Ubuhlobo Bungahle Bube Nokwemvelo Futhi Kunzima
Njengoba ingane yakho ikhula, impilo ingaba yinkimbinkimbi, futhi lokhu kuhlanganisa ubungane. Ubuhlobo bungaba yinselele kunoma yikuphi ubudala, kodwa ukusiza ingane yakho ukubhekana nezinkinga zomngane kuyinto okumelwe ukwenze. Lapho ingane yenqatshwa yontanga, ukuxhaswa, noma isetshenziswe umngane, abazi njalo ukuthi benzeni noma kanjani ukuphendula. Ukucindezela kontanga kanye nesidingo sokwamukelwa komphakathi kungabangela izinkinga nakakhulu.
Ngenkathi ubungane bengase kube nzima, ngezikhathi ezithile badinga abangane futhi babe nabangane kuzobasiza ukuba babhekane nazo zonke izinselelo ezihambisana nesikole esiphakathi. Ngezansi ezinye izinkinga zobungane ezingavamile ingane yakho ingase ihlangane esikoleni esiphakathi, kanye nezixazululo ezimbalwa ezilula zokusiza ukuxazulula.
Ukungaxhunyiwe
Kwabaningi abayishumi nambili, ukwesaba okukhulu kakhulu ukuxoshwa komphakathi noma ukuxoshwa kubangane nakontanga. Tweens efisa ukuba yingxenye yeqembu, futhi ngaphandle komunye, bazizwa belahlekile. Ukwenza izinto zilukhuni nakakhulu, abantu abayishumi nambili bahlangabezana nezinkinga zobungane esikoleni esiphakathi, futhi bangase balahlekelwe umngane noma ababili kule nqubo, ngisho nabangani bangesikhathi eside bangase bahlupheke.
Uma ingane yakho ingekho, zama ukuthola ukuthi kungani. Ingabe amakhono akhe omphakathi adinga ukuthuthukiswa? Noma, ingabe kukhona esinye isizathu esenza ukuthi oontanga bakhe bamphike? Kungenzeka ukuthi umqondo omuhle ukuthinta isisekelo ngothisha wengane yakho noma umeluleki wezinkomba, ukuze ubone ukuthi baneziphakamiso noma ulwazi oluwusizo.
Ukubhekana nokuxhashazwa
Fundisa ingane yakho mayelana nokuhlukumezeka , futhi umnike imibono yokuthi angabhekana kanjani nomhlukumezi uma ehlangana ubuso nobuso. Futhi, fundisa ingane yakho ukuthi abangane abalungile abahlukumezi noma bazame ukuxhaphaza abanye. Abangane abahle nabo abahlukumezi abangane babo. Ukusiza ingane yakho ukwazi umehluko phakathi komngane omuhle nombi ulwazi olubalulekile ingane yakho oluzoyidinga kuyo yonke intsha.
Ukulahlwa
Ukwenqaba akulula, futhi kunzima kakhulu kuma-tweens kanye nentsha. Ngezinye izikhathi izingane ziyanqatshwa, ngisho nabangane besikhathi eside, noma zilahlekelwa izingane ezithandwayo. Kungenzeka futhi ukuba abangane bahlukane phakathi esikoleni esiphakathi, njengoba izithakazelo zishintsha noma zithuthuka.
Uma ingane yakho inqatshelwe umngane, yiba lapho ukuze unikele ngenkxaso. Myeke azi ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi ubungane abuhlali, futhi ubonise abangane abasesekhona kuye. Siza ingane yakho ikhulise isiyingi sabo sabangani ngemisebenzi yezenhlalakahle neyezinye izikhathi.
Lapho Abangane Beya Emibi
Ezinye izingane ziyashintsha esikoleni esiphakathi, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ingane yakho ingaba nomngane ozama izidakamizwa, utshwala noma ezinye izinto eziyingozi. Umzila wakho wokuzivikela ukwazi abangane bakho futhi uxoxe njalo nabanye abazali. Ngaleyo ndlela, cishe uzobona ubungane obuyingozi futhi ubhekane nayo ngaphambi kokuba uphume.
Thola izindlela zokugcina ingane yakho ixakekile ukuze unciphise isikhathi yedwa nomngane omubi. Khuthaza uhlangothi lwakho ukuthola izithakazelo nemisebenzi yangaphandle ukuze ukwandise umjikelezo wabangani kanye nezintshisekelo. Futhi, qiniseka ukuthi ingane yakho iyazi ukuthi yini okulindelwe yona, kanye nanoma yimiphi imiphumela okufanele i-interior yakho ilahleke emithethweni yakho yomndeni.
Ukukhishwa
Ubuhlobo bungaba nzima, ngisho nobungane obuhle kunzima. Kungenzeka ukuthi ingane yakho ingase ihlangane nomngane omphethe, futhi kuyinto okudingayo ukusiza ingane yakho ukubhekana nayo.
Chaza ukuthi yikuphi ukukhwabanisa, nokuthi ungamelana kanjani nawe. Vimbela ingane yakho ngemishwana noma izimpendulo ezisiza ukuthi asebenze nabangani abaphethe, njengokuthi, "Angithandi ukuphathwa, ngakho-ke sicela ume manje!". Futhi, fundisa ingane yakho izimfanelo zomngane omuhle, nokuthi ungabanye kanjani nabanye.