Izindlela Zokuthuthukisa Ngokuphumelelayo Ukuziphatha Okuhle
Uma ingane yakho ingalungile, imivuzo ingase ibe yinto yokugcina engqondweni yakho. Kodwa, ukuqiniswa okuhle kungaba enye yezindlela eziphumelela kakhulu zokuguqula ukuziphatha .
Ungasebenzisa ukuqinisa okukhuthazayo ukukhuthaza ukuziphatha okuqhubekayo, njengokuhlanganyela noma izinkomba ezilandelayo. Futhi, ungayisebenzisa ukuvimbela ukungalungi, njengokushaya nokulawula ukwephulwa.
Ukuqiniswa okuhle kungabuye kube yindlela ephumelelayo yokukhuthaza ingane yakho ukuba ibe necala, ngokumgqugquzela ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya noma ukuqedela izabelo zakhe zasekhaya ngaphandle kokuphikisana.
Ukuvuselelwa Kokuhle Kusebenza Kanjani
Iningi labantu abadala baya emsebenzini ukuze bathole imali yokukhokha. Yiqiniso, kungase kube neminye imivuzo abayithola nayo, njengokuzizwa kahle ngabo kanye namandla abo okusiza abanye.
Kodwa ikhokhelo labo linikeza ifomu eliyinhloko lokuqiniswa okuhle ekusebenzeni. Lokho kuqinisa kahle kubashukumisela ukuba baqhubeke besebenza.
Izingane ezithola ukuqiniswa okuhle emsebenzini wazo omuhle zikhuthazwa ukuba ziqhubeke zisebenza kanzima. Ngakho kubalulekile ukuvuza ukuziphatha ofuna ukubona kaningi.
Izibonelo Zokuvuselela Okuhle Nezingane
Kunezindlela eziningi zokuqinisa ukuziphatha. Futhi imivuzo eminingi yizinketho zamahhala noma eziphansi izindleko.
Ukuqiniswa okuhle akudingeki ukuthi kube into ebonakalayo.
Esikhundleni salokho, ungakwazi ngokuqinisekile ukuqinisa ukuziphatha kwengane ngo:
- unikeza amahlanu aphezulu
- ukunikeza udumo
- enikeza isikhonkwane noma pat on the back
- ukunikeza izithupha
- ukushaya nokugcoba
- utshele omunye umuntu omdala ukuthi uziqhenya kanjani ngokuziphatha kwengane yakho ngenkathi ingane yakho ilalele
Ungase futhi unikezele ngokuqiniswa ngokunikeza ingane amalungelo engeziwe noma imivuzo ebonakalayo.
Isibonelo, uma ingane yakho ihlanza ikamelo layo ngaphandle kokucelwa, imyise endaweni yokudlala njengomvuzo. Khona-ke, uzobe eshukumiseleka ukuba ahlanze ikamelo lakhe futhi.
Kunezinhlobo eziningi zezinhlelo ezahlukene zokuvuza ongazisebenzisa njengokuqiniswa okuhle. Izingane ezincane zivame ukwenza kahle amashadi wezitika kanye nezingane ezindala zivame ukusabela kahle ezinhlelweni zomnotho we-token .
Izinzuzo Zokuqinisa
Sebenzisa ukuqinisa okukhuthazayo ukuze ukhuthaze noma yikuphi ukuziphatha ofuna ukuthi ingane yakho iphinde iphinde. Izibonelo zokuziphatha ezizoqinisa zihlanganisa:
- usebenzisa imikhuba
- ukudlala ngokuthula
- elinde ngesineke
- ukudlala kahle nezingane zakubo
- ngokuhambisana nesicelo ngokushesha
- ukufaka umzamo omkhulu emsebenzini obunzima
- ukuqedela imisebenzi
Amashejuli Wokuqinisa
Uma ingane yakho ifunda ukuziphatha okusha noma isebenze ikhono elithile, kubalulekile ukunikeza ukuqiniswa okuhle ngesisekelo esifanayo.
Emva kwakho konke, ungayenza kangaki ukusebenza uma ukhokhelwa ngezikhathi ezithile? Ungase ushiye isikhathi esithile ngoba ungakhetha ukuthi imizamo yakho ayilutho.
Okufanayo kungashiwo ingane yakho. Uma nje ummbamba ukuba omuhle ngesikhathi esisodwa noma uvele umnikeze ngokuqinisekisayo ngokungahleliwe, ukuziphatha kwakhe ngeke kushintshe.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi udinga ukunikela ingane yakho umvuzo njalo lapho ephethe isidlo sakhe esitsheni.
Ungasetha uhlelo lomvuzo lapho unikeza ukuqiniswa ngokushesha ngesimo sitika noma uphawu. Khona-ke, izitika kanye namathokheni angakhanjiswa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ngemiklomelo emikhulu.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ungakwazi ukubeka isikhala sakho amandla. Uma ingane yakho ikwazi kahle ikhono, ukuqiniswa kokumangala ngezikhathi ezithile kungasebenza. Yithi, "Maye, ngiyajabula kakhulu ukuthi ulungele ukuhamba esikoleni ngesikhathi esifushane. Ngicabanga ukuthi sizoya endaweni yokudlala kulobubusuku ukugubha."
Gwema Ukuvuselelwa Okuhle Okungavamile
Ngezinye izikhathi abazali bafaka ingozi ngokuziphatha okungalungile. Enye indlela evamile lokhu kwenzeka ngokunakekelwa.
Ukunakwa kungase kuqinise kakhulu, ngisho noma kungakunaki.
Isibonelo, ingane ephoqa umama wayo ngamabomu ithola ukuqiniswa njalo lapho umama ethi, "Yeka lokho!" Noma "Ungenzi lokho." Ukungazinaki kungaba enye yezindlela ezingcono kakhulu zokubhekana nokuziphatha okukhathazayo okukhathazayo.
Enye indlela abazali abaqinisa ngayo ukuziphatha okubi kungukungenisa. Uma umzali etshela ingane ukuthi angeke akwazi ukuphuma ngaphandle, kodwa ingane ikhala futhi iyancenga kuze kube yilapho umzali engena khona, ukugcoba kwengane kuye kwaqiniswa kahle. Ingane yafunda ukuthi ukugcoba kumsiza ukuthi athole lokho akufunayo futhi kungenzeka ukuthi aphinde aphinde amhlophe esikhathini esizayo.
Qinisekisa ukuthi ukuziphatha okubi akuqinisekisiwe. Uma ingane yakho ihlukumeza ngokulandela imiphumela emibi, njengokulahlekelwa kwamalungelo noma imiphumela emihle .
Futhi qiniseka ukuthi ubona ukuziphatha okuhle ofuna ukuwaqinisa. Kungenzeka ukuthi uthola ukuthi ukuqiniswa okuhle kusebenza kangcono kunesijeziso.
> Imithombo
> HealthyChildren.org: Ukuqiniswa Okuhle Ngemivuzo
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