Iminyaka ephakathi nesikhathi yisikhathi esihle sokufundisa umthwalo wemfanelo. Njengoba intsha isondela, amazinga okuziqhenya aqala ukuphakama okokuqala. Ungakwazi ukubeka phambili kulo mkhuba wendalo ngokusebenzisa amathiphu alandelayo wokufundisa umthwalo wemfanelo, ukusiza phakathi kwakho manje nakuyo yonke impilo yakhe.
Ukufundisa Isibopho Ngokuvamile Kusho Ukubuyela Emuva
Ngesikhathi sokuqala nobuncane, cishe udinga ukukhumbuza njalo ingane yakho ngezibopho zakhe noma ngabe izinto zingeke zenziwe.
Kodwa-ke, phakathi kwakho, ingane yakho inokuzimela ngokwengeziwe , noma ikhono lokuthwala imithwalo yemithwalo yemfanelo eminingi, njengezinsuku ezifanele zamaphrojekthi esikoleni futhi uma kudingeka ukuba uhambe emisebenzini yezemidlalo. Kuvunywa ukuthi usadingeka ukumshayela, kepha manje unamandla okukukhumbuza esikhundleni senye indlela. Myeke asebenzise lekhono. Uma uhlala ucabanga ngaye, ngeke athole ithuba lokufunda. Ukubuyela emuva kusho futhi ukumvumela ukuba "ahluleke" kanyekanye, okungamsiza ukuba akhe ukuqina. Khetha izikhathi "ezisezingeni eliphansi" ukuze umvumele aqhube; isibonelo, uma engalungile ekunakekeleni isikhathi, ungamtsheli ukuthi usephuzile ukuhlangana nomngane kodwa kunalokho ake amthole eyedwa. Kungase kudingeke uqhubeke ungenele ezenzakalweni ezibalulekile, noma kunjalo, njengokungena kudokotela wamazinyo ngesikhathi, noma ukuma kwebhasi.
Dala Amathuba Okuziphatha Okuphathekayo Ekhaya
Imisebenzi yasendlini ingaba yindawo ephelele yokufundisa umthwalo wemfanelo.
Ungumphathi, ngakho-ke akukho nengozi yokuthi ingane yakho ihluleke emphakathini, kodwa unelungelo lokuthatha umsebenzi futhi uyigcwalise yedwa. Ukuthatha imisebenzi engamsizi nje kumsize ukuba abe nomthwalo wemfanelo, kungaphakamisa ukuzethemba kwakhe futhi kuvumele ukuba phakathi kwakho wazi ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuthi wonke umuntu emndenini angene ngaphakathi.
Qinisekisa ukuthi imisebenzi yakhe ichazwa ngokucacile, ukuthi umugqa wesikhathi sokuqedela usethe nokuthi uyazi ukuthi kuzokwenzekani uma umsebenzi ungalandelwa. Qinisekisa ukuhlinzeka ngempendulo ejwayelekile, ecacile, ekhoneni mayelana nemizamo yakho ye-tween; tshela ingane yakho ngokuqondile ukuthi yikuphi ukuziphatha okwenzile futhi / noma engenzi kahle, bese unikeza ithuba lakho ukulilungisa.
Nikeza Amathuluzi Asekela Uxanduva
Kungase kuzwakale kulula, kepha ingabe ingaphakathi lakho linamathuluzi ayidingayo ukuba ahlelwe, ngesikhathi futhi aziqondise ? Cabanga ngemithwalo yemfanelo okwamanje oqhubekayo phakathi kwakho - njengokubukela iwashi ekuseni noma ngaphambi kwemikhuba, ukukhumbuza ngomsebenzi wesikole, ukugcina amaphepha esikoleni ahleliwe - futhi uthole amathuluzi azosusa leyo mithwalo yengane yakho. Thatha uhambo olujabulisayo esitolo se-ehhovisi bese ukhuthaza phakathi kwakho ukukhetha amathuluzi enhlangano njengababophezeli nabahleli abakhuluma naye. Nakuba kuhle ukwenza iziphakamiso, khumbula ukuthi amathuluzi cishe ngeke asetshenziswe uma unquma uhlelo lwenhlangano; ingane yakho kufanele ikwazi ukuthi yini eyenzela yena.
