Ukukhulelwa kwakho kwesibili kwenza konke kuhluke kancane, okufaka phakathi uma uqala ukuzwa ukunyakaza kwengane yakho. Ukuzwa ukuthi ingane yakho ihamba okokuqala ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kuthiwa ukuvuselela. Ngesikhathi umama wokuqala engase angazizwa ingane yakhe ishukumisela kuze kube ngemva kwamasonto angu-18-22, njengomama onolwazi, ungabona ukuthi uzwa ingane yakho ngokushesha.
Ungase uphawule ukuvuselelwa kokukhulelwa okwesibili ngokushesha nje, isibonelo, cishe amasonto angu-16-18.
Noma ungayibona ngokushesha kakhulu, njengasekuqaleni kwe-trimester yokuqala. Ingane yakho ihamba kusukela ekukhulelwe kokuqala. Nakuba ngokuvamile ingane isincane kakhulu ukuthi kunzima ukuzizwa.
Ubani Ozwisa Ukuthi Umntanakho Uhambe Ngokushesha?
Ezimweni lapho omama bezwa khona umntwana ngaphambi kwesikhathi ngivame ukuzwa izinto ezimbalwa:
- Akuzona amamama okuqala-isikhathi.
- Zivame ukumbalwa.
- Zivame ukulala phansi noma ziphethwe futhi zithule.
- Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi lokhu kusenesikhathi, abazizwa bengane njalo.
Lapho Kufanele Ukhathazeke Ngokuhamba Kwezingane Zakho
Kungase kube yinto evamile ukuba ungacabangi ukuthi ingane yakho ishukuthele kuze kube sekugcineni ekukhulelweni, ngisho nakukhulelwe kwakho kokubili noma ngaphezulu. Khuluma nodokotela noma umbelethisi wakho mayelana nanoma yikuphi ukukhathazeka onakho nomntwana wakho ohambayo. Kunezizathu zokuthi ungase ungaboni ingane futhi ungenakho ukukhathazeka, noma ngabe kunini isikhathi ucabanga ukuthi kufanele uzwe umntwana, kuvamile ukukhathazeka. Yilapho ukubiza udokotela noma umbelethisi wakho kubalulekile.
Ungase uzwe ingane ngesikhathi esifanayo nezingane zakho zokugcina noma ngisho nangemva kwalokho uma kukhona okulandelayo okuyiqiniso:
- Une-placenta yangaphakathi. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kuvimbela ukukhahlela komntanakho futhi ngenxa yokuthi ayinayo imizwa, ukukhahlela kufanele kube mkhulu ukuzizwa nge-placenta. ukukhahlela kwengane yakho futhi ngenxa yokuthi ayinayo imizwa, ukukhahlela kufanele kube mkhulu ukuze uzizwe nge-placenta.
- Isimo somntanakho singashintsha indlela ozwa ngayo ukunyakaza. Uma ingane yakho ihlala endaweni eyodwa futhi igxila endaweni evulekile ye-amniotic fluid, awukwazi ukuzwa ukuthi ukuhamba kahle. (Lokhu mayelana nalokho ozizwayo lapho omunye odobha engaphansi kwamanzi futhi eseduzane.)
- Wena ulinganisa okungaphezu kwakho okwenziwe ekukhulelweni kwakho kokuqala. Ukukhishwa okungeziwe kungenza kube nzima kakhulu ukuzizwa ngaphandle.
Udokotela wakho noma umbelethisi uzohamba phezu kwakho konke ngendlela yakho yokuqashwa kokuqala kokubeletha okwenzekile. Lokho kusho ukuthi, ukuba nomntwana wesibili (noma ngaphezulu) ngokuvamile uhlukile kakhulu kokuqala. Lezikhathi ezivame ukumangaza umama wesifazane wesibili ngoba bacabanga ukuthi bayazi ukuthi yini okufanele balindele. Ngakho-ke unganqikazi ukukhuluma nodokotela wakho ukuze uthole iseluleko. Zisetshenziselwa umama wesibili noma ngaphezulu isikhathi sokuqala njengomama okokuqala. Omunye wake wathi: Ekukhulelweni kwakho kokuqala, ukhathazekile ngoba awukwazi ukuthi yini ongayilindela. Ukukhulelwa kwakho kwesibili, ukhathazekile ngoba wenza futhi akusebenzi ngaleyo ndlela.