Izinto Ezinzima Uma Unamawele

Esikhathini esiningi, abazali banezingane eyodwa ngesikhathi. Kodwa abazali bamawele babhekana nenselele yokukhulisa izingane ezimbili ezifanayo. Nakuba imivuzo nezibusiso zokuba namawele zigcwele, kunezinye izimo ezinzima kakhulu uma ungumzali wamawele. Ake sihlole ezinye zalezi zinselele, nokuthi abazali baziphatha kanjani ngamawele.

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Ukuthatha izithombe zezingane

Wonke umzali ufuna ukubhala izikhathi ezikhethekile ekuphileni komntanakho. Kusuka kokumomotheka kokuqala kuya ezinyathelweni zokuqala, ikhamera iseduze. Uma unamawele, kunezikhathi eziningi ezinhle zokubamba. Kodwa akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthola isibhamu esihle. Kuzo zonke izithombe ezinhle, kukhona umzila wokuhlukumeza. Omunye ubheka ikhamera, umuntu ubheka kude. Omunye onamehlo avulekile, onamehlo avaliwe. Omunye ohlekayo, okhalayo.

Amantombazane ami amazinyanga ayisishiyagalombili ubudala lapho ngizama ukudubula isithombe sabo sokuqala seholide. Lithatha usuku lonke ukuthola isithombe esiphelele sekhadi lethu likaKhisimusi. Ngangicabanga ukuthi izingane zami ziyoba mnandi kakhulu ezinqoleni ezincane zaseSanta; babecabanga ukuthi kuzoba amahloni ukudonsa izigqoko bese bedlala i-peek-a-boo.

Ukuphikelela kuyisihluthulelo sokuthola izithombe ezinhle zezinxephezelo. Noma ukushiya kubachwepheshe.

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Ukuya eNyakatho yeSonto Elivulekile

Wake wake wacabanga ukuthi kungaba njani ukuba namandla amakhulu? Cabanga ukuthi uyakwazi ukuhamba, noma ukukhipha izakhiwo ezide endaweni eyodwa, noma ukukala izindonga njenge-Spider-Man. Uma ngabe nginganikeza abazali abanamawele amakhulu, kungaba ikhono lokuba ezindaweni ezimbili ngesikhathi esifanayo. Yilokho ikhono elidingekayo ukuze uhambe ngokuphumelelayo kulo mkhosi wonyaka wendatshana owaziwa ngokuthi "Ubusuku Bokubuyela Ebusuku." Lo mcimbi, lapho abazali bevakashela esikoleni sabantwana babo ngemuva nje kwesikole kuqala ekwindla, kuyithuba lokuvakashela ekilasini bese behlangana nothisha kanye nabanye abazali. Ngenkathi ezikoleni zizama ukuhlala nabazali abanezingane eziningi zeminyaka ehlukile, kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu ukuphatha lapho izingane zakho zikhona ebangeni elifanayo. Ngisho noma behlala ekilasini elifanayo, kunezigcawu ezimbili zokudweba ukuze zihlonishwe, ama-desk amabili okuhlola, nama-ajenda amabili okuxoxisana nothisha. Futhi uma amawele akho ehlukene emakilasi ahlukene, lo logistics ayinselele nakakhulu.

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Ukubamba iqhaza emaKlasini weqembu noma Izifundo

Imindeni eminingi enezinwele ihlangatshezwa ukudumala lapho bezama ukubhalisa izingane zabo ezincane ezifundweni zeqembu noma emakilasini, njengokungena ukubhukuda noma isikhathi sikaMama-n-Me. Bajabule ngokujabulela ukuhlangenwe nakho okujabulisayo nezingane zabo, bathola ukuthi ekilasini idinga umuntu omdala ukuba ahlanganyele nengane ngayinye. Ngaphandle kokuba abazali bobabili (noma umntanami) bangakwazi ukwenza isimiso esimisweni sabo ekilasini, abazali bamawele abaphume enhlanhleni.

Ngisho noma imisebenzi ingadingi ukubamba iqhaza komzali, kungaba yinto ekhohlisayo uma isikhala sisebenza. Izinhlangano eziningi zizimisele ukwenza indawo "eyodwa ngaphezulu," kodwa kuzodingeka ziphike amawele, okuzobeka ekilasini ngaphezu kwamandla. Futhi ukhohlwe ngokubeka ithemba lakho ohlwini lokulinda; yikuphi umzali ofuna ukukhetha okulula ukuthi yiziphi amawele ongazithumela uma isikhala esisodwa kuphela sivuleka?

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Ukuqothula Amantombazane Ukulala

Ayikho into enhle kunazo zonke kunokuba ihlasele ingane encane futhi ibukele ngobumnene ikhuphuka ukuze ilale ezandleni zakho. Kodwa zama lezo zikhathi ezimbili, futhi kungaba umsebenzi ekukhungathekeni. Ngokushesha lapho omunye ewa, enye iyaxosha noma igxuma. Ngisho noma ubahola bobabili ukuba balale, ubahambisa kanjani emakhakheni abo ngaphandle kokuvusa futhi uqale yonke inqubo? Ngezingalo ezimbili kuphela, kuhle kakhulu.