Khetha izikhathi ezifanele zokufundisa umthwalo wemfanelo
Njengokufundisa kwanoma yiliphi ikhono, isikhathi siyisihluthulelo sokufundisa umthwalo ngokuphumelelayo.
Kungaba isilingo ukuzama indlela entsha - njengokusebenzisa umhleli okokuqala - lapho izinto sezivele zishintsha, ucabanga ukuthi imikhuba emisha ingasethwa konke ngesikhathi esisodwa. Kodwa empeleni, imikhuba emisha ijwayele ukugcinwa kangcono uma iziswa ngezikhathi ezinzima. Ngakho-ke, ungase ufune ukugwema ukusungula amasu amasha njengoba ingane yakho ishintsha esikoleni esiphakathi noma lapho ingane yakho ifuna ukuzimisela . Ingane yakho isivele ibhekene nemibono eminingi ngokomzwelo, ezenhlalakahle nakwezemfundo phakathi nalezi zinguquko ukuthi cishe ziyobambelela emikhubeni yakudala ukuze ibe nomuzwa wokuzinza.
Kungcono ukusetha imikhuba enesibopho eside ngaphambi kokuba ushintsho lwenzeke, noma ngabe ulinde kuze kube sekudlule.
Thatha ama-Breaks kusuka ekufundiseni Umthwalo wemfanelo
Kunempilo yokwandisa ukuzibophezela emkhatsini wakho, kepha njengalapho ufunda noma yiliphi ikhono elisha, uhlangothi lwakho luzodinga amakhefu. Awudingi ukufuna umthwalo wemfanelo 24-7 ukuze uthole ingane yakho ukuba ikhuphuke, ikwazi ukuzimela futhi inokwethenjelwa. Khumbula ukuthi i-tween yakho isathuthuka, ngakho-ke umsika kancane kancane ngesikhathi esisodwa. Amaviki eviki ngokuvamile yisikhathi esiphelele sokwenza lokhu nje. Ngemuva kwalokho, thina abadala sivame ukubuyisa izinga lethu lomthwalo wemfanelo ngaleso sikhathi, futhi.
Ukuhlonipha Lapho Ingane Yakho Iqala khona
Uma ekuqaleni kwengane ephakathi kwakho ingane yakho yayingumuntu ophansi kunokholo ekilasini lakhe, akunakwenzeka kakhulu ukuthi uyoke abe ngumuntu ophethe kakhulu uma eqhathaniswa neontanga zakhe. Akukho lutho olungalungile ngalokhu. Ukuba nomthelela kuyisici. Njenganoma yikuphi ukuziphatha, abanye bethu banalo ngaphezu kwamanye. Okuhlangenwe nakho kungashintsha ukuthambekela okuyisisekelo ngezinga elithile, kodwa kukhona umkhawulo. Uma nje ingane yakho ikhula ngokweqile ngokuphathelene nesigaba sayo sokuqala, izinto ziyaqhubeka kahle. Ukukhuthaza umthwalo wemfanelo kuwumqondo omuhle, kodwa ungafaki ukucindezela ngokweqile ukuba abe ngumuntu ongekho.
Imikhuba Yakho Yakho Yisihluthulelo Sokufundisa Umthwalo
Mhlawumbe indlela ephumelela kunazo zonke yokufundisa umthwalo wemfanelo ukubonisa indlela oziphethe ngayo ngokwakho. Ingabe uhlala isikhathi eside kuze kube yimikhawulo? Ingabe ukhokha izikweletu ngemuva kwesimiso noma udinga ukuthi umphathi wakho abheke ehlombe lakho njalo ukuze uthole izabelo zakho zomsebenzi zenziwe? Yisikhathi esidala sokuthi "yenza lokho engikushoyo, hhayi lokho engikwenzayo" -ukuthi nje akuwunqamuli. I-kati yakho ifunda ngokubukela, hhayi ukulalela. Uma uzinikezele ekusebenzeni ekuthuthukiseni imikhuba yakho kanye nama-tweens akho angase alandele.
Imithombo:
I-Iowa State University Extension. Ukufundisa Umthwalo Wezinsizwa Ezintsha. http://www.extension.iastate.edu/publications/PM1547G.pdf
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