Ukukhetha umhlinzeki wezokunakekelwa kwezingane ukuzinakekela izingane zakho isinqumo esibalulekile. Ubuhlobo bomzali bomzali obuyinkimbinkimbi bunzima ngoba lo muntu uyisisebenzi sakho kodwa naye uba yingxenye yomndeni wakho. I-nanny yakho ngumuntu oncike kuye; ngezinye izikhathi kuncike kuncike kumyeni wakho noma izihlobo zakho. Usiza ukunakekela izingane zakho futhi unikeza ithuba lokuya emsebenzini nsuku zonke.
Ngeshwa, kuvame kakhulu ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi umfana uzokuyeka ngokungazelelwe. Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani umntanakho ekhetha ukushiya umndeni . Angase abuyele esikoleni noma ahambe ngaphandle kwesimo. Ngezinye izikhathi izizathu zilimaza kakhulu noma zidideka ngoba azikwazi ukuchazwa kalula. Kungenzeka akujabuli ukukusebenzela noma kungenzeka ukuthi uthola umndeni lapho angenza imali eyengeziwe yokusebenza amahora ambalwa.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungani, izingane zakho zinamathele kumfana futhi cishe zizodideka futhi zithukuthele ngesinqumo sakhe sokushiya umndeni wakho. Nazi amathiphu ambalwa okusiza ukuwasebenzisa ngesimo.
Susa ukufutheka futhi uhlale uhle
Uma umntanakho ehamba kancane, uzothola imizwelo eminingi engathandeki, kuhlanganise nokucindezeleka nokuthukuthela. Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukususa le mizwelo emibi uma ukhuluma nezingane zakho mayelana nokuhamba kukaNanny.
Izingane zakho zizobuka kuwe ukuthi zisabele kanjani nokuthi ungabhekana kanjani nalesi simo.
Isibonelo kubo abashintshayo akuyona into embi futhi ubazise ukuthi unina uzosiza omunye umndeni. Bakhumbuze ngezikhathi ezimnandi ababenayo ne-nanny bese ukhuthaza ingane yakho ukuba ikhulume ngokuhle ngobuhlobo bayo.
Khuthaza Izingane Zakho Ukuba Zihlanganyele Ngezizwa Zabo
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ube nobuhlobo obuhle ne-nanny, ingane yakho cishe yayinebudlelwane obukhethekile nalo muntu futhi kungenzeka idabuke noma ididekile mayelana nokuhamba kwabo.
Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuba ifunde noma yikuphi imizwelo abayizwayo futhi ilalele futhi isekele ingane yakho. Ungabatshele ukuthi bazizwa kanjani noma akufanele babe nakho. Vumela ingane yakho isikhathi sokubhekana nokuguquka futhi kulindeleke ukuthi kube khona ukuziphatha noma ukushintsha kwemizwelo ngesikhathi sokuguquka.
Ungabeki icala
Ingane yakho ingase ibe nemibuzo eminingi yokuthi kungani i-nanny ishiya. Phendula noma yimiphi imibuzo ingane yakho inayo ngendlela efanelekayo. Unganikezi ulwazi oluthe xaxa kunesidingo mayelana nesimo.
Qinisekisa ingane yakho ukuthi akuyona iphutha lakhe ukuthi umntanami angeke abe sempilo yakhe yansuku zonke, futhi vumela ingane yakho ukuthi isakwazi ukugcina ubudlelwane nomfana ngokusebenzisa izincwadi kanye nokuvakashelwa ngezikhathi ezithile uma ingane ivumelana. Ukuthatha lezi zinyathelo kuzokuqinisekisa ingane yakho ukuthi uphethe isinqumo nokuthi wonke umuntu omdala uyomsekela ngokuguqula kwakhe ukutshela ukuthi ingane yakhe iyabuyisa.
Xoxa Ngokufanele Ngenanny
Uma unina wakho enikeza isaziso esifanele (amasonto amabili noma ngaphezulu, kuye ngokuthi inkontileka yakho), yenza konke okusemandleni ukuba umenzele kahle ingane yakho). Ungase ulingeke ukuba umqede ngokuzumayo ngoba uthukuthele noma ulimele, kepha lokhu kuyisinqumo esingalungile kumntanakho.
Isikhathi sokuchitha isikhathi esifanele sizovumela ingane yakho ukuba ikwazi ukubhekana nemizwa yakhe futhi izwe nomuzwa wokuvala. Ukuqeda ubudlelwane bomsebenzi ngokuthumayo kuthumela umyalezo kumntanakho ukuthi abantu abalulekile baphume emiphakathini yomunye nomunye futhi bangase bakhulise ukukhathazeka kwakhe ngokwehlukanisa noma ukudala ezinye imizwelo emibi.
Khumbula, Izingane Zingasebenzi
Ukulahlekelwa ngumntanakhe ngezinye izikhathi kunomzwelo okwedlula umzali kunokuba umntanakho. Izingane ziguquguquka, zinamandla futhi zamukela izinguquko kalula kunabantu abaningi abadala. Uma ufanisa ingane yakho ukuthi konke kuzoba kuhle futhi ungabeki imizwa yakho emibi kumntanakho, ingane yakho izobuya ngokushesha.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ingane yakho izodala izibopho ezikhethekile nabanakekeli abaningi kanye nabafundisi kuzo zonke izimpilo zabo futhi ziyakwazi futhi zizimisele ukuthanda enye i-nanny.