Amaqhinga ayishumi Okutshela Amathanga Ngaphandle

Gwema ama-Mix Ups nalezi zinqubo zokutshela amawele angamazwi ngaphandle

Enye yezici zamawele - ikakhulukazi amawele e-monozygotic ( afanayo ) - kufana nokubonakala ngokomzimba. Uma amawele ebuka ngokuphawulekayo, kungaba nzima ukuwachazela. Imindeni enezinwele, noma kulabo ababazi kahle, akuyona inkinga enkulu. Ngandlela-thile, amawele amabili athatha umuntu owenza ukuthi abonakale ngokushesha njengabo ngokwabo. Kodwa ama-mix-tws ahlala ayinto yokukhathazeka ngakho-ke nansi amasu ayishumi okutshela amawele ahlukene.

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Ubuntu Butshela Indaba

Nakuba ezinye amawele ezamukela i-mystique yokungazi lutho, abanye bazozama ukuzibonakalisa njengabantu ngabanye . Umama onamantombazane amabili afanayo afana neminyaka emithathu uvumela izingane zakhe ukuba ziqondise izinto. Uchaza ukuthi, "Amantombazane ami akwenze kube lula ngathi ukuba ngibatshele. Okokuqala, u-Emma unzima kakhulu ukuthi akekho owenza udideke nodadewabo, futhi uzokulungisa uma uthola iphutha (futhi uneminyaka emithathu kuphela- ubudala!) Okwesibili, ubuntu babo buphikisana kakhulu, ngakho-ke lokhu kuye kwenza kube lula kuwo wonke umuntu emndenini ukuba azihlukanise. Kunezici ezicashile engingazikhomba kubantu abangaziwayo, kodwa ngokuvamile zihlambalaza amahlombe azo athi , 'Angikwazi ukubona umehluko'. "

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Umbala wokukhetha

"Ngineminyaka engamatshumi ayisikhombisa namadodakazi angama-17 afana noHarper noHayden futhi kunzima kakhulu ukuwahlukanisa. UHarper, oneminyaka eminengi ngomzuzu namashumi amabili nesithupha, unomshwana omncane eceleni kweshiya lakhe langakwesokudla elisithinta kodwa ikakhulukazi sidlala nje uHarper ngo-pink, obomvu, nomhlophe (yiziphi imibala ayithandayo) futhi sigqoka uHayden ngobumnyama, obuluhlaza nokuhlaza (izintandokazi zakhe). " Siyabonga ngokuhlanganyela lokho, i-Parker! Yiqiniso, le nkohliso isebenza kuphela nje uma amawele ehlanganyela futhi engashintshi izintandokazi zawo! Uma bobabili bekhetha okuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka noma i-orange, yisikhathi secebo elisha.

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Ngakwesokudla noma Kwesobunxele?

URaj uyibaba wamadodana amabili amabili, iMani noSairam. Manje njengoba baneminyaka engamashumi amabili ubudala, yena nomkakhe - kanye nezihlobo eziseduze nabangane - bangabatshela, kodwa namanje kudideka kwabaningi. Kodwa kunenye umehluko ohlukanisayo phakathi kwabo. Njengamawele amaningi, enye isokunxele futhi enye inesandla esifanele . Kodwa-ke, kusenakwenzeka ukwazi ukuthi ubani ocingweni ngaphandle uma bezikhomba. Nasi isifuba sakhe kusukela emuva ezinsukwini zobuntwana, "Ngesikhathi sezinsuku zobuntwana, sasilulekwa ngumgogodla wesifazane wami ukuba angazami ukubenza babonakale ngendlela efanayo ngokugqoka izingubo ezifanayo . Sithathe iseluleko esinzulu futhi sasebenzisa izingubo ezihlukahlukene zombala kubo . "

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Ukubheka ukuziphatha

Unabangane abakhulu abangamawele afanayo. Nasi icebo lakhe. "Abangane bami abangcono kakhulu bangamawele afanayo. Indlela engibatshela ngayo ukuthi yiyiphi indlela abenza ngayo abanye abantu namazwi abo." Omdala "munye unamahloni futhi unamazwi aphakeme kakhulu, kanti amawele" asemncane "angaphezulu social kanye bubbly, ngezwi eliphansi. " Siyabonga ngalelo phuzu, Elle! Uma uchitha isikhathi esithile ubona amawele, uzobona umehluko ongaqondakali njengalawa futhi ungawasebenzisa njengamazwi.

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Thatha i-Peek Under the Diaper

Ngenkathi umfana / intombazane engekho amawele afanayo , iningi labantwana - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubulili noma ngabe bangamawele - bukeka ngendlela efanayo. Cabanga ngakho. Ungabheka isithombe somntana osanda kuzalwa bese utshela ukuthi ungumfana noma intombazane, ikakhulukazi ngaphandle kwemigqa yokugqoka noma izinwele? Uma ukhathazekile ngokuxuba amawele amantombazane / amantombazane omndeni, ungakhathazeki. Ungakwazi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthatha isithombe esingaphansi kwe-diaper bese uphawula ukuthi ubani obani.

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Umbala Ukhiye

UMaureen ungumama wamantombazane amawele futhi uchaza uhlelo lwakhe. "Amadodakazi ami manje aneminyaka eyisishiyagalombili ubudala futhi kusukela lapho azalwa, sinemibala enamakhodi ngoba ebukeka ngokufana kakhulu." Kate unezinhlamvu ezine futhi sesigqoke nge-pink (izinhlamvu ezine). Ukubhala ikhodi kuyindlela enhle yokusiza othisha babo ukuba babatshele namuhla. " Lo mqondo omuhle, ikakhulukazi ekusizeni abanye batshele amawele eceleni esikoleni . Imfihlo yokuphumelela ngaleli qhinga iwukuba ukhiphe isihluthulelo esivumelanayo futhi esilula ukukhumbula, ukuxhuma igama lamamawele nobunikazi ngesibonakaliso esibukwayo.

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Gwema isithombe M

Ngakho-ke mhlawumbe awunaso inkinga ekutsheleni amawele ngokuhlukana uma u-face'e ubuso nobuso. Kodwa izithombe zitshela indaba ehlukile. Ngisho nabazali abacabange ukuthi amawele abo ababheki lutho ngesikhathi esifanayo bazodinga ukudideka uma bebuyela emuva babuke izithombe kusukela eminyakeni eyedlule. Izinkumbulo ezinzima zikwenza kube nzima ukuhlukanisa ukuthi ubani onesithombeni. Ezinsukwini zakudala, abazali bakhuthazwa ukuba babhale phansi ngemuva kwezithombe. Kodwa izithombe ze-digital kukhona enye indaba. Ngaphandle kokuba unomthelela ngokumaka yonke into edutshulwayo, awusoze wakhumbula ukuthi ubani. Yenza kube lula kuwe ngokwengeza ezinye izici ezithombeni zakho. Sasebenzisa isistimu yesobunxele / kwesokudla. Ingane ehlala ngakwesokudla sami esibelethweni yayingumntwana A. Igama lakhe eliphakathi liqala ngo-R, futhi sazama ukumbeka ngakwesokudla kwezithombe. Umntwana B, kusukela ngakwesobunxele, unegama eliqala ngoL, futhi wathatha indawo eseceleni kwesokunxele.

Enye isu ephakanyiswe ngubaba ohlakaniphile wamawele kwakuwukutshala umaka esithombeni - esimweni sakhe, ucezu oluncane lwephepha enombhalo othi "A" kuwo ukuchaza umntwana A. Uma ungafuni ukuba yilokho okusobala, ungasebenzisa izinkomba ezicashile, njengethoyi eliyintandokazi, i-pacifier enemibala noma i-accessory.

Yiqiniso, akuzona zonke izithombe ezingahle zihlelwe futhi yilokho okufanele uthole khona ukudala.

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Finyelela ku-accessorize

Izesekeli ziyakuthandeka, futhi kuyisimo esijabulisayo sokutshela amawele ngokwahlukana. Izigqoko, amasokisi noma amabhande ezinhlobonhlobo ezenzelwe izinsana kuyindlela ephelele yokuhlukanisa amawele, noma ngabe ukhetha ukuwagqoka ngokufanisa izingubo. Ukuze uthole okunye okunomphela, cabanga ngamasongo amancane noma ama-anklets okuhlobisa amawele noma ama-ankles akho amawele. Amacici angenye yokukhetha abazali abakhetha ukubopha izindlebe zabantwana babo.

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Izintambo ezincane

Uma ungakhululekile ukufinyeleleka ezinganeni zakho, ungakha esinye isibonakaliso esincane ukuze uzibonise. Abanye basebenzisa umaka ukuze benze ichashazi encane - noma mhlawumbe incwadi yokuqala - endaweni engaphandle kwendlela efinyeleleka, njengezinyawo ezansi. Qinisekisa ukuthi ukhetha indawo engayikuphela emlonyeni wengane kanye nomaka nge-ink ephephile isikhumba somntwana.

Yiqiniso, kuzomele uphinde usebenzise isibonakaliso njengoba sigqoka, noma ugeze ekugezeni. Uma ufuna isixazululo esingapheli, zama lokhu ku-Jessye: "Amawele ami manje asezinyanga ezine ubudala, futhi kunzima kakhulu ukuba wonke umuntu awakhulume, kodwa ngiyazi nje. Angidingi izinto ezincane kodwa ubaba wabo kanye nalo lonke izwe benza kanjalo, ngakho ekuqaleni ngacwebezela umuntu. "

Izikhonkwane ezincane kulula ukubhekisisa ne-dab encane yombala we-nail ehlukile. Izinyosi kuyindlela engcono kuneminwe, echitha isikhathi esiningi kakhulu emlonyeni wengane - noma emlonyeni womfana wesine.

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Izinguquko zomzimba

Bheka kanzima futhi uzothola ukuhlukahluka ngokomzimba kumawele. Ama-birthmarks, ama-freckles, noma ama-moles avela ezindaweni ezahlukene. Amawele we-Mirror angaba nezinwele noma izinkemba ezivuthayo ngezindlela ezahlukene.

I-Idge iyinhlangothi elifanayo. Uthi njengengane, yena namawele akhe babefana kakhulu kangangokuthi akekho owakwazi ukutshela umehluko. Ukusebenzisa ibhendi yegama akuphumelelanga ngoba baqhubeka beshiya ngenxa yobukhulu babo obukhulu. Uhleka usulu, "Ngangingazalwa njengo-Erin, kune-Imogen!" Uchaza abazali bakhe bazama ukuwachazela. "Kwaze kwaba yilapho bezobhapathiza idayi elincane elihlaza okwesibhakabhaka ngesinye sezithende zethu, lapho u-Erin efika emlenzeni wakhe!"

U-Mai Neng Vang uchaza ukuthi utshela abangane bakhe ababili ngamaqembu ngokwahlukana ekuphakameni kwawo nokumamatheka.

Ngamuntu, lokhu kwakuyiqhinga lethu lokutshela amawele ethu ngokwahlukana. Omunye wamadodakazi ami amawele wazalwa enecala lokuzalwa eceleni kwekhanda lakhe. Kwakuyindlela elula futhi elula yokumhlukanisa nodadewabo, kuze kube yilapho izinwele zakhe zikhula phezu kwayo izinyanga ezimbalwa kamuva! Kodwa mina ngivame ukucabanga ngakho njengengcosana kaNkulunkulu ... isipho esizosisiza ukuba sibatshele phakathi kwezinsuku ezingenangqondo, ezinobungane ezinabantwana abanezinwele.