Ukuthola umntanakho kungaba yinselele kubazali abaningi, kodwa bekhululekile futhi beqiniseka ukuthi lowo oye wakhetha uzogcina izingane zakho ziphephile futhi zijabule zingase zingaboni. Nazi ezinye izimpawu zokuxwayisa ukuthi uqashile umntanami omubi futhi udinga ukuthola omunye umuntu we-pronto!
Akubandakanyi Engxoxweni Nomzali
Akusilo kakhulu ukulindela umhleli wokubingelela abazali, ukumomotheka, nokuhlanganyela enkulumweni encane encane.
Kufanele acele mayelana nezingane, akufisele isikhathi esihle, futhi uxoxe isikhathi eside ngokwanele ukuze uzizwe ukhululekile. Khathazeka uma lo sitter engenzi okufanayo nezingane noma; okuyinto evimbela ukuxhuma okukhulu okungabonisa ukuntuleka okuqinile kokuxhumana konke-nxazonke.
Akubheki Ukunakekelwa noma Ukugxila Emithethweni Ehlinzekwe
Umhleli omuhle kufanele aqaphele imiyalo oyihlinzekayo futhi uvume ukuqonda okuphelele. Uma utshela i-sitter ukuthi izingane kufanele zigeze futhi zilale embhedeni othile, futhi uya "yebo, kunjalo, noma yikuphi" noma kubonakala sengathi uyakunaka noma yini oyishoyo, wena kufanele ukhathazeke nganoma yikuphi ukulandelwa okwenzekayo. Abazali bangasiza ukugwema lokhu ngokunikeza imiyalo ebhaliwe; Kodwa-ke, umhleli wekhwalithi uzothatha amanothi noma akwazi ukuphindaphinda ulwazi.
Ifika Ngesikhathi Esizayo noma Ngokujwayelekile Ngeke Yenzeke
Izimo eziphuthumayo zomndeni noma okungenakugwenywa kungenzeka ngokuqinisekile, kodwa ukubeletha okungapheli noma okuqhubekayo kokukhansela kungabangela ubunzima obukhulu kubazali futhi kubhubhise izinhlelo ezihlelwe kahle.
Uma ngabe i-sitter yakho ingakhathazeki ngomsebenzi ukuze ufike ngesikhathi futhi uzwele ngezinhlelo zakho, khona-ke thola ozokwenza! Kunjalo nangomhleli otshela abazali njengoba bekulungele ukukhipha umnyango ukuthi kumele babe ekhaya ngesikhathi esibekiwe okuhlukile kulokho okuvunyelwene ngakho.
Izingane zikhala ngokungena ngakwesobunxele kanye naye (noma kuye)
Akuyona into engavamile ukuba izingane zingafuni ukuhlukana nomama noma ubaba. Kodwa uma ingane ihlaselwa ngokomzwelo ngokushiywa ngesitoreji esithile, abazali kufanele babe nemiqondo yesibili mayelana nokusebenzisa lowo muntu. Kungabi lutho ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngokwehlukanisa noma ingane ikhulunywa ngokuthi "cha" futhi ibambe ngokumelene ne-sitter, noma ingasho okuthile okunye. Uma abazali bethola ukuthi uyedwa kuphela ngokuba nomhleli ngokujwayelekile, ubheke enye indawo isithakazelo esihle somntanakho.
Izingane zikhombisa ukuguquka kokuziphatha ngenkathi i-Phaphama noma ishintshela ku-Pattern Pattern
Uma umntwana ovame ukuphuma futhi ozimele ngokuzumayo uba ukhontekile futhi ahoxiswe noma aqale ukuvuka ubusuku bonke ngokuphazamiseka noma ezinye izinkinga zokulala, futhi ushintsho lungathiwa isikhathi sokuhlala, ngakho-ke abazali kufanele bakhathazeke. Ukuziphathisa kwezingane kungashintsha, ngisho nakakhulu, kepha lezi yizimpawu eziyisixwayiso okufanele zinganakwa. Abazali kufanele basabele ngokushesha futhi basheshe, futhi banqume ukuthi ngabe uphenyo oluningi luyadingeka yini.
Izingane Zibukeka Zinezingozi Ezivamile
I-cut or scrape noma ezimbili yinto evamile nezingane ezinempilo futhi esebenzayo futhi akufanele ziveze isizathu sokulalisa nabazali.
Noma kunjalo, umsizi omuhle uzokusheshisa ukunikeza incazelo (ie uhambo oluya epakini lwenze ukuqhuma kwesilayidi). Kodwa izingozi eziningi ezibangelwa ukulimala okungaphezu kwalokho kungabonisa ukungabi nokuqondiswa noma okubi nakakhulu, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba. Izingozi kufanele zisebenze njengamafulege angabonisa izinkinga, ikakhulukazi uma zibonakala ziqine.
Ukumema omunye umuntu ngaphezulu (ngaphandle kwemvume yakho)
Ngezinye izikhathi ama-sitters athola ukuzethemba kwemindeni, bese ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uzizwa "unelungelo" ukumemela umngane noma ngisho nokudlula ngaphezulu ngesikhathi kusihlwa. Ngenkathi abazali ngezinye izikhathi baze banikeze lokhu ukusiza ukukhulula izinzwa zokuhlala ekhaya kuphela nezingane, akuphelelwe umgcini we-sitter ukuthatha lesi senzo kulungile.
Kungenzeka ukuthi, izingane zakho zizothola ukunakwa okuncane kanye nokuxhumana uma uhleli wakho enomunye umuntu lapho. Futhi, ngaphandle kokubuza kuqala? Lesi yisizathu esihle sokuqeda.
Kubonakala sengathi i-Lethargic, iphelelwe amandla
Uqashe umntanami ukubuka izingane zakho ngenkathi ukhululekile (noma okungenani isikhathi esingenasidingo), ngakho-ke ukukhathazeka okungenani okuncane kufanele kube ukuthi izingane zakho zijabule futhi zijabulisa ngokungabikho kwakho. Umhleli ofika obonakala ephelelwe amandla noma ngaphandle kwamandla angeke anikeze ukunakekelwa kwekhwalithi. Abazali kufanele bakhathazeke ngokuntuleka kokuqondisa noma umhleli ovele nje etshala izintambo phambi kwe-TV futhi unikeze imiyalelo yokungaphazanyiswa.
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