Thola ukuthi ukuqhutshwa kwe-cyberbullying kungathinta kanjani izisulu
Ukuxhashazwa, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukuxhashazwa kwendabuko noma ukuxhaphazwa kwe-cyberbullying, kubangela ukucindezeleka okukhulu ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo. Eqinisweni, njenganoma yisiphi esinye isisulu sokuxhashazwa , izingane ezixhumene ne-cyberbullied zithola ukukhathazeka, ukwesaba, ukucindezeleka, nokuzithoba. Futhi bangabhekana nokuzethemba okuphansi, ukuzwa izimpawu zomzimba, futhi balwe nobunzima bezemfundo.
Kodwa izinhloso zokuxhunywa kwe-cyberbullying nazo zithola imiphumela emingqayizivele nemizwa emibi. Nazi ezinye imizwa evamile i-cyberbullied intsha kanye ne-tween ngokuvamile evame ukuzwa.
Zizwa ziphazamisekile . Ukubhekwa yi-cyberbullies kuphazamisa ikakhulukazi uma izingane eziningi zihlanganyela ekuhlukunyezweni. Kungaba nomuzwa wokuthi ngezinye izikhathi umhlaba wonke uyazi ukuthi kwenzekani. Ngezinye izikhathi ukucindezeleka kokubhekana nokuqhutshwa kwe-cyberbullying kungabangela izingane ukuba zizwe sengathi isimo singaphezu kwamandla abo.
Zizwe zisengozini futhi zingenamandla . Izisulu zokuxhashazwa kwe-inthanethi zivame ukuthola kunzima ukuzizwa ziphephile. Ngokuvamile, lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ukuhlukunyezwa kungangena emzini wabo ngekhompyutha noma ngomakhalekhukhwini nganoma yisiphi isikhathi sosuku. Abasenayo indawo lapho bangabalekela khona. Kumuntu ohlukunyeziwe, kubonakala sengathi ukuhlukumezeka kuyindawo yonke. Ukwengeza, ngoba izihlukumezi zingakwazi ukuhlala zingaziwa, lokhu kungakwandisa imizwa yokwesaba. Izingane ezihlosiwe azizi ukuthi ngubani owenza ubuhlungu-nakuba amanye ama-cyberbullies akhetha abantu ababaziyo .
Zizwa zidalulwe futhi zihlazekile . Ngenxa yokuthi ukuxhunywa kwe-cyberbullying kwenzeka engosini, ukuxhaphazwa kwe-intanethi kuyabonakala kunomphela. Izingane ziyazi ukuthi uma kukhona okuthile ngaphandle, kuyohlale ikhona lapho. Lapho ukuqhutshwa kwe-cyberbullying kwenzeka, okuthunyelwe okumbi, imiyalezo noma imibhalo kungabelwa ngezixuku zabantu. Umthamo omkhulu wabantu owaziyo ngokuxhashazwa kungaholela emizweni ejulile yokuhlazeka.
Zizwa unganelisekile ukuthi ungubani . Ukuxhaphaza nge-Cyberbullying kuvame ukuhlaselwa izisulu lapho zisengozini kakhulu. Ngenxa yalokho, imigomo ye-cyberbullying ivame ukuqala ukungabaza ukuthi iyabaluleka futhi iyabaluleka. Bangase baphendule kule mizwa ngokuzilimaza ngandlela-thile. Isibonelo, uma intombazane ibizwa ngokuthi i-fat, ingase iqale ukudla okuphazamisayo ngenkolelo yokuthi uma iguqula ukuthi ibheka kanjani ukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa kuyomisa. Ngezinye izikhathi izisulu zizozama ukushintsha okuthile ngokubukeka kwazo noma isimo sengqondo ukuze kugweme ukuqhutshwa kwe-cyberbullying eyengeziwe.
Zivuthe futhi uziphindiselele . Ngezinye izikhathi izisulu ze-cyberbullying zizocasuka ngalokho okwenzeka kuzo. Ngenxa yalokho, bahlela ukuphindiselela futhi baziphindiselele. Le ndlela iyingozi ngoba igcina ivalwe kumjikelezo wesisulu . Kuhlale kungcono ukuthethelela intukuthelo kunokuba uthole ngisho.
Zizwa ungathandeki empilweni . Lapho ukuqhutshwa kwe-cyberbullying kuqhubeka, izisulu zivame ukuxhumana nezwe elibazungezile ngokuhlukile kunezinye. Kwabaningi, impilo ingazizwa ingenathemba futhi ingenasici. Abalahlekelwa isithakazelo ezintweni ababezijabulele futhi basebenzise isikhathi esingaphansi kokuxhumana nomndeni nabangane. Futhi kwezinye izimo ukucindezeleka nemicabango yokuzibulala kungangena. Uma ubona ushintsho emoyeni wengane yakho, menze ahlolwe udokotela ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka.
Zizwa wedwa futhi uzihlukanise . I-Cyberbullying ngezinye izikhathi ibangela ukuba intsha ikhutshwe futhi igxothwe esikoleni. Lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kubuhlungu kakhulu ngoba abangane babalulekile kule minyaka. Uma izingane zingenabo abangane, lokhu kungaholela ekuhlukunyezweni okwengeziwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lapho kuqhutshwa i-cyberbullying, abantu abaningi batusa ukuvala ikhompyutha noma ukuvala ucingo. Kodwa, ngoba intsha ngokuvamile ivame ukususa ukuxhumana nezwe labo. Amafoni abo kanye namakhompiyutha abo bangenye yezindlela ezibaluleke kakhulu abaxhumana ngazo nabanye. Uma leyo ndlela yokukhulumisana isusiwe, ingazizwa ihlukaniswe futhi iqedwe ezweni layo.
Zizwa ungathandeki esikoleni . Izisulu zokuxhashazwa nge-cyberbullying ngokuvamile zinezinga eliphezulu kakhulu lokungabikho esikoleni kunabantwana abangenalo ukuxhashazwa. Basuka esikoleni ukuze bagweme ukubhekene nezingane ezihlukumezayo noma ngenxa yokuthi bahlazekile futhi bahlaziswa yimilayezo eyabelwe. Amabanga abo ahlupheka futhi ngoba akuthola kunzima ukugxila noma ukutadisha ngenxa yokukhathazeka nokucindezeleka okubangelwa ukuxhaphazwa. Futhi kwezinye izimo, izingane zizoyeka esikoleni noma zilahlekelwe isithakazelo ekuqhubekeni kwemfundo ngemuva kwesikole esiphakeme.
Zizwa ukhathazekile futhi ucindezelekile . Izisulu zokuxhashazwa kwe-intanethi zivame ukubhekana nokukhathazeka, ukucindezeleka nezinye izimo ezihlobene nokucindezeleka. Lokhu kwenzeka ngokuyinhloko ngoba ukuxhaphazwa kwe-cyberbullying kususa ukuzithemba nokuzethemba kwabo . Ukwengeza, ukucindezeleka okungeziwe kokubhekana nokuxhaphazwa kwe-inthanethi njalo kuphazamisa imizwa yabo yenjabulo nokwaneliseka.
Uzwa ugula . Uma izingane zi-cyberbullied, zivame ukuzwa ikhanda, iziqu noma ezinye izifo zomzimba. Ukucindezeleka kokuhlukunyezwa nakho kungabangela izimo ezihlobene nokucindezeleka njengezilonda zesisu nezimo zesikhumba. Ukwengeza, izingane ezixhunywe nge-cyberbullied zingase zithole izinguquko ekutheni zidla njengokufana nokudla ukudla noma ukudla okudliwayo. Futhi imidwebo yabo yokulala ingaba nomthelela. Bangase bahlushwa ukulala, balale okungaphezu kokujwayelekile noma okuhlangenwe nakho kokuhamba ebusuku.
Zizwa ukuzibulala . Ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-cyberbullying kwandisa ingozi yokuzibulala . Izingane ezihlala zihlukunyezwa ngontanga ngokusebenzisa imiyalezo, imiyalezo esheshayo, ezokuxhumana nabantu kanye nezinye izitolo, ngokuvamile ziqala ukuzizwa zingenathemba. Bangase baqale bazizwe njengendlela eyedwa yokubalekela ubuhlungu ngokuzibulala. Ngenxa yