Abazali babonakala behamba ngokweqile lapho bekhetha udokotela wezingane.
Abanye abakwenzi lutho futhi bamane bakhethe udokotela wezingane ekushayweni esibhedlela lapho ingane yabo izalwa noma ukhethe udokotela ngokungahleliwe ohlwini oluvela encwadini yocingo noma lwemibhalo yomshwalense wabo.
Abanye benza ucwaningo oluningiliziwe futhi baqhuba i-interview bacela ingane yabo entsha engaba yinto yonke kusukela lapho baya khona esikoleni sezokwelapha ukuthi yiziphi izikolo zabo ezisezikhungweni zabo zezokwelapha.
Lapho ukhetha udokotela wezingane, kufanele ugweme lezi ziqhwaga, qinisekisa ukuthi uthanda udokotela wakho omusha, futhi ubone ukuthi uyavumelana yini ngezihloko ezibalulekile zomzali, njengokuncelisa, ukuyala, nokungaqaphathi ama-antibiotics, njll.
Ukubaluleka kokukhetha udokotela wezingane
Ukukhetha udokotela wezingane obalulekile kubaluleke kunokuba abazali abaningi bacabange. Ngenkathi ungamane uguqule odokotela uma ungathandi uthandana wezingane oqalayo uma ubona, uma ingane yakho esanda kuzalwa noma ekhulile igula ngempela, udokotela wokuqala owaziyo angenza izinqumo zokuphila ngokushintsha ingane yakho. Noma bangase bangabikho inkinga engasongela ukuphila.
Ngakho-ke ngisho noma unesana esenempilo noma ingane ekhulile ngokutheleleka okubandayo noma kwezindlebe, kufanele ucabangele ukuthi ngubani omkhathalelayo, uma kwenzeka izinkinga zakhe zezokwelapha zingathí sina kakhulu kunalokho ucabanga.
Izincomo zezingane
Indlela evamile yokuba abazali bakhethe udokotela wezingane ukuthola ukuncoma kubangani babo noma kumalungu omndeni.
Lokhu kungenye yezindlela ezingcono kakhulu, kepha uma othile ekutshela ukuthi bayathanda ukuya kudokotela wezingane zabo, qiniseka ukuthi ubuze ukuthi kungani ungawalandeli ngokungafihli ehhovisi elifanayo.
Abazali abaningi banesidingo esithile futhi ungacinywa ngempela ngenxa yokuthi bathanda udokotela wabo. Isibonelo, bangase bathande ukuthi izingane zabo zihamba ngokushesha futhi ziphuma futhi ziphuma ehhovisi masinyane, kanti ungase uthande umuntu ohamba kancane bese echitha isikhathi esiningi ngesikhathi sokuvakasha, ngisho noma kusho ukuthi kufanele ulinde kancane isikhathi eside sokuqokwa kwakho.
Noma umngane wakho angase athande ukuthi udokotela wezingane ubeka i-antibiotic njalo uma beya ehhovisi, noma ngabe bayayidinga noma cha.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ungase uthole umbiko omubi odokotela wezingane kuphela ukuthola ukuthi abathandi udokotela ngoba akahambanga ngaphezu kwezidakamizwa, empeleni egcina iziqondiso ze-American Academy of Pediatrics.
Ngakho zama njalo ukuthola isizathu noma incazelo ngemuva kokunconywa ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uqonda ukuthi kungani umuntu ethandayo noma engathandi udokotela wezingane.
Udokotela wakho angabuye abe umthombo omuhle wokuncoma kwanyana wezingane, ikakhulukazi uma unomntwana omusha.
Ukukhetha udokotela wezingane
Nakuba sithanda ukucabanga ukuthi izinto ezifana nezindleko nokulula kufanele zibe yinto yesibili uma zenza isinqumo esibalulekile, zingabaluleka kakhulu uma ukhetha udokotela wezingane. Uma udokotela wezingane ongathanda ukubona akusikho ohlelweni lwakho lomshuwalense noma ihora elide, kungase kungabi usizo kakhulu ukuya ehhovisi lakhe.
Izindaba ezibalulekile ezidingekayo okufanele uzicabangele lapho ukhetha udokotela wezingane, eziningi zazo ongazibuza abasebenzi basehhovisi, zifaka:
- Ingabe udokotela wezingane ohlelweni lwakho lomshwalense? Uma ungenayo umshuwalense noma une-deductible ephezulu, qiniseka ukuthi ubuza ukuthi ukuvakashelwa okungakanani kubiza futhi mhlawumbe uqhathanise namanye amahhovisi wezingane endaweni.
- Utholakalaphi futhi unayo i-satellite satellite?
- Ingabe unikeza usuku olufanayo ukuqokwa kwabagulayo?
- Ingabe unayo amahora okuphumula noma amaviki?
- Kwenzekani uma ngidinga iseluleko ngemva kwamahora? Ngabe umhlengikazi noma udokotela uyatholakala kwi-call ukukhuluma nami? Ngizokhokhiswa ngalezi zingcingo?
- Iziphi izibhedlela udokotela wezingane ohambisana nazo? Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu uma unesiBhedlela Sezingane endaweni yakho futhi ungathanda udokotela ozokubona uma kufanele uhambe khona.
- Zikhona yini izinkokhelo ezengeziwe zokweluleka izingcingo phakathi nosuku, ngemuva kwamahora okucebisa izincomo, ukugcwalisa imithi, noma izicelo zokugcwalisa amafomu, nokunye?
- Bangaki odokotela abasehhovisi? Ingabe ngizohlala ngibona udokotela wami?
- Ingabe odokotela bonke ibhodi baqinisekisa?
- Kube yisikhathi esingakanani ukuqashwa okujwayelekile?
- Ingabe kukhona amakamelo ahlukene agulayo futhi alindile kahle?
Enye into ewusizo okufanele ucabangele ukuthi ngabe ufuna ukuhamba nomkhuba weqembu noma ochwepheshe. Inzuzo yophiko lomuntu noma udokotela wezingane osehhovisi ewodwa nguye ongaqiniseka ukuthi uzohlala ubona udokotela wakho. Okubaluleke nakakhulu ukuthi uma udokotela wakho wezingane ethatha isikhathi esithile, noma eholidini noma uma ethatha intambama, kufanele ubheke isikhathi sokuqokwa noma uye kwenye ihhovisi.
Esikhathini somkhuba weqembu, uvame ukubona udokotela wezingane lapho ehhovisi futhi unenzuzo yokubona omunye udokotela uma ephuma. Amahhovisi amakhulu ahlale enenzuzo yokwabelana futhi angase abe nemishini eminingi ehhovisi, njengelabhu, ukuze ungahambi kwenye indawo ukuze wenze umsebenzi wegazi.
Uma usuthole udokotela wezingane ocabanga ukuthi ungathanda, cabanga ukuthi uhlela "umama omusha" uthintane nabo ukuze uxoxe nabo. Lawa ma-aphoyintimenti asebenzela abasha abasha, futhi.
Ukuxoxa nabahlengikazi
Nakuba ungakwazi ukunciphisa ukhetho lwakho lwezingane ngokuhlola ukuthi ubani osesimweni sakho somshuwalense nasendaweni yangakini, owamukela iziguli ezintsha futhi uthole ezinye izincomo ezivela kubangani nomndeni, indlela engcono kakhulu yokuthola isazi sesidakamizwa esihle ukubeka empeleni up aphoyintimenti bese uhlangana nabambalwa.
Khumbula ukuthi nakuba abazali abaningi bathanda ukucabanga ukuthi bafuna udokotela wezingane ezinhle, uhlala ufuna udokotela wezingane okuthandayo wena nomndeni wakho. Futhi lokho kuvame ukufika endleleni ubuntu bakho obuvumelana ngayo kahle.
Imibuzo eminingana emihle ongayibuza phakathi nale ngxoxo ukuze usize ukuthola ukuthi uthola okuhle yini ifaka phakathi:
- Yiziphi izizathu ezinhle zokuthola umbono wesibili ochwepheshe? (Impendulo enhle ingenxa yokuthi isazi sezifo noma umzali ufuna eyodwa. Umzali kufanele akwazi ukuthola umbono wesibili uma becabanga ukuthi kubalulekile.)
- Ngingakanani isikhathi okufanele ngiphuze ingane yami?
- Iyini ifilosofi yakho eyisisekelo ekuqeqeshweni , ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi , ukugoma, ukubeka ama-antibiotics, njll?
- Uyini umbono wakho ngezinye izindlela zokwelashwa, ukunamathiselwa komzali, ukulala ngokuhlanganyela, njll?
Futhi, ukubeka i-aphoyintimenti yokuxoxa nodokotela wezingane akuyona into ongayenza uma ukhulelwe. Uma usuvele unayo izingane futhi uthuthele endaweni entsha noma uvele ushintsha odokotela, kungase kube umbono omuhle ukuhlangana nodokotela abambalwa ngaphambi kokukhetha udokotela wezingane omusha.
Okubaluleke kakhulu, khumbula ukuthi akusizi ukuthi ngabe ingane yakho isazi esikoleni esingcono kunazo zonke noma ngabe iqedile kuqala ekilasini lakhe, ngakho-ke lezo azizona izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuzibuza. Ufuna ngempela umuntu ozonakekela ingane yakho, ulalele futhi uphendule izidingo zakho, futhi utholakale uma udinga. Futhi ngenkathi kungadingeka ukuthi uqale ukuthembela ezithombeni zakho ozitholile udokotela wezingane ezifanele, kungathatha ukuvakashelwa eziningana noma ngisho neminyaka eminingana ukwazi ngokuqinisekile.