Umbhalo ovela kumawele angu-101 nguKhahn-Van Le-Bucklin
Ukukhishwa kwama-Twins 101: 50 Ama-Must-Have Have Tips for Pregnancy Through Childhood Early from Doctor MOM, nguKhanh-Van Le-Bucklin, MD, MOM Copyright © 2009 ngu Khanh-Van Le-Bucklin. Iphrintshwe ngemvume yomshicileli, uJohn Wiley & Sons, Inc.
Ithiphu # 47 Yenza isikhathi sokudlala
Umama njalo uthi, "Umsebenzi wengane ukudla, ukulala nokudlala. Uma bengenzi enye yezinto, kukhona okungahambi kahle." Umama wami ohlakaniphile wayengeke abe ngcono.
Njengomuntu oqeqesha izingane zakudala , ngifundisa izakhamuzi zami ukuthi zibheke ukungaphumeleli kulezo zinto ezintathu njengokubonakaliswa kokugula, ukunganaki, noma ukubambezeleka kokuthuthukiswa.
Izingane zidinga ukudlala njengoba nje zidinga ukudla nokulala! Ukudlala nokuhlola ngesikhathi sokudlala kuthuthukisa amakhono emoto wengane kanye namakhono okuqonda (ukuqonda). Vumela amawele akho ukudlala omunye nomunye, futhi uzinike isikhathi sokuba nabo badlale nawe, futhi.
I-Twin Play
Amawele amabili anesithakazelo esicacile sokuba nomuntu odlala naye ngokushesha futhi otholakala kalula. Bangakwazi ukuhlinzeka ngomthombo olungiselelwe wokubukwa, ukuhlolwa, nokuvuselelana komphakathi komunye nomunye.
Ukwandisa isikhathi sakho sokudlala amawele, ngincoma lokhu okulandelayo:
- Yiba namathoyizi okwanele nxazonke ngakho-ke ahlale elwa ithoyizi efanayo. Kodwa akudingeki uthenge ezimbili zezinto zonke . Uzofuna ukuthi bafunde ekuqaleni kokubaluleka kokukwabelana.
- Yiba amathoyizi ahlukahlukene ukuze bahlole.
- Khuthaza ukuxhumana phakathi kwabo. Ukholo noThemba babethanda imibhoshongo yokwakha kanye nezitini zokupaka epulasitiki.
- Kwabancane asebekhulile, babe nezinto eziningi zokugqoka, amadonsa, amaconti, nezinye izinto zokudlala ezikhuthaza ukusebenzisana nokwenza sengathi udlala.
- Thenga ibhola. Bheka ibhokisi le-Twin Hints kulesi sigaba.
- Thatha izingane zakho ngaphandle ngangokunokwenzeka - egcekeni lakho noma endaweni yokudlala eseduze. Kunezinto eziningi ezishukumisayo zokwenza ngaphandle ngaphandle kokufaneleka kweminyaka, ukuqondisisa ngokucophelela.
- Gcina iso eliqaphile emawele akho. Amathoyizi angaba izikhali kalula uma unezingane ezimbili. Kanti futhi, izinsizi ezimbili ezisebenzayo, ezinomqondo ohlakaniphile zinendlela engafanele yokusebenzisa ubuchopho bawo namaqhawe abo ababili ukudala "imidlalo" engaphephile.
- Thatha izithombe eziningi! Ayikho into efana nokubona amawele amathoyizi ngokuhlanganyela ngokukhululekile noma ahlekana ngesikhathi sokudlala. Lezi zikhathi eziyigugu zincibilikisa inhliziyo yakho futhi zikukhumbuze ukuthi ubusisiwe kanjani ukuba namawele.
I-Twin Hint: Amabhola
Amabhola ingenye yamathoyizi engiwuthandayo ekuthuthukiseni amawele . Lapho Ukholo neThemba bekusezinyangeni eziyisishiyagalolunye ubudala, ngangidonsa ibhola, futhi bezogijima ukuze bayithole. Lo mncintiswano onobungane wabangela ukuthuthukiswa okusheshayo kwekhono labo lokukhwabanisa. Manje ukuthi bangabantwana, ngihlala nabo, futhi siqhube ibhola komunye nomunye. Lo msebenzi owenzayo ubafundisa ikhono elibalulekile lomphakathi lokushintshana. Umyeni wami, uChris, uthanda ukugubha amabhola noma ukuwaphonsa ngomunwe wakhe. Izingane zami zibukela ngokujabula njengoba zifunda mayelana nokunyakaza kwezinto nokuvuthwa komzimba (yebo, yonke isenzo se-circus kufanele siqede ngandlela-thile). Esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, ngibona kusengaphambili sidlala ibhola le-handball noma ezine-square ukuze senze umqondo wemithetho edlala. Amathuba angapheli!
