Ngesimo sengqondo esifanele, ukukhulelwa akudingeki kube sesabisa
Abaningi abaneminyaka engu-9 kuya kweyishumi nambili bayajabula ngokuba neshumi , futhi akudingeki ukuba bakhule ngokushesha kakhulu - kodwa ukukhulelwa kuyashintsha izinto, futhi akukho ukuyeka. AmaTween akudingeki asabe ukwesaba kanye nazo zonke izinguquko eziza nalo. Kukhona izinzuzo zokukhula, ngisho nokukhulelwa ngokwayo kungabangela izinguquko ezithandayo.
Indlela Yokuletha Ubushuwalense Ngendlela Engcono
Uma i-kati yakho isaba umqondo wokuba uneminyaka eyishumi nambili, kunezici eziningi ongabonisa ukuthi wenza ithuba lokukhula futhi ukhulele elihle.
Awudingi inhliziyo enhliziyweni - uma yilokho wena noma ingane yakho wesaba - kodwa ngisho nezingxoxo ezibuhlungu onesikhathi eside zingasiza. Ukuveza konke okuhlangenwe nakho okusha ingane yakho okuzohlangana nayo eminyakeni ezayo kungase kuqiniseke phakathi kwakho. Umqondo lapha wukuthi uma beyazi mayelana nokuphelela kokukhulelwa, ukuguqulwa kungase kungabesabi kakhulu.
Zonke izimo zokukhula nokukhulelwa zingangena ngaphansi kwezigaba ezintathu ezihlukene - i-middle yakho ingabheka phambili okuhlangenwe nakho okusha, imithwalo yemfanelo eyengeziwe, nokubukeka okusha. Ungesabi ukungena emininingwaneni ukuze unikeze phakathi kwakho izinto ezithile ukuba ujabule ngazo:
Okuhlangenwe nakho okusha
- Ukuzama isikole esiphakathi noma amaqembu ezemidlalo esikoleni esiphakeme . ( Ukukhula kwamandla okukhula nokukhulisa amandla kungase kusho ukuthi ingane yakho ithola amakhono amasha nemidlalo abayitholayo.)
- Ukuya ezindaweni ezithile akuqinisekisiwe
- Ukujoyina amaqembu angemva kwesikole
- Amakholeji okuvakasha nokucabanga ngokuphila emva kwesikole esiphakeme
- Ukufunda ukushayela
- Ukwenza abangane abasha
- Amakhono okubhekana nabo abaye bazibuza njalo (njengokupheka noma ukulungisa izimoto)
- Ukuthatha amakilasi abo esikoleni
- Ukuthola izinto zokuzilibazisa ezintsha nokuzama amakhono aphezulu
- Iya kuma-movie angalinganiswanga-G
- Ukuphola
- Ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nabangani
- Ukuhlala ngemuva kwesikhathi
Kuthemba Imithwalo Yemfanelo Emisha
- Ukusiza ngemithwalo yemfanelo yomndeni, njengokubuka izingane zakudala noma ukusiza ukudla okulungiselelwe
- Ukwenza izinqumo eziningi emisebenzini yabo yansuku zonke kanye nekusasa labo
- Ukubeletha, ukugubha utshani nokuthola imali yabo
- Ukuthola umakhalekhukhwini
Bheka okusha
- Izingubo ezintsha nezicathulo zomzimba wabo okhulayo
- Ukuthola amalensi othintana nabo (uma begqoka izibuko noma banesithakazelo sokuzama amalensi ezinombala)
- Ukushaya imilenze noma ubuso
- Amazinyo aqondile njengoba ama-braces ephuma
- Ukukhipha izingubo zabo noma ukugqoka (ngaphakathi kwemingcele yakho)
Yabelana ngalezi zindaba ezimayelana nalokho okushiwo ukukhulelwa ngomsana wakho bese ubethula njengento okufanele ujabule ngayo (nakuba umqondo wokucheba nsuku zonke ungase ungabonakali kakhulu kuwe). Mhlawumbe uzothola umbono wokukhula kunokuba wesabe izinguquko ezizayo. Futhi khumbula ukuthi ube nesineke phakathi kwakho lapho ukuguga nokuguquka kwemizwa kungena. Isigaba sokuphila esicindezelayo, ukuqinisekisa ukuthi, futhi i-kiddo yakho idinga lonke usizo onganikeza.