Kodwa izinselele azipheli lapho. Ngisho nabangane obuqinile bangasolwa ngesikhathi seminyaka ephakathi. Abangane bangase balahlekelwe isilingo sabo, badumelane, noma bazwisane ubuhlungu bomunye nomunye. Akekho ubungane obuphelele, kodwa abaningi bangakwazi ukubhekana nokuvama okwezinye izikhathi futhi bafunde ngisho nabo. Khuthaza uhlangothi lwakho ukuze usebenze ngxabano. Ukuthi, "Ngiyaxolisa" kungasho okuningi kule minyaka, futhi kusiza izingane ziqonde ukuthi zithwale indlela abaphatha ngayo abanye.
Ubuhlobo obunamandla bungabuthakathaka ngezikhathi ezithile, kodwa uma kwenziwa umzamo wokwenza izingxabano, lezi zingane ziyosinda.
Iqiniso Ngabangani Bangempela
- Abangane bangempela basekela omunye nomunye
- Abangane bangempela bathi "Ngiyaxolisa"
- Abangane bangempela abanomhawu
- Abangane bangempela bangathembeka
- Abangane bangempela babonisa inhlonipho
- Abangane bangempela balalelana
- Abangane bangempela benza umzamo
- Abangane bangempela bangase benze njengama-"jerks" isikhathi esithile, kodwa ekugcineni bafika