Yeka ukhathazeka futhi 'Umngane' Ukuxhumana KwamaNethiwekhi
Abazali abaningi banesidingo ngokuxhumana nabantu lapho befika ezinganeni zabo. Sonke sizwile nge- cyberbullying kanye nabantu abasha benza izinto eziyingozi ngaphandle kokuqaphela. Kodwa uma ingane yakho inesidingo esikhethekile, ukuxhumana nomphakathi njenge-Facebook kungaba yindlela elula yokuqondisa ukuze uthayiphe ezweni leontanga elivamile ngaphandle kokubhekana nabo ngokuqondile. Ngokuphatha kahle, i-Facebook ingaba yikhohlisa kakhulu kunesikhala sakho esiphakeme esikoleni esiphakeme noma esikamelweni sokudla. Nazi izizathu ezinhlanu ongafuna ukucabangela ukuhlela i-akhawunti ye-Facebook yengane yakho.
Isetha i-Identity Online.
Ngisho noma ungafuni ukubeka ikhasi le-Facebook lezingane zakho, lokho akusho ukuthi omunye umuntu ngeke, njengoba umngane wendodanami esanda kuthola lapho abafundi abathandana nabo beka iphrofayela engekho ngaphandle kolwazi lwakhe . Kunzima kakhulu ukulwa ne-akhawunti yekhohlisi uma ungenayo i-persona ku-Facebook. Ukusungula ikhasi njengoba ikhaya lakho langempela le-intanethi lingakwenzisela ukuthi abanye bangamfanisi, futhi bayokwenza ingane yakho ibe ngcono ukulwa nayo uma yenza.
Ukuba Nabangane Kuzwakala Kuhle, Ngisho Uma Bayizobuhle.
Kuyinto enhle kakhulu, empeleni, ukuthi i-Facebook isebenzisa igama elithi "umngane" ukuchaza ukuxhumana phakathi kwabasebenzisi ngoba kuzomele uchazele ingane yakho ukuthi "umngane" ku-intanethi ngeke ngempela enze njengomngane empilweni yangempela. Noma kunjalo, ukuxhumeka kunikezwa kalula futhi kunikezwe ngokukhululekile ku-Facebook imvelo futhi kunganika ingane yakho umuzwa wokuphumelela komphakathi onzima ukuthola okunye. (Yiqiniso, uzofuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi elinye lalawo magama ohlwini lwabangane bakho seluwakho.)
Ungasiza Ingane Yakho Ukuzijabulisa.
Ngisho noma ungaya esikoleni nomntanakho futhi uqeqeshe yonke inhlangano yomphakathi, cishe uzoba namahloni kunokuba awusizo. Kodwa-ke, ku-intanethi, akekho ozokwazi ukuthi ufunda ngaphezulu kwemibandela, imibono, futhi uxoxisane nezintambo nomntanakho, usize ukuthi ukuhlonza ukuthi kusho ukuthini nokuthi uphendule kanjani izimpendulo ezifanele. Ukuxhumana nezingane zakho kuzokunika nomqondo omuhle walokho izingane ezikhuluma ngakho nokuthi zikhuluma kanjani ongayisebenzisa ukufundisa ingane yakho amakhono omphakathi afanelekile.
Ivuselela Amakhono Awusizo.
Ingane yakho ingase ingabi nentshisekelo ekutheni uthayiphe umkhuba njengento evusa umxhwele, kodwa ingagxuma ngethuba lokuthayipha izimo kanye nokuphawula okuthile okupholile njenge-Facebook. Ukusebenzisa ukunikeza nokuthatha ingxoxo kubuye kube lula futhi kusongela kakhulu uma uyenza engxoxweni ngenkathi udlala i-UNO noma kumazwana ngesimo somngani. Uma ingane yakho ingenabo abangane abazoxoxa nabo, hamba futhi uxoxe naye, noma ngabe uhlala ekamelweni elilandelayo, ukuze uthole iminwe yokuthayipha ihamba futhi ukuxhumana kugeleza.
Yinto Efanelekayo Yomdala.
Kungenzeka ukuthi kukhona izinto eziningi ezenziwa kwentsha ezingeke zitholakale ezinganeni zakho, ezingalungile, noma ezingenasithakazelo. I-Facebook yinto ebhekwa kakhulu njengento epholile, into eyenziwa yiontanga yakho yengane iningi kakhulu, ukuthi kulula ukuba ingane yakho iqale futhi ihlanganyele kuyo. Ngokuphatha kahle, kungaba yindlela enhle yokufana nabantu bonke, futhi amathuba afana nalokhu kufanele athathe.