Intsha iyashintsha ngokuphawulekayo phakathi kweminyaka engama-13 no-19. Phakathi nale minyaka, ingane yakho izozihlakulela futhi ikulungele ukuthatha imithwalo yemfanelo yabantu abadala. Iminyaka eyintsha ingase ihlukumeze ngezinye izikhathi, kodwa ukushintsha kwemizwelo nokuguquka kokuziphatha ngokuvamile kuyingxenye yenqubo.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwentsha ihlukaniswe ngezigaba ezintathu eziyinhloko: ukukhula kwasekuqaleni, ukukhula okuphakathi, nokukhula kwentsha.
Ukukhula kwentsha kubandakanya izingane ezineminyaka engu-11 kuya kweyishumi nambili. Ukukhula okuphakathi kubandakanya intsha engu-14 kuya kweyishumi nesishiyagalolunye kanti ukukhula kwentsha kubhekisela kubantu abasha abaphakathi kweminyaka engu-19 no-21.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo
Ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo kubhekisela endleleni ingane yakho ecabanga ngayo ngezinto. Intsha encane ijwayele ukubhekana nobunzima bokucabanga ngekusasa noma ukucabanga ngemiphumela engenzeka yokuziphatha kwayo, kodwa lokhu kuvame ukuthuthukisa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Njengoba intsha ikhula, ihlakulela ikhono lokucabanga ngokucacile. Esikhundleni sokucabanga kuphela ngokwezinto ezibonakalayo, baqala ukuqonda imiqondo efana nokholo nokwethemba.
Kuvamile ukuba intsha encane icabange ukuthi ivikelekile kunoma yini eyenzekayo emibi kubo. Kuvamile ukuba bacabange, "Lokho ngeke kwenzeke kimi." Ngenxa yalokho, bangase babe namathuba amaningi okuhlanganyela ekuziphatheni okuyingozi.
Intsha ivame ukucabanga ukuthi iyingqayizivele futhi icabanga ukuthi akekho owaziyo. Njengoba bekhula futhi bevuthiwe, baqala ukuthuthukisa ukuqonda okungcono kwezwe nokuthi abanye abantu bawaqonda kanjani.
Ukuthuthukiswa Komzimba
Ngokuvamile intsha iqala ukukhulelwa lapho isencane. Zakhula zide, zithola isisindo futhi zivuthiwe ngokomzimba. Amantombazane ajwayele ukuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba ngesikhathi eseseminyakeni eyishumi nambili kanti abafana bafinyelela ekuvuthweni ngokomzimba ngesikhathi sokukhula kwentsha.
Ukubukeka kwabo okubonakalayo okusheshayo kungabangela imizwa yokuzizwa.
Ngezinye izikhathi intsha ibhekene nezinkinga ezihlobene nokubukeka, njenge-acne noma ukukhuluphala ngokweqile. Izinkinga zomzimba, ezifana nokuphazamiseka kokudla, zingase zithuthuke phakathi neminyaka yentsha.
Ukuthuthukiswa Komphakathi
Ngenkathi izingane ezincane zigxila ikakhulukazi emndenini, intsha ihlakulela intshisekelo enkulu ebuhlotsheni bontanga. Njengoba befuna ukuzimela ngokwengeziwe kubazali babo, bathambekele ekuthembeleni kakhulu kubangane. Ukucindezela kontanga kungaba yinkinga njengoba intsha ivame ukuzwa umuzwa wokuba ngowakho. Intsha ivame ukushintsha amaqembu oontanga phakathi neminyaka eyishumi neminyaka njengoba izintshisekelo zabo ziguqukile.
Ukuziphatha okuvukelayo ngezinye izikhathi kuvamekile phakathi neminyaka esemusha. Intombazane ingase ihlakulele abantu abahlukene noma ihambe ngezigaba ezihlukahlukene. Ngesinye isikhathi intsha izama ukuthusa abazali bayo noma ifuna ukuthatha izithombe noma ukubhoboza njengendlela yokuziveza.
Kuwo wonke umuntu osemusha, intsha izwa ikhono elikhudlwana lokuzwela abanye abantu. Ukuthandana nobudlelwane bomshado kuvame ukubaluleka phakathi neminyaka esemusha. Kuvamile ukuba intsha ihlakulele izithakazelo zobulili.
Ukuthuthukiswa Komzwelo
Iningi lentsha lithola ukushintsha okukhulu ekuziqhakeni kwabo. Bangase bazizwe benomusa ngelinye ilanga futhi bazizwe bengelutho ngokwanele.
Ukuguquka kwemizwelo kuvamile futhi ngezinye izikhathi, intsha ibuyela ekuziphatheni kwengane.
Intsha iqala ukuthuthukisa amakhono ukulawula imizwa yabo. Njengoba bevuthwa, kufanele bahlakulele amakhono ukuwasiza ukuba asebenze kancane ngokomzwelo. Bangakwazi ukufunda indlela yokubona imizwa yabo futhi babhekane nemizwa engakhululekile ngezindlela ezinempilo. Bangakwazi futhi ukufunda indlela yokuxazulula izingxabano ngokukhiqiza.
Izinkinga zempilo yengqondo zingase zivele ngesikhathi seminyaka eyishumi. Ukucindezeleka, ukukhathazeka kokukhathazeka, kanye nokuphazamiseka kokuziphatha ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala.