Kunzima ngokwanele ukuthola umsizi, ngakho wazi kanjani ukuthi unomntwana omkhulu? Nazi izibonakaliso ukuthi umqashi oqashile ukubuka izingane zakho yilowo odingayo ukuqhubeka naye iminyaka!
Kubonisa Ukusebenzisana Nokuziphatha Okuhle
Ingabe umntanakho ungumfudumalo nobungane? Ingabe uzimisele, wamukele futhi ubonakale efisa ukuba nethuba lokunakekela izingane zakho?
Ubuntu obubandakanyekayo nawe bungaba uphawu oluhle lokuthi uzojabula futhi ajabule nezingane zakho kanye naye, kodwa akeke adlale nabo futhi aqaphele ukuxhumana kwabo futhi uma ingane ihlanganyela.
Ucela Imibuzo Edingekayo
Umhleli wakho uthola imvume yokuqala uma ebuza imibuzo eminingi kusengaphambili noma ngesikhathi sokuqala kwezikhathi ezithile. Ukuqonda ukuthandwa / ukungathandwa kwabantwana, ukulungiswa okukhethekile kokudla (ngisho noma ngabe bathanda ama-nuggets abo okugcoba noma okuphekwe) noma ama-sandwich ahlukanisa ngokuqondile noma aqondile, yizibonakaliso ezinhle ukuthi u-sitter ufuna ngempela ukwenza umsebenzi omuhle!
Ifika Ngesikhathi, Yonke Isikhathi
Ukubeletha kufanele kuhanjiswe njengomsebenzi wangempela . Lokho kusho ukufika ngesikhathi-isikhathi ukuze abazali bakwazi ukuhamba ngesikhathi! Nakuba izimo eziphuthumayo ezingenakugwenywa zingase zenzeke, ukulala ngokweqile, ukuphuma kwegesi, ukungabi nokuthutha, noma okubi kakhulu, "kukhona okukhona," akuzona izizathu ezamukelekayo zokungahlangani nenye ingxenye yazo.
Umsizi omkhulu ufika njengoba kuhleliwe futhi ulungele ukwenza okuthile!
Uqedile ukuqeqeshwa kokuqala / ukuqeqeshwa kweCPR kanye namanye amakilasi
Abaningi bezingane zokubeletha balungiselela ukuzithengisa kubazali ngokuzithandela ukuthatha i-CPR / Aid First kanye namakilasi okuqala okufundisa emotweni. Ezinye izikhungo zomphakathi zize zinikeze namakilasi okuqeqesha izingane, ngokuvamile ahloselwe abasha, ukusiza ukufundisa ukuphuthumayo, amathiphu okubhekana nezingane ezingalawuleki, nokuphathwa okulula kokudla.
Uma u-sitter wakho eqale ukuqeqesha, kuyisibonakaliso esihle uzoba nesifiso sokwenza umsebenzi omuhle lapho eqashwe!
Iza Ukulungele Ukuzijabulisa Kwengane-Yomngane
Ababelethi abakhulu kunazo zonke beza bakulungiswa nomuntu ozokwenza nabantwana abakhathalelayo. Abahleli bezingcingo bangaletha isofthiwe elula-yokuqedela, incwadi ekhethekile, noma i-DVD oyithandayo noma ividyo yokubukela ndawonye, futhi abanye baze balethe ngisho ne-popcorn noma ukuphathwa okukhethekile (Yebo, bahlola ukuvunywa kwabazali kuqala). I-Sitters iyaqaphela: indlela enhle yokunqoba izinhliziyo zabazali iwukuhlela okuthile okulula futhi kumnandi, ngisho nokulula njengebhola ukudlala isikwele ezine emgwaqweni!
Izigqoko Ngokufanelekile Ukulinda Nezingane
Umhleli ofika ogqoke usuku olushisayo kamuva ngeke afune ukudlala ibhola, angcolile noma ahlaziye noma ajabule kakhulu nezingane zakho. Abantwana abakhulu kunazo zonke bafika "bangabonakali" kepha babe nenjabulo yabantwana nabancane bakho. Kumele bagqoke izingubo ezinethezekile nezingavamile, mhlawumbe ezintweni ezingeke zonakaliswe ngokuncane, ukudla noma isenzo! Izicathulo, ama-flip-flops noma ama-tennies kusho ukuthi ulungele ukudlala!
Inikeza Abazali Ngempendulo
Thola umsizi ozokutshela ngenjabulo ukuthi wenzani nabantwabakho ngenkathi usuhambe (futhi ukugoqa izintambo ukuphazamisa ukwengeza imininingwane kungcono nakakhulu).
Qaphela umsizi obonakala sengathi ufuna kuphela ukukhuluma nawe lapho izingane zingekho ezindlebeni; okungase kubonise ukuthi uzoletha inguqulo ehlukile kunalokho abangase babonise. Abanye ababesebenzela ngisho nokushiya abazali nge "lokho esikwenzile" kubuyele ngokufingqa okujabulisayo, izikhathi ezibucayi, ngisho nalabo abadlayo. Yeka umgcini!
Unemibono enhle
Yiqiniso, izingcaphuno ziyingxenye yezinto zokuqala ozihlolisayo , kodwa izingane ezibhekwa njengento engcono kakhulu izoba nezinkomba eziningi ezivela kubazali abajabulayo! Okungcono kakhulu bafuna ukuba igama lakho lengezwe ohlwini lwabo "kwamakhasimende anelisekile" futhi kuzoqinisekisa ukuthi izingane zakho zikhwaza ukuba zibuyele futhi ... futhi futhi!
Qinisekisa ukuthi ucela izinkomba kanye nokulandelela ngamakholi ukuze unikeze ukuthula okungaphezulu kwengqondo nokuphepha. Futhi, qiniseka ukuthi ubiza isikhathi esiningi ngaphambi kokuba athole umsebenzi kwenye indawo!
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Ukuthola umntanakho othemba ukuthi izingane zakho zijabule nazo akuwona umsebenzi olula. Ungahlali futhi uthembe umthambo wakho uma unesimo esibucayi. Hlala ubheka futhi uzothola umuntu omele umndeni wakho.