Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uneminyaka engakanani ubaba, kunamathuba amaningi okuba ubaba ongcono. Ngokufunda ukwamukela ithuba, ungakha ithonya elihle ezinganeni zakho, isibonelo. Izinzuzo zokuba ubaba abawela ezindaweni eziningana-ngokomzwelo, emzimbeni, ezenhlalakahle nangokomoya. Ukuze ufinyelele ubujamo obuhle kubantu abaningi, ukuhlala emshadweni nomndeni kungaba yindlela.
Ukuba Umuntu Ongcono
Ngokuba ubaba ongcono, ungaba umuntu ongcono. Nakuba abanye abesilisa abangabantwana bangakwazi ukuzwa bekhathele, badangele, futhi basebenze ngokweqile, abanye baqiniswa, baphefumulelwe futhi banamandla. Eqinisweni, kunezifundo ezibonisa indlela ubaba esiza ngayo amadoda anempilo, umsebenzi, nokwaneliseka komsebenzi-ukwehlisa ingozi yokucindezeleka.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ugijima nomqondo wokuba ubaba noma ufuna ukuqinisekiswa mayelana nokuzikhethela kwakho, ungafunda ngezinzuzo zomuntu siqu zokuba ubaba okwenza kube ngcono ekugcineni.
Impilo yomuntu siqu ithuthukisa
Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi isakhiwo esiya ekuphileni komuntu ngenxa yobubaba simsiza enze ukhetho olungcono. Ngokusho kweBarent Magazine , obaba bavame ukulahlekelwa imikhuba emibi efana nokubhema futhi baqale ukukhetha ukudla okuphekwe ekhaya ngokudla okusheshayo. Ukuba nomndeni ukuza ekhaya futhi ube nesibopho sokusiza obaba bakhethe indlela yokuphila enempilo.
Izinga lomsebenzi liyanda
Imizila efana nokuvuka ebusuku, ukudlala nezingane, nokuhamba epaki kwenza abathandekayo basebenze futhi bazizwe bangcono ngokwabo. I-Pew Research Center ithole ukuthi u-54% wabantwana bayakwazisa izinzuzo zobungani.
Izifo ezihambisana nokucindezeleka ziyancipha
I-National Institute of Health Mental ithola ukuthi amadoda asebudlelwaneni obuhle bomndeni akancane amathuba okuba nezinkinga zempilo ezihlobene nokucindezeleka.
Izinkinga ezifana nobuhlungu obungapheli, ukuleleka, izinkinga zesisu, nokukhathala kuyinkinga enkulu kubazali abazinzile kunabanye abesilisa abancane.
Amakhono Okuthuthukiswa Aqala
Ngokuvamile, sibona abafana nezinsizwa zizigxila ngokweqile futhi zizibandakanya. Ngenhlanhla, i-Minnesota Fatherhood Initiative ithola ukuthi amadoda aphumelela njengabababa aqala ukugxila ngaphakathi futhi athuthukisa ikhono elikhulu lokukhulisa nokunakekela abanye . Abenzanga lokhu hhayi kuphela ezinganeni zabo, kodwa kulabo abashade nabo, abangane nabasebenza nabo.
Ingozi Yokunciphisa Ukucindezeleka Kwemitholampilo
Amadoda ahlala yedwa aneengozi enkulu kakhulu yokucindezeleka nokuzibulala kunamadoda ashada nabantwana. Ucwaningo oluvela eHarvard Men's Health Watch lubonise inhlolovo yabantu abadala baseMelika abangu-127,545 ukuthi amadoda ashadile ayephilile kunabo abangashadile, abahlukanisile noma abafelokazi.
Ukunyuka komsebenzi kuqhubekela phambili
Obaba abazinikezele bazizwa bekhululekile emsebenzini wabo futhi bakholelwa ukuthi benza kahle emsebenzini. Lokhu kwenzeka kaningi kunamadoda abangewona obaba. Ngokusho kweNew York Times , obaba abathanda umsebenzi wabo bavame ukubonisa ukusekelwa kokuzimela kwengane futhi babe nobuhlobo obuhle nabo.
Ukubhekana neZakhono ze-Advance
Amadoda abababa bavame ukuba namakhono okubhekana kangcono nokucindezeleka kuzo zonke izindawo zokuphila, hhayi nje ekhaya.
I-Institute for Public Policy Research yembula ukuthi obaba abanabo ubudlelwane obuhle nezingane zabo babe nokwanda okwenyuka enhlalakahle yengqondo.
Izingane Zifunde Kakhulu
I-Early Childhood Longitudinal Study ithole ukuthi izingane zabazali abathintekayo nabathintekayo bafunda amakhono okuphila ngokushesha futhi ngcono kunabantwana ngaphandle kokubandakanya ubaba empilweni yabo. Ukutadisha izingane eBarbados ezithathwe omama abasha kuyatholakala nokuthi izingane ezibandakanyeka ubaba zinezilinganiso ezingcono kunezinye izingane.
Ubulili buyathola kangcono
Obaba abashadile nomama wezingane zabo banomzimba ocansini futhi ongcono kunamadoda angenalo ubudlelwane bomndeni obunjalo.
Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi isibopho esiphakathi komama nobaba sivame ukuqiniswa, futhi obaba bavame ukujabulela isibalo somlingani wabo ngisho nangemva kokubeletha.
Inkululeko Yomuntu Iqinisa
Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi obaba abazinikezele amathuba okuba bahlangabezane nenqubo yobulungiswa bezobugebengu. Bajwayele nokunciphisa isibhedlela esibambelekile, ukushona okungekho emgwaqweni kanye nokufa ngaphambi kwesikhathi, nokunciphisa ingozi yokusebenzisa kabi izidakamizwa.