Ukuthola into enhle ongayisho emva kokulahleka kokukhulelwa kungaba nzima
Uma othile omthandayo ehlangene nokulahlekelwa kokukhulelwa noma ukukhulelwa kwesisu, kungaba nzima ukucabanga ngento enhle ongayisho. Omunye wemibhangqwana emihlanu uzothola ukukhulelwa komzimba ohambweni lwabo lokuqala umndeni. Nakuba ukukhubazeka okuvamile, abantu abaningi abathola ukulahlekelwa ukukhulelwa bakuthola kunzima ukucubungula ukulahlekelwa kwabo kanye nokuvulela umndeni nabangane.
Uma uke wabhekana nesisu, ungase uzwe imizwa ehlukahlukene eyenza kube nzima ukuchaza ukulahlekelwa kwakho kulabo omthandayo. Uma usondelene nomuntu osanda kuphazamiseka, kunezindlela eziningi ongabonisa ngayo ukwesekwa kwakho okungadingi ukukhuluma ngokukhulelwa kwabo okulahlekile. Ezinye izindlela ongasisekela othandekayo wakho zihlanganisa:
- Ukulalela: Ukunikezela ukuboleka indlebe uma sebekulungele ukukhuluma.
- Ukusiza ngemisebenzi ebuhlungu: Uma umngane wakho noma ilunga lomndeni unesisu esiphuthumayo, bangase babe nokuningi kwempahla yengane abangeke besaba. Unganikela ukubambelela kulezi zinto kuze kube yilapho sezikulungele, zibuyise, noma zinikeze emindenini enezidingo.
- Ukuhambisana nabo ngaphandle kwendlu: Uma kunesihlungu, kungaba nzima ukushiya indlu. Nikela ukuthatha othandekayo wakho futhi ubazise ukuthi uzoba khona uma badinga isandla noma ihlombe ukukhala.
Uma ufuna amazwi azokusiza ukuba wenze umqondo wokukhulelwa komzimba wakho, noma enethemba lokuthola into enhle ongayisho kumuntu othandekayo olahlekelwe ukukhulelwa , nansi ezinye izingcaphuno mayelana nokulahlekelwa okungakusiza ukuveza indlela uzwa noma yini ofuna ukusho.
Iziqu ezihlobene nokulahlekelwa
"Futhi uma ubusuku bukhuni, kusenjalo ukukhanya okukhanya kimi. Shanyisa kuze kube kusasa, makube khona."
-I-Beatles
Ubaba wami wathi: "Wonke umuntu kufanele ashiye okuthile ngemuva kokufa kwakhe, kusho umkhulu wami." Ingane noma incwadi noma umdwebo noma indlu noma udonga owakhelwe noma izicathulo ezenziwe. ufa, futhi lapho abantu bebukeka kulesohlahla noma ukuthi imbali oyitshale, ukhona.
Akunandaba ukuthi wenzani, uma nje ushintsha okuthile kusukela ngendlela owawuyiyo ngaphambi kokuba uyithinte into into efana nawe ngemuva kokususa izandla zakho. "
-Ray Bradbury, Fahrenheit 451
"Ngiyithwala inhliziyo yakho nami (ngiyithwale enhliziyweni yami) Angikaze ngibe ngaphandle kwayo."
-ee cummings
"Ukwelapha kwanoma yikuphi amanzi okusawoti: ukuthuthumela, izinyembezi noma ulwandle."
-Isak Dinesen
"Uma ngabe ngilahlekelwe umlenze, ngizobatshela ukuthi, esikhundleni somfana, akekho ozoke angibuze ukuthi ngabe ngiyidlulile." Bangibuza ukuthi ngangifunda kanjani ukuhamba ngaphandle komlenze wami. ukuhamba nokuphefumulela nokuhlala ngaphandle kweWade. Futhi lokho engangikufunda ukuthi kwakungeke kube khona ukuphila engangikutholile ngaphambili. "
- Elizabeth Edwards
"Sithanda omunye umuntu, ngisho noma azofa. Futhi siqhubeka sibathanda, ngisho nalapho bengasekho ukuthanda."
- Anne Enright
"Ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukubona u-rainbow uma sekukhona izinsuku ezingenamkhawulo zemvula."
-Kristina Greer
"Izinto ezinhle kakhulu kunazo zonke emhlabeni azikwazi ukubonwa, noma zithintwa, kodwa zizwa enhliziyweni."
- UHelen Keller
" Ukukhulelwa kwesisu kuyinto engokwemvelo futhi evamile . Konke okushiwo, cishe abesifazane abaningi baye balahlekelwa yingane kuleli zwe kunokuba bengenalo. Abaningi abakushoyo, futhi bayaqhubeka usuku nosuku njengokungathi akuzange kwenzeke , ngakho-ke abantu bacabanga ukuthi owesifazane osesimweni esingazange azi noma amthande lokho ayenakho.
Kodwa umcele ngesikhathi esithile: ingane yakho ingaba iminyaka engakanani manje? Futhi uzokwazi. "
-Barbara Kingsolver
"Ayikho into ehlala, kodwa zonke izinto ziyahamba.
Ingxenyana kuya kusiqephu ihlanganisa - izinto zikhula ngaleyo ndlela
Kuze kube sazi futhi siwaqambe. Ngamazinga
Ziyancibilika futhi azikho izinto esizazi. "
-Lucretius
"Ngezinye izikhathi izinto ezincane kakhulu zithatha ikamelo elikhulu enhliziyweni yakho."
-AA Milne
"Ngesinye isikhathi ngesikhathi sokuphila esincane, umuntu kufanele avunyelwe ukuba nobumnandi obuningi ngangokunokwenzeka futhi angabamba."
-Judith Olney
"Hlehlisa, buyiseni emuva, wenze usuku ngalunye oludlule kuze ngibuyiselwe ngosuku olungakafiki ngalo okwenze uhambe.
Noma ungibeke endizeni ehamba entshonalanga, ukudlulisa umugqa wedatha, ngokuphindaphindiwe, ukulahlekelwa yilolu suku, khona-ke, kuze kube usuku lokulahlekelwa kusasa, futhi ulapha, esikhundleni sokudabuka. "
-Nessa Rapaport
"Njengoba udansa ngokukhanya ngenjabulo, uthando lukuphakamisa. Njengoba uqhubekile ngokumelene naleli zwe ngokuzithoba, wasiphakamisa."
-TC Ring
"Ngenye yezinkanyezi, ngizophila. Ngomunye wabo ngizohleka, ngakho-ke kuyoba njengokungathi zonke izinkanyezi zazihleka uma ubheka isibhakabhaka ebusuku ... Wena-kuphela wena- uzoba nezinkanyezi ezingase zihleke! "
- Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
"Lapho uke waba khona, kukhona umgodi ezweni, engithola ngihamba njalo emini, futhi ngiwela ebusuku. Ngikukhumbula uthanda isihogo."
- U-Edna St. Vincent Millay
"Ukuphela? Cha, uhambo alupheli lapha. Ukufa kungenye indlela ... okumele sonke siyithathe. I-gray-curtain yeleli zwe ibuyele emuva, futhi konke kuphenduka ingilazi yesiliva ... bese ubona it. Ugu lolwandle ... nangaphesheya, ilizwe eliluhlaza kakhulu ngaphansi kwelanga elisheshayo. "
- JRR Tolkien
"Ngisho ukuthi ukukhanya okukhanya okwakubonakala kukhanya kakhulu
ngisuswe ngonaphakade emehlweni ami
akukho lutho olungabuyisa ihora
ubukhazikhazi enotshani, inkazimulo embali
Ngeke ngidabuke kodwa ngithole amandla kulokho okusele ngemuva "
UWilliam Wordsworth
Ivesi leBhayibheli Mayelana Nokulahlekelwa
"Babusisiwe abalilayo, ngokuba bayoduduzeka."
Mathewu 5: 4
"Ngakho akuyona intando kaYihlo osezulwini ukuba omunye walaba abancane alahleke."
Mathewu 18:14
"Ngoba lapho ucebile khona, khona-ke inhliziyo yakho iyoba khona."
Luka 12:13
"... uyigugu emehlweni ami, futhi udunyiswa, futhi ngiyakuthanda."
Isaya 43: 4
"Uthando lubeke zonke izinto, lukholelwa zonke izinto, luthemba zonke izinto, lukhuthazelela zonke izinto. Uthando alupheli."
1 Korinte 13: 7-8
"Ngizothumela ingelosi phambi kwakho, ikuqaphe endleleni futhi ikuyise endaweni engiyilungisile."
Eksodusi 23:20
"Vumelani abantwana beze kimi, ningabavimbeli, ngokuba yibo abanjalo umbuso wezulu."
Mathewu 19:14
"Uyosula zonke izinyembezi emehlweni abo. Ukufa ngeke kusaba khona; ukulila nokukhala nobuhlungu ngeke kusaba khona."
IsAmbulo 21: 4
"Kancane, anisoze ningibona; futhi futhi, nesikhashana, niyakubona, ngokuba ngiya kuBaba."
Johane 16:16
"Ngoba uthando luqinile njengokufa."
INgoma kaSolomoni 8: 6