Lokhu akusho ukuthi ngeke kwenziwe; Empeleni, ukuqonda leli khono kungenye yemivuzo ezuzisa kakhulu yokuba ngumzali wamawele. Kuthatha umkhuba othile, futhi kunzima nakakhulu ukudlula umntwana oyedwa, kodwa inzuzo iyanelisa ngempela.

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Ukusebenzisa izindawo zokuphumula zomphakathi

O, lokhu kuyinkimbinkimbi. Wenzani uma kufanele ngempela uhambe kodwa ube nezinsana ezimbili ku-stanter double giant? Ngeke kufinyelele esitebeleni nawe, futhi umcabango wokushiya izinto zakho eziyigugu ezingalondolozwe eceleni endlini yokuphumula yomphakathi ngenkathi uhlala khona ungesabisa kakhulu. Ngenhlanhla, izixazululo zale nkinga ethile zitholakale kakhulu njengoba izindawo zokuphumula zomndeni zivame kakhulu. Enye indlela yokusebenzisa isikhala esikhulu sendawo ekhubazekile, kodwa ngisho nangaleso sikhathi, abaningi abahamba nge-strollers abazokwazi ukungena ngaphakathi. Uma kungenjalo, ungahlala ubambelela, uthembele kumusa wabantu abangabazi, noma uthathe umsizi lapho ungaphuma. Ngenkathi isiteji sokuhamba sihlala isikhathi esifushane, inkinga iqhubeka - njengoba ngezinye izikhathi ihamba kakhulu - njengoba amawele ekhula. Ngoba-ke yiYABO abafanele basebenzise indlu yokudlela futhi ngokuvamile bobabili ngesikhathi esisodwa.

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Ukushintshela ku-Nest engenalutho

Amawele afika amabili ngesikhathi. Futhi emindenini eminingi, baphinde baphume ekhaya ngesikhathi esifanayo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukuya ekolishi, ukujoyina ezempi, noma ukuthuthela emzini wakubo, bashiya ngemuva kokushiya okukhulu. Kwabazali bamawele, isidleke esingenalutho asibe singenalutho, siyashesha ngempela. Kungaba nzima futhi kunganqamuki njengoba nje amawele ejoyina umndeni. Khumbula nje ukuthi kuyinkqubo yokuguquka; njengoba nje kuthatha isikhathi ukujwayela abantwana abasha, kuthatha isikhathi nokuzama ukulungiswa uma behamba. Futhi ... izikhathi eziningi abahambanga isikhathi eside! Phakathi kwezikhathi zesikoleni kanye nezinguquko zomsebenzi, kungenzeka ukuthi babuyele ngesikhathi esithile.

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Ukulahla Ukunakekelwa Kwezinsuku

Kuyingxenye yesimiso sezinsuku zonke, kodwa singase sibe esinye sezikhathi ezinzima kakhulu zosuku. I-logistics ingaba yinselele uma uhambisa izingane ezimbili noma izingane ezincane zingena emotweni, futhi zingena esikhwameni sokunakekelwa ngosuku. Hlanganisa imizwelo (kusuka kubazali nezingane!), Ukucindezeleka, isimo sezulu, ithrafikhi, nokuhlehliswa, futhi uthole iresiphi yokuqubuka. (Futhi, abazali kanye nezingane!) Ezinsukwini zakuqala, umqhubi wesistimu yokuhamba wenza izinto zibe lula ngoba zivumela izingane ukuba zihlale zizibophezela ezikhundleni zabo zemoto. Kodwa njengoba bekhula, kuba nzima nakakhulu njengoba abantwana beba nzima kakhulu kodwa kusadingeka ukuthi kwenziwe. Ukuguqulwa ukusuka emotweni ube yisiteji kuyindlela eyodwa; omunye ucela usizo lwabasebenzi.

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Ukufundisa intsha ukuba idrayivu

Kungumkhuba wokufundela intsha, oletha inkululeko kanye nomthwalo wemfanelo, kodwa futhi uyabathanda abazali. Ukuthola ilayisense yokushayela ngokuvamile kudinga ukushayela kwamahora amaningi okusebenza, kuhambisane nomzali noma umgcini. Futhi lokho kusho ukuthi abazali bamawele bayodla kabili amahora emotweni, bafaka amazinyo abo bese bebopha isihlalo sabo sobukhosi njengoba behlaselwa ukucabanga okuvela esihlalweni somgibeli. Ukufundisa osemusha ukushayela kungabangela ukucindezeleka nokugubha izinzwa, futhi abazali bamawele bayakwenza isikhathi esiphindwe kabili.