Ukuxhashazwa kuqala ngesikhathi esencane. Ingaboniswa njengabantwana abangavumeli omunye ukuba ajoyine umbuthano noma angamenywa ukudlala imidlalo noma enye imisebenzi yezingane ezifanele iminyaka yobudala. Ukuxhashazwa kungabangela ukuhoxiswa, ukuzethemba okuncane nokunciphisa ukuphumelela kwezemfundo kungaholela uma ukungenelela kwabantu abadala kungenzeki.
Izingane zingahle zitshele abazali bazo noma abanye abantu abadala njengabanakekeli noma abaqeqeshi, kodwa izingane ezingabanjwanga oontanga noma abangenabo abangane ekunakekeleni izingane noma esikoleni zingabhubhisa ingqondo engapheliyo.
Ukulahlwa kontanga kungafika ngendlela yokungahlali nabanye etafuleni, kungabandakanyi emidlalweni noma ngezikhathi zomphakathi njengokungena noma ukudlala ngaphandle, noma ukungabi namuntu ekilasini noma eqenjini elixhumana nabo nganoma iyiphi indlela.
Izindlela Zokusiza Izingane Ezizizwa Zingekho Esikoleni
Ukuzethemba kwesibonelo
Wena uthisha wengane yakho futhi ingane yakho ibheka konke okuhambayo nokufunda kwakho. Thola izindlela zokuzithemba ngokuzenzekelayo ezimweni lapho omunye angase akuphathise ngendlela ongayithandi ngakho ingane yakho ingazwa futhi ibone ukuthi yikuphi ukuzethemba okuzobonakala.
Fundisa futhi usize ukuthuthukisa amakhono ayisisekelo omphakathi
Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho izwa ukuthi iyathandwa futhi isekelwe ekhaya , futhi ucabange ukuthi amakhono omphakathi kumele afundiswe noma aqinisekiswe ukusiza ngosizo lwabalanga. Zama ukubeka ngokucacile ukuthi ukukhishwa kungenxa yendlela yokuziphatha engamukeleki emphakathini noma amaphethini angase aqede ubungane ekubunzeni.
Amakhono ezenhlalakahle angase angaveli kuzo zonke izingane ngakho kubalulekile ukuba abazali bafundise. Ukudlala indima noma ukwenza izigcawu ingane yakho ekutshela ukuthi yenzeke esikoleni. Fundisa ingane yakho ukuthi uzethula kanjani, cela ukujoyina izingane zemidlalo zidlala ndawonye.
Fundisa ukuziphatha okuqinisayo
Fundisa ingane yakho ukuba iqinisekise ngokusebenzisa ulimi olubonisa ingane yakho ukuthi ikwazi ukuthola izidingo zabo zihlangane ngendlela ehloniphayo.
Banikeze ngolimi oluthembayo abangalusebenzisa uma bengathandi ukuthi omunye umntwana ukhuluma nabo noma ubaphathe kanjani. Chaza ukuthi ukuzimela kusho ukuzimisela ngokwakho ngokuzethemba futhi uhlale uzolile futhi uhlelwe. Fundisa ingane yakho ukuthi ungathula kanjani ezimweni ezinzima ngokuthatha ukuphefumula okujulile. Mnike amandla ukuba enze isitatimende esiqinisekisayo futhi ahambe, noma azinaki ukuxhashazwa ngokuphelele.
Hlala uxhumekile
Hlala uxhumane njalo nomuntu omdala ophethe esikoleni noma nomaphi lapho ingane yakho izwa khona ingabandakanyi futhi ucabangele ukuzithandela noma ukusiza eklasini lapho ungabona khona ukuxhumana. Ngezinye izikhathi, ngokuqaphela ukuthi yiziphi izingane ezijabulele kakhulu, ukukhuluma ngazo, noma ukudlala kunganikeza ulwazi olwanele ukusiza ingane ukuthi ihlanganyele ngokuphumelelayo nabanye. Kuyesabisa futhi ngezinye izikhathi kuhlazisa izingane ukuba zikhulume nabazali bazo mayelana nezihlukumezi, ngakho-ke qaphela izincazelo zomntwana wakho nezethulo futhi ufunde phakathi kwemigqa. Qaphela ukuziphatha okuguqukayo futhi uxhumane nengane yakho njalo ngakho uzizwa ekhululekile ukukhuluma nawe mayelana nezinto ezinzima.
Ngenelela
Umsebenzi wakho ukuvikela ingane yakho. Abantu abadala kufanele baxoxe ngokukhathazeka ngengane nengqondo bese belalela ngokucophelela, bese benza i-aphoyintimenti yokuxoxa ngale ndaba ngomhlinzeki wokunakekela ingane, uthisha noma umqeqeshi.
Buza ukuthi ngabe abanye abadala baye bayiphawula yini inkinga, futhi noma yiziphi izinyathelo ezithathayo ukuze ingane izwe ihlanganiswe nezinye izingane. Yenza ingane yakho yazi ukuthi uhlangothini lwayo futhi ukufaka isandla kwabantu abadala kudingeke ukuthi kudingeke ukuba uthole impande yenkinga.
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Unganqikazi ukukhuluma nomeluleki wesikole noma kwengqondo yengane. Kubalulekile ukubhekana nokukhathazeka futhi ungayinaki noma ukhuthaze ingane ukuba ibekezelele. Ukuzihlukanisa akuyona nje ukuthandwa; kungathinta kakhulu ukuzethemba kwengane kanye nokukwazi ukuba nabangane uma kungakhulumi futhi kuxazululwe.