Your Middle School Kid

Umhlahlandlela wabazali

Isikole esiphakathi yisikhathi esithinta ingane kanye nabazali. Abafundi basezikoleni esiphakathi basendleleni eya ekubeni abazimele, ukuthuthukisa izithakazelo zabo siqu, nokulungiselela esikoleni esiphakeme nangaphezulu. Nakhu okumele ukwazi ngezingane zasesikoleni samabanga aphansi, nokuthi yini ongayilindela kule minyaka edlule.

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I-Middle School Kids Ziyinkimbinkimbi

AmaTween abhekana nezinselele eziningana phakathi neminyaka yesikole esiphakathi njengobushukela, ukuxhashazwa, ukuphola nezinye izinkinga. Akumangalisi ukuthi abaningana abaningi babhekene nezinkinga zokukhathazeka noma ukubonisa izinkinga zokuziphatha. Ukuzethemba kungase kuhlupheke esikoleni esiphakathi , njengoba abafundi beqhathanisa nabo ontanga. Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi amamaki akho esikoleni esiphakathi azokwehla. Ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nabafundi abahle bayovukela isikole, umsebenzi wesikole, namabanga. Ukwazi ukuthi ingane yakho iphikisana nesikhatsi lesikole kukusiza ukuba uzilungiselele izinselele uma ungekho lapho ukusiza.

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Isikole esiphakathi Izingane Ukulwa Nokucindezela Kontanga

Umntanakho ubhekene nokucindezelwa okungenakwenzeka ukuba angenele, futhi ukucindezela kontanga kubaluleke nakakhulu kulezi zinsuku eziphambili. Kunzima ukuthi izingane zikwazi ukumelana nokucindezela kontanga, ngisho nalapho abazali benza konke okusemandleni abo ukusiza noma ukulungiselela ingane ngokucindezela okuvela kubangane nakwabo esikoleni. Yazi ukuthi kwenzekani emphakathini wakho, ngakho uyazi ezinye zezingcindezi ingane yakho ephikisayo. Ukucindezela kontanga kungabandakanya ukucindezela ukuphola, ukuphuza, ukubhema, ukweqa isikole, ukuxhaphaza abanye, nokuvukela igunya.

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I-Self Image Inkulu Ngama-preteens

Isikole samabanga aphakathi nzima kunzima, asikho ngempela ukuzungezela lokho. Esinye sezizathu ezingaba yinselele kakhulu kubazali ukuthi ingane yakho enhle kamnandi iba yindlovukazi - noma okungenani ibonakala kanjani. Ngenkathi lokhu kuziphatha kunzima ukuhlala nayo, kuyinto evamile kakhulu kwisixuku esiphezulu. Ngamanye amazwi, kuvamile ukuba umfundi wakho wesikole esiphakathi ucabange ukuthi uyisikhungo somhlaba wonke. Indlela osabela ngayo ekuziphatheni komntwana wakho kuyisihluthulelo. Ukuze uqale, ngumbumbulu ukhumbuze ukuthi uyingxenye yomndeni nokuthi amazwi akhe nezenzo zingalimaza abanye. Futhi, qiniseka ukuthi ubonisa ukuthi ukuziphatha kwakhe akumukeleki futhi ngeke kubekezelelwe. Yiba nesineke, mnike isikhala esincane ukuzola lapho kudingeka, futhi usethe iziqondiso ezicacile emithethweni yezindlu, ukuziphatha, njll.

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Isikole esiphakathi Izingane Ziyakhula Izintshisekelo

Ama-Preteens asetshenzisweni yokuthola ukuthi ungobani, futhi lokhu kufaka phakathi ukuthi izithakazelo zabo nezenzo zokuzilibazisa zingaba yini. Izingane zidinga uhlobo oluthile lokucebisa ngaphandle kwesikole. I-preteen yakho kufanele ikhululeke ukuphishekela izithakazelo, ngisho noma zingenjalo izithakazelo ezifanayo ezaba nazo esikoleni samabanga aphansi. Khuthaza ingane yakho esikoleni esiphakathi ukuba ujoyine iqembu lezikole, zama ukudlala, noma ithimba lezemidlalo yesikole, noma uhlanganyele eminye imisebenzi yangaphandle.

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Abafundi Besikoleni Esiphakathi Bangayinselela Imithetho

Ungamangazi uma ingane yakho engumngane ephikisana nemithetho yakho ekhaya noma imithetho yesikole esiphakathi. Cacisa ngemiphumela okufanele isiphendukezi sakho, futhi ungalindeli ukuphelela ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ingane yakho izama ukuqonda ukuthi yini engakwazi futhi ayikwazi ukuhamba nayo, futhi ihlola imikhawulo. Yiba nokuqonda, kodwa uqine futhi uxoxe ngezinto okulindelwe zona ekhaya, esikoleni nalapho ephuma nabangani bakhe.

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Ama-Tweesaba Ukwenqaba Kwezenhlalakahle

Isikole samabanga aphakathi kungaba nzima kakhulu kwengane, ikakhulukazi uma behlukana nabangane, babhekana nokuhlukunyezwa, noma abamukelwa yiontanga. Ukuziphatha kwengane yakho kungabonisa inkinga esikoleni. Izingane ezihlukunyezwa zingase zihoxise ontanga yazo, zingase zithole ukukhathazeka noma zibe nenkinga ngokugxila ekutadisheni. Uma ngabe ingane yakho inenkinga yokwenza abangane, zama ukuthola ukuthi kungani, futhi uthole izindlela zokwandisa umbuthano wabangane bakho wengane ngokusebenzisa imisebenzi nezinye izinhlangano. Uma kunesidingo, thintana nomeluleki wesiqondiso esikoleni ukuze uqonde ubudlelwane bomntanakho.

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