Gxila kumuntu, hhayi ukukhubazeka
Ulimi lokuqala lomuntu yiyona ndlela ezwelayo kakhulu, noma yezopolitiki, ukukhuluma ngokukhubazeka. Lapho ukhuluma ngezingane ezikhubazekile, abantu bavame ukusebenzisa ukukhubazeka ukuchaza wonke umuntu. Bangase bakhulume, isibonelo, "U-ADHD," noma "Ungumntwana we-Down."
Kungenzeka ukuthi wezwile futhi wakhuluma lezizinto ngaphandle kokucabangisisa, kepha amazwi anjalo angalimaza izingane ezinesidingo esikhethekile.
Ulimi lokuqala lomuntu yindlela ehlukile yokukhuluma ngokukhubazeka kwezingane okubeka ukugxila kumuntu hhayi ukukhubazeka. Ukusebenzisa ulimi lomuntu wokuqala, mane usho igama lomuntu noma usebenzise isimemezelo kuqala, silandele ngesenzo esifanele bese usho igama lokukhubazeka.
Izibonelo
Esikhundleni sokuthi, "U-ADHD" noma "Ufunda ekhubazekile," sebenzisa izitatimende ezifana "UDavid une-Down syndrome" noma "uSusan ungumntwana onokukhubazeka kokufunda ." Esikhundleni sokuthi, "Leso sakhiwo sinesimiso esikhubazekile," ubungathi, "Leso sakhiwo sinomsebenzi wabantu abakhubazekile."
Ukusebenzisa ulimi lomuntu wokuqala kuthatha isikhathi esiningi. Ukubhala kudinga amagama amaningi ukuchaza abantu nezinhlelo. Kodwa-ke, ukusebenzisa ulimi lomuntu wokuqala ukushintsha ukugxila kwethu ekukhubazekeni kanye nesifo esibuzwa kumuntu. Kusenza sicabange ngomuntu njengokubhekana nokukhubazeka esikhundleni sokuzicabanga kuphela ngokukhubazeka kwabo.
Abantu abakhubazekile bangabantu bokuqala nabakhulu; ukukhubazeka kwabo akufanele kugqame abantu babo.
Izinzuzo
Abagqugquzeli abaningi bokukhubazeka bakholelwa ukuthi ukusebenzisa ulimi lomuntu wokuqala kusiza othisha, abahlinzeki, abazali nabahlinzeki bezinsiza ukuthi bakhumbule ukuthi basebenza nomuntu onesizotha, imizwa, namalungelo.
Akuzona ukukhubazeka noma isifo. Bangabantu abanokukhubazeka noma izifo. Lokhu kushintshana kolwazi oluphambene kodwa olunamandla kusisiza sibheke abantu abakhubazekile njengabakwazi futhi abafanelekile ngenhlonipho.
Kubalulekile ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi abanye abantu abakhubazekile banezintandokazi zabo mayelana nokuthi ukhuluma kanjani nokukhubazeka kwabo. Isibonelo, eminye imiphakathi eyisithulu, kungcono ukusho ukuthi, "Ungumuntu oyisithulu," kunokuthi "Unesithulu." Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ungase uthi, "Unenkinga yokuzwa."
Kweminye imiphakathi yezimpumputhe, kukhethwa ukuthi uthi, "Uyimpumputhe" kunokuthi "Unobumpumputhe." Ngaphezu kwalokho, ezinye imiphakathi yezimpumputhe zikhetha ukuthi "umuntu ongaboni." Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ungase uthi, "Unenkinga yokubukeka."
Uma ungabaza, ungabona futhi ulalele ulimi olusetshenziswa ngumuntu onesifo sokukhubazeka futhi uthathe izinkomba zakho kulokho okushiwoyo. Ungase ubuze ukuthi ngabe othisha noma abantu abakhubazekile endaweni yakho bazimisele yini ukwabelana ngokuthandayo. Uma konke okuhlulekayo futhi uphazamisa umuntu ngengozi, ukuxolisa okuqotho kungasiza.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Umgomo ukuxoxisana nokukhubazeka ngendlela eveza ubuntu bomuntu ngamunye ohilelekile.
Ezimweni eziningi, ukukhubazeka akuchazi impilo yonke yomuntu, ngakho abanye akufanele bachaze ukukhubazeka njengokungathi kuyisici esibaluleke kakhulu sokukhona komuntu.