Ukuthola ukuthi ukhulelwe mhlawumbe kuyathumela imizwelo emzimbeni wakho nasemqondweni wakho. Ungalindela ukuzwa ukhathazekile, ukujabula, ukumangala, ukwesaba, ukujabula, neminye imizwelo eminingi. Ngemuva kokuthi isisu sakho siphume lapho ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa kuphenduka okuhle, ekugcineni uzothatha indawo yokulungele ukwabelana ngezindaba zakho. Ungase ujabule ngokusabalalisa izindaba ukuthi ulindele umntwana noma ungase ukhathazeke.
Zombili zivamile, kodwa ngokuvamile ziyamangaza abantu.
Mhlawumbe umuntu wesibili ukwazi ukuthi ulindele uyoba umyeni wakho noma umlingani wakho. Kunezindlela eziningi zokudala zokwenza isimemezelo sokukhulelwa okugubha umzuzu okhethekile ngendlela ehlukile. Ukuthola indlela yokubalandisa ngendlela engalindelekile kungaba mnandi. Noma mhlawumbe yibo ababambe isandla sakho ngenkathi ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa kuqhutshwa.
Lokho yizinqumo ezilula. Iqembu elilandelayo labantu ongabatshela kuyoba ngumndeni wakho noma abangane abaseduze. Kusuka kulelo qembu, ngokuvamile uqhubekela phambili kumuntu obaziyo futhi ekugcineni, utshela noma ubani ozolalela. Nakuba lokhu kujwayelekile ukuthi imindeni eminingi ihlanganyela kanjani izindaba zokukhulelwa kwabo, ungase uzibuze ukuthi udinga ukubeka isikhathi phakathi kokuthola izindaba ezinkulu nokuzihlanganyela. Kungaba okuvamile ukutshela abantu abangabazi ngaphambi kokuba ulungele ukutshela umndeni wakho. Lena indlela yokwabelana ngezindaba zakho esimweni esicindezelekile esincane ngokucindezela okuncane kakhulu emuva.
Isikhathi sokutshela abanye kuyisihloko esivumiwe kakhulu. Isikhathi sokuhlanganyela izindaba zokukhulelwa kwakho yisinqumo somuntu siqu. Eminye imindeni ikhetha ukuhlanganyela izindaba ezinhle kusenesikhathi futhi kaningi. Bazotshela noma ubani ozolalela. Ngaphambi kokuba ifomu lokuhlola lokukhulelwa selomile basuke efonini bebiza abangane babo nomndeni wabo.
Okunye okweqile ukutshela muntu noma ukutshela abantu abambalwa kakhulu. Leli qembu lingalinda futhi libike kuze kube yilapho selifinyelele iphuzu elinqunyiwe ekukhupheni kwabo. Khona-ke bangase basho kuphela ngesidingo sokwazi isisekelo, ngokuvamile bekulinda kuze isisu sabo sanda sikhulume izindaba ngabo. Lokhu kungaba ngenxa yezinkolelo zenkolo noma ezenziwe ngabanye, mhlawumbe ngenxa yokwesaba ukulahlekelwa ukukhulelwa.
Zombili izinhlangothi zalo mpikiswano zinephuzu. Nansi ukuphazamiseka kwezinye zezinkinga ezihlangothini ngalunye:
Izinzuzo Zokutshela Ekuqaleni
- Ukusekelwa okuningi ekuqaleni kokukhulelwa
- Iyakwazi ukwabelana ngezindaba zakho ezinhle nenjabulo
- Ukunikezwa kwangaphambili kokusiza ngokomzimba
- Iseluleko esivela kwabanye mayelana nodokotela
- Usizo ngezinqumo zakuqala
- Uma uphazamiseka, uzothola ukwesekwa kuwo wonke umuntu
Izinkinga Zokutshela Ekuqaleni
- Iseluleko esiningi kakhulu
- Izindaba ezinhle zihamba ngokushesha, ungase ungabi ngowokuqala ukutshela umuntu
- Uma uphazamisa wonke umuntu ukuthi uyazikhulelwe
Izinzuzo Zokulinda Ukutshela
- Isikhathi sokugaya izindaba
- Yenza izinqumo ngaphandle kokufaka abanye
- Uma uphazamisekile akudingeki uvuselele isimemezelo sokukhulelwa
Izinkinga Ukulinda Ukutshela
- Akukho usizo / ukusekelwa kwabanye
- Uma uphazamisa wonke umuntu uzibuza ukuthi kungani udabukile, futhi kufanele uphindele emuva incazelo yakho
Njengoba ungabona akukho impendulo ecacile-ukusika. Ungakhetha ukutshela kusenesikhathi, wazi ukuthi uma ulahlekelwa ukukhulelwa ongadinga ukusekelwa ngothando komndeni noma abangane enkambisweni yokulila. Ungase ufise ukulinda kuze kube yingozi yokukhulelwa kwesisu noma ukukhulelwa kwe-ectopic kudlulile ngaphambi kokuxoxa izindaba zokukhulelwa kwakho. Akekho impendulo efanele. Okusebenza emndenini wakho kuyindlela efanele ukuthi wabelane ngezindaba ezinhle.
Ungazama isimemezelo sokuhlola nabantu abambalwa. Bona ukuthi kuhamba kanjani. Ungase unqume ukuqhubeka uhlanganyela izindaba zakho noma ulinde kancane. Ngezinye izikhathi ungase uvele ubheke ukuthi uthini noma wenze njengengxenye yesimemezelo.