Dlala isikhathi noMama nobaba
Amawele amabili anenhlanhla ngempela ukuba nomunye njengomlingani odlala nabo . Isikhathi sabo ndawonye sinikeza izinzuzo eziningi zomphakathi, ngokomzwelo nangokwenyama. Kodwa amawele nawo adinga isikhathi nawe. Ochwepheshe bavumelana ukuthi amawele adinga ukuzibophezela, afunde kusuka, futhi asebenzise isikhathi semfanelo nabantu abadala ukuze kwandiswe amandla abo okuthuthukiswa.
Ubaluleke kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni kwengane yakho. I-twin yama-coin ayikwazi ukufaka esikhundleni somsebenzi wokusebenzisana komzali nokudlala, futhi akukho namathoyizi, amavidiyo noma izinhlelo zekhompiyutha ezingabizi kakhulu. Uyisitokisi esisodwa esenzelwe kahle ingane yakho.
Ayikho ithoyizi engakwazi ukunikeza izinhlobonhlobo zokugqugquzela kwengqondo, ezenhlalakahle nezomzimba ongazinikeza. Into engcono kakhulu ukuthi uyigugu, kodwa nokho ukhululekile kumntanakho. Nika ingane yakho isipho sokudlala nawe namuhla.
Nazi ezinye izindlela ezilula ongahlanganyela ngentshiseko amawele akho kudlalwa:
- Khuluma nabo ngesikhathi sokudlala.
- Chaza ukuthi wenzani.
- Chaza ukuthi benzani.
- Babonise ukuthi ithoyizi isebenza kanjani.
- Yenza umzali oyedwa abe "umdlali wokudlala" kanti omunye "umzali womsebenzi" amahora ambalwa bese ushintsha izindima.
- Yenza isikhathi sokuchitha isikhathi futhi udlale isikhathi. Isibonelo, okugeza kungaba mnandi kakhulu ngama- bubbles , amathoyizi, nokuningi kokuhamba.
- Yenza ubuwula futhi ujabule! Ukuba nezingane kuyisizathu sakho sokuba ingane futhi.
UHanh-Van Le-Bucklin , MD, uMOM, ungumhlengikazi wezingane eYunivesithi yaseCalifornia, e-Irvine. Wathola i-medical degree yakhe evela eNyuvesi yaseCalifornia, eSan Francisco, futhi wagcwalisa ukuhlala kwakhe kwezingane eStanford University. Wathola umama wakhe weziqu eziningi (MOM) ngonyaka ka-2006 ngokuzalwa kwamadodakazi akhe amabili, Faith and Hope.
Ama-Twin Hints
| Amathoyizi ayizintandokazi eziyishumi ezithandwa kakhulu ezinganeni | ||
| 1. | Ukulenga iselula | Ukuzalwa + |
| 2. | Isibuko sezingane (isibonelo, i-Fisher-Price Ocean Wonders Musical Activity Mirror, Lamaze Mirror First) | Ukuzalwa + |
| 3. | Dlala ukudlala (ngokwesibonelo, i-Fisher-Price Melodies ne-Lights Deluxe Gym) | Ukuzalwa + |
| 4. | Amantombazane amantombazane kanye nezindwangu zokugqoka | Izinyanga ezingu-4 + |
| 5. | Isihlalo se-Bouncy esinesihlalo esiphezulu nesesikhungo somsebenzi | Izinyanga ezingu-6 + |
| 6. | Ibhola (kufanele ibe mkhulu kakhulu kunomntwana wengane) | Izinyanga ezingu-6 + |
| 7. | Ikhibhodi enkulu yohlobo lwepiyano (isibonelo, i-Little Tikes Baby Tap-a-Tune Piano | Izinyanga ezingu-9 + |
| 8. | Amagceke aqinile (isibonelo, i-Fisher-Price Dance Baby Dance! Classical Stacker) | Izinyanga ezingu-9 + |
| 9. | Ama-sorters ama-simple (isibonelo, i-Fisher-Price-Blocks-blocks shape sorter) | Izinyanga ezingu-9 + |
| 10. | Amabhuku (Ngithanda ezithambile, izindwangu ezinsana ezisencane) | Yonke iminyaka |