Buyekeza ukuthi ngabe umhlinzeki wakho wezingane zokunakekela izingane uhlangabezana yini nezidingo zakho
Uma ungakwenzi njalo maduzane, akukho isikhathi esingcono kunanamuhla sokubuyela esimweni somnakekeli wengane yakho kanye nesilungiselelo sokunakekelwa kwengane ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ukukhetha kwakho kuhlala okungcono kakhulu kwengane yakho nomndeni wakho. Nansi izinto zonke umndeni okufanele zibuyekeze njalo ezinyangeni ezimbalwa.
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Ingabe Ingane Yakho Ijabule?Imvelo yengane yakho ingaphephile futhi inikeze zonke izinhlobo zemisebenzi yemfundo yokuqala, kodwa umbuzo oyinhloko wonke umzali okufanele abuze ukuthi "Ingabe ingane yami ijabule ngempela ukunakekelwa kwezingane?" Ngenkathi zonke izingane kufanele zibe nezinkinga zokuhlukanisa ukukhathazeka noma izinsuku lapho zivele zingathandi ukuya kwansuku zonke, abazali kufanele bahlole ukuthi inani labo likhululekile ekunakekeleni izingane (okungenani isikhathi esiningi). Ingabe ingane yakho inabangane, ilangazelela izenzakalo ezikhethekile noma izinsuku, futhi kubonakala sengathi unesibopho nomhlinzeki wokunakekela? Ingabe uhlanganyela emphakathini futhi ubonakala ekhula ekunakekeleni kwakhe? Uma kungenjalo, kungase kube yisikhathi sokuhlola kabusha futhi ufune ukuhlelwa kwezinhlelo ezahlukene zokunakekela izingane .
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Ingabe Umnakekeli Wengane Yakho Unentshiseko Ngezingane?Uthisha / umhlinzeki wengane yakho angase abe nezimpawu ezinhle, kodwa abazali abaningi bafuna umnakekeli onothando lwangempela lwezingane futhi azinamathele. Lokhu kuyigugu, kepha abazali bafuna ukuzizwa sengathi umnakekeli wengane wabo ubheka umsebenzi wakhe njengesibusiso, nokuthi izingane zijabulisa ukuhlala. Uma uthola umqondo wokuthi umnakekeli wakho ungathanda ukwenza enye into, kungase kube yisikhathi sokuthola indawo.
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Ingabe Ukunakekelwa Kwezingane Zakho Kuphephile?Amaphuzu abonakala eheha izinto eziyingozi kanye nokudlala okungaba yingozi. Qinisekisa ukuthi uhlola ngokucophelela ukuthi ngabe umhlinzeki wakho wangaphakathi ekhaya unabo bonke izisekelo ezihlanganiswe ngokuphepha ekhaya . Izikhungo zokunakekelwa kwezinsuku kufanele zibe nohlu futhi zikwazi ukunikeza izincazelo eziningi zokuphepha nezinqubo zokuphepha. Qinisekisa ukuthi ubuza mayelana nokukhipha ukuphuma nokuhamba ngezinqubo zokuphepha futhi uqiniseke ukuthi ukhululekile nezimpendulo ezinikeziwe.
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Uyakuthanda Ukukhula Komntwana Wakho Nokufunda Ekunakekelweni Kwezingane?Ochwepheshe nabazali ngokufanayo bahluke ngokubaluleka kwezemfundo zakuqala ezihlelekile ukulungiselela izingane ngaphambi kokufunda isikole kanye ne-enkulisa. Abanye bathi ukuhlangabezana nezidingo eziyisisekelo, ukunikeza ukudlala okuningi okuphephile nokujabulisayo, nokukhuthaza ukuxhumana komphakathi kuyanele. Kodwa-ke, abanye bakholelwa ukuthi ukugxila ekufundeni kokuqala kanye nezibalo kanye nokwethulwa kwemibono yezemfundo ngisho nokukhuluma kwamanye amazwe kubalulekile ekuphumeleleni kamuva. Thola ukuthi yiziphi izinhloso zakho nezilindelwe ingane yakho esiteshini sakhe samanje; ke-ke, qiniseka ukuthi zihlangene ukuze ukwanelise.
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Ingabe Ukhuluma Ngokuhle Ngomhlinzeki Wokunakekela Umntanakho?Ukuxhumana kuyaqhubeka kube yinto eyinhloko "yokwenza noma ikhefu" ngokugcwele ukwaneliseka kwesikhathi eside zokunakekela izingane. Qinisekisa ukusebenzisa umqeqeshi / umnakekeli wokuqala owenza isitayela sakhe sokukhulumisana sisebenze neyakho. Ingabe ufuna umbiko wansuku zonke wemisebenzi futhi wazi imikhuba yokudla / yokulala yengane yakho ngokuningiliziwe? Abanye abazali benza; abanye bacabanga ukuthi akudingekile. Uyakuthanda umhlinzeki obeka izingqikithi zamasonto onke futhi adala izinsuku ezikhethekile (njengokugqoka obomvu ngoLwesine), noma ingabe lezi zinhlobo zemisebenzi zikwenza udideke? Ingabe umhlinzeki wakho ucela izingqungquthela ezivamile? Lokhu kubambisana; qiniseka ukuthi isebenza kuwo wonke umuntu.
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Ingabe Unayo Ukuthi Lovin 'Ukuzwa Ngomntwana Wakho?Esikhathini esiningi, abazali banomuzwa onembile mayelana nomntwana noma umnakekeli futhi bancike kulezo zincumo ukwenza izinqumo zokunakekela izingane. Nakuba leyo mizwa akufanele ibe yimbangela yokukhetha noma ukukhetha umhlinzeki wokunakekelwa, kufanele ihlolwe ngokujulile. Ufuna ukuzizwa uqiniseka emakhono akho nobuntu bakho. Sichitha isikhathi nengane yakho yokuxoxa ngokuphathelene nezithakazelo, izinhlelo zomsebenzi, njll, ukuqinisekisa ukuthi "i-radar yomzali" yakho ihamba kahle.
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Ingabe Ukuqondiswa Kuqondiswa Nokunakekelwa Izitayela?Ayikho indlela efanele noma indlela engalungile yokukhulisa ingane. Kodwa ufuna ingane yakho ikhulise indlela yakho . Qinisekisa ukuthi wena nomhlinzeki wokunakekelwa kwengane yakho bavumelana ngezindlela zokuqondisa, ukuthuthukiswa komlingiswa, imikhosi yenkolo, nezinye izinkinga zomphakathi nezomzwelo. Lokhu kungasiza ekugwemeni ukungezwani noma ukungezwani.
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Ingabe Umnakekeli Wakho Uyazi Iseluleko Samuva Sokwelashwa?Iseluleko sokunakekelwa ngokuphepha kwezingane nezinsana zishintsha njengoba ulwazi olusha lutholakala. Qinisekisa ukuthi umhlinzeki wakho wokunakekelwa ugcina izincomo zakamuva nokuthi balandela iseluleko sezinhlangano zezingane kanye nezinye iziphathimandla zempilo ezihloniphekile. Izibonelo zihlanganisa indawo yokulala nokuphepha kwe-crib ukuvimbela isifo sofuba sokuzalwa kwezinsana kanye nokugoma komkhuhlane kubahlinzeki bokunakekela abasebenza nabantwana.
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Ingabe i-Credentials / Ilayisensi Yesikhashana?Izidingo kanye nemithethonqubo yelayisense mayelana nabahlinzeki bokunakekela izingane zingase zihluke ngombuso noma inhlangano, kodwa abazali kufanele bahlale bekwazi izidingo nokuthi ngabe umhlinzeki wabo usesikhathini. Izikhungo zokunakekelwa kwezinsuku zivame ukuba nezinketho ezengeziwe zokuqinisekisa. Buza mayelana nanoma yikuphi ukuhlola kanye neziqinisekiso, futhi yiziphi izinqubo ezisetshenziswayo. Lolu lwazi luyatholakala ku-intanethi ukuze lubuyekezwe kalula ukuze abazali bakwazi ukuqonda amazinga nokulindela. Uma ukhetha ukusebenzisa umuntu ongenayo ilayisensi (njengomntwana wokubeletha isikhathi esithile), okungenani kudinga ukuthi umnakekeli unesisekelo sokuqeqesha lokuqala / u-CPR.
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Uyini Uhlelo Lokuvuselela Lomhlinzeki Wakho Wokugula?Ngokuvamile abazali baqasha abanakekeli ukuze bakwazi ukuzikhandla ngokwabo, bakha inkinga lapho umhlinzeki wokunakekelwa kwengane engakwazi ukusebenza. Kodwa, ngokuhlelwa kusengaphambili, i-Plan B ingavame ukufakwa ngokuphumelelayo. Ngenkathi omunye uthisha angeniswa kalula ekunakekelweni kwezinsuku, abahlinzeka ngemakhaya bangakwazi futhi ukuhlelela umsizi wesipele ngezikhathi lapho begula noma bengakwazi ukusebenza. Abazali kufanele benze futhi izinhlelo lapho i-tot yabo yabo igula futhi bengakwazi ukuya enkantini.