Yini ejwayelekile futhi enempilo-nokuthi yini engekho
Uma unesithakazelo endlini, kungenzeka noma ungaqapheli ukuthi unendlela yokushaya indlwabu. Phela, lo msebenzi ojwayelekile ukwandiswa kwemvelo komzimba wakhe. Kodwa nokho, ungase uzibuze ukuthi ingabe isikhathi ingane yakho ihlala ngemuva komnyango ovaliwe wendlu yakhe yokugezela noma ngesikhathi sokushisa eside kunempilo. Kungenzeka yini ukushaya indlwabu ngokweqile, isibonelo, noma ingabe umntwana angalimaza umzimba wakhe?
Nazi ezinye izimpendulo eziqinisekisayo mayelana nentsha nokushaya indlwabu.
Intsha nokuhlola ngocansi
Usuyazi kakade lokhu, kepha ukucaca: Ukushaya indlwabu kuyisisusa sezinsiza zobulili. Futhi kuyinto evamile futhi evamile phakathi kwentsha. Ucwaningo olwenziwe ngo-2011 olwanyatheliswa ku- Archives of Pediatric Adolescent Medicine lwathola ukuthi izingane ezineminyaka ephakathi kuka-14 no-17 zazivame ukushaya indlwabu ngaphandle kokuhlanganyela emsebenzini wobulili nomunye umuntu.
Njengoba intsha ibhekana nokukhulelwa, iba nesifiso esikhulu mayelana nemizimba yabo ekhulayo. Amahomoni ocansi abonisa ukuqala kokukhulelwa nawo angenza umntwana osemusha ukuba ahlole umzimba wakhe nokuthi usebenza kanjani.
Uma ukhuluma ngocansi nomntanakho, ungazami ukukhuphula ukushaya indlwabu. Ngisho noma engekho ovulekile ukuvuma ukuthi uyakwenza (futhi ngokuqinisekile ungamceli noma umcindezele ukuba akutshele) kungase kube usizo kuye ukuthi kuvamile ukuhlola umzimba wakhe, ukuthi akuyona into ehlazozayo umsebenzi, futhi ukuthi kufanelekile uma nje senziwe ngasese.
Yize kungase kwenzeke ngaphandle kokusho, kuyasiza futhi ukuba ingane yakho ikwazi ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu kungumsebenzi wangasese.
Nini Ukukhathazeka
Kunezimpikiswano ezimbalwa ezodwa eziphathelene nokushaya indlwabu. Ngezinye izikhathi indawo evuselelwe ingaba nzima, ngakho-ke i-lubricant ingasiza kulolo daba. Ukuze ungamkhohlisi ingane yakho, cabanga ukushiya ibhodlela le-lube emkhakheni wezokwelapha emndenini lapho angayibona khona ngaphandle kokuthi kuboniswe.
Kungenzeka ukuthi uma into isetshenziselwa ukushaya indlwabu ukuthi kungaba khona umonakalo esikhunjeni socansi obucayi. Ukwengeza, into ingabanjwa ngesikhathi sokuvuselelwa kwesisu noma isilwane. Lezi zenzakalo ezingavamile kakhulu, kodwa uma ingane yakho ivumela ukuthi unenkinga noma ingakhathazeki endaweni yesisu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi uzilimazile ngenkathi eshaya indlwabu, yenza isikhathi sokubonana nodokotela wezingane, kungekho imibuzo ebuzwayo.
Ukushaya indlwabu ngokushaya indlwabu esidlangalaleni noma ngokweqile kuyizinkinga. Intsha ene-FASD (I-Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder) ngezinye izikhathi zithinte ngokocansi emphakathini noma yenza ezinye izinto ezingalungile ngenxa yecala. Izingane eziye zahlukunyezwa ngokocansi ngezinye izikhathi zishaya indlwabu ngokweqile. Uma ubona noma yikuphi kwalokhu kuziphatha, khuluma nodokotela wezingane zakho.
Ukushaya indlwabu kuyinto evamile futhi enempilo uma nje yenziwa ngasese futhi ingaphazamisi impilo yansuku zonke. Yingxenye ebalulekile yokuthuthukiswa kocansi hhayi okukhathazayo. Cishe zonke izindaba zomfazi omdala ngalokhu kungamanga-ngakho kuyinto encane kakhulu ongayikhathazeka ngayo.
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