Ukufika Kwe-Snappy Embuzweni "Ingabe Bangamawele?"

Njengabazali bamawele, sibheke njalo abantu abangabazi abagcwele imibuzo kanye namazwana. Enye yezinto ezivame kakhulu mayelana namawele - njalo njalo umzila wokuqala wokubuza - uzobonakala ubonakala kakhulu. "Ingabe amawele?"

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Ingabe Amawele? Indlela yokuphendula ngokubuya kwe-Snappy
Ukufika kwe-Snappy kumbuzo othi "Ingabe Bangamawele?". © Pamela Prindle Fierro About.com 2016

Akusikho ukuthi sisho ukuthatha isithunzi, noma ukuthi asibongi ukubonga kwakho ngenzalo yethu. Kungokuthi sithola ukukhathala kancane kokuphendula, ikakhulukazi uma ungumuntu weshumi nane wokubuza kusukela esangena esitolo. Futhi ukuthi siyazi umbuzo wakho wokuqala uzoholela eminye emithathu, futhi sineminye imizuzu eminye nje emihlanu ngaphambi kokuba izingane zethu (ngokusobala ziwele) zibe nokuqubuka okuzobe kubhalisa esikalini se-Richter.

Ngaphandle kwalokho, akunjalo yini? Hlola izibonakaliso: Izinsana noma izinsana ezincane, okungenzeka noma ezingabonakali ngokufanayo, ku-stroller esivamile. Omunye umzali, cishe izingubo ezemidlalo ezigqoke ngamachashaza. Qaphela ukuthi ukukhulunywa komzali: i-haze eyesabekile, yokulala ebusweni emehlweni ayo nendlela yokugwema ukuxhumana naye; isethi esimisiwe somlomo wakhe njengoba eqhuba lowo mgwaqo ngendlela ephumelelayo nge-aisles.

Ngakho usithethelele ngokuba ushukunyiswa yizo zonke imibuzo, futhi usivumele ukuthi sithole usuku oluthile singase siphendule umbuzo owandayo ngalunye lwalezi zikhathi ezilula.

Chofoza umcibisholo ngezansi ukuze uqale: Ingabe amawele?

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Cha, babeyizintathu. Kodwa inja yadla eyodwa ...
Ingabe amawele? Cha. Beyizintathu kodwa inja idla eyodwa. © Pamela Prindle Fierro. About.com 2016

Lena ihlaya elidala - Ngaqala ukulizwa eminyakeni engaphezu kwengu-20 eyedlule lapho amawele ami engabantwana kanye nenhloso yokungenakugwema "Bangamawele yini?" umbuzo. Lokhu kubuyela emuva kuzokushiya abagibeli behlekile futhi mhlawumbe baze besabe, ngakho-ke kungcono kakhulu ukuyihambisa ngokumomotheka.

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Cha. Ngathola ingane eyengeziwe endaweni yokupaka futhi nganquma ukuyigcina.
Ingabe amawele? Cha. Ngathola ingane eyengeziwe endaweni yokupaka futhi nganquma ukuyigcina. © Pamela Prindle Fierro About.com 2016

Landela lokhu kubuyeka kwe-snappy nge-wink. Umcwaningi wakho uzodinga ukumisa isikhashana bese ucabanga ngesitatimende sakho, futhi lelo yithuba lakho lokwenza ukuphumula okusheshayo. Izobavimbela emathrekhi abo futhi zibashiye bezibuza ngawe wonke usuku.

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Cha.
Ingabe amawele? Eqinisweni, sikhetha ama-clones wegama. © Pamela Prindle Fierro About.com 2016

Abazali abathwele ababili bazoqonda ukucabangela ngemuva kwalesi siphendu sokubuyela emuva kumbuzo othi "Ingabe amawele?" Phela, abazali bamawele bachitha isikhathi esiningi bengavumelani nomqondo wokuthi amawele ahlangene futhi akhuthaze abantu babo ngabanye.

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Yebo. Lapho uNkulunkulu ebona ubuso abathandayo, uyakwenza kabili!
Ingabe amawele? Yebo! Lapho uNkulunkulu ebona ubuso abathandayo, Ubenza kabili. © Pamela Prindle Fierro About.com 2016

Lokhu kubuyeka kwe-snappy kuyafaneleka ikakhulukazi amawele e-monozygotic (afanayo) anezici ezifanayo. Yindlela yokubeka ama-twin amahle, ukuvuma ukuthi umndeni wakho ubheka njengesibusiso esikhethekile, hhayi isifiso.

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Cha. Enye i-hologram.
Ingabe amawele? Cha, enye i-hologram. © Pamela Prindle Fierro About.com 2016

Ufuna ukushiya i-interrogator yakho ecasulayo uzizwe ngokukhethekile? Yenza lesi simangalo. Yisho kabi kakhulu. Bese slink away.

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Usho ukuthini amawele? Ngibona kuphela eyodwa.
Ingabe amawele? Usho ukuthini? Kukhona eyodwa kuphela !. © Pamela Prindle Fierro About.com 2016

Ungakwazi yini ukugcina ubuso obuqondile? Yilokho okuzodinga ukukhipha lokhu kubuyela emuva kwe-snappy. Ukuphikelela ukuthi kukhona ingane eyodwa kuphela. Hlanganisa ukubuka udidekile ngaphandle kokuqhekeka.

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Yebo! Ungathanda owodwa?
Ingabe amawele? Yebo! Ungathanda owodwa ?. Isikweletu sezithombe: Getty Images

Lona ukubuyela emuva okuphelele kuleso simo lapho umuntu ephikelela khona ukuyeka ukuxoxa lapho usezinkingeni. Isibonelo, lapho ingane ethile imemeza amaphaphu akhe, noma izinsana zombili ziphonsa ukulingana. Uma ubhekana namawele amabili ekhalayo , ungase ulingeke ukuba uyigxile, kodwa esikhundleni salokhu, sebenzisa lokhu ukubuyela emuva ukuze uphonse kahle inhloso, kodwa noma kunjalo, ukungahambi kahle. Bavele bakholwe ukuthi uzokwenza!

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Eqinisweni, basanda kuzalwa kuphela.
Ingabe amawele? Eqinisweni, basanda kubeletha kuphela. © Pamela Prindle Fierro About.com 2016

Kuyiqiniso, ngemva kwakho konke.

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Cha. Bangabanikazi babo abazalwa ngosuku olufanayo.
Ingabe amawele? Cha. Bangabanikazi babo abazalwa ngosuku olufanayo. © Pamela Prindle Fierro About.com 2016

Okunye futhi, ukubuyela emuva okunye okuyiqiniso (ngaphandle uma amawele akho engenye yezinqola ezingavamile nezinsuku zokuzalwa ezahlukene ). Kodwa impendulo engalindelekile iqinisekile ukudibanisa umbuzo nje ngokwanele ukukuvumela ukuba ubalekele ingxoxo eqhubekayo.

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Asazi ngokuqinisekile. Asizange siwahlole.
Ingabe amawele? Asazi. Asikazanga ukuthi bahlolwe okwamanje. I-Getty Images

Ngenkathi kungenzeka ukuhlola i-twin type (aka zygosity ), akukho ukuhlolwa kwe-twinship. Mhlawumbe umbuzo wakho uzocabanga ukuthi umane awuqondi kahle umbuzo. Kodwa uzokwazi ukuthi bamane bahlukumeze ukuhlonipha kwakho ukungafuni ngokuphelele ukuxoxa ngale ndaba noma yikuphi okunye.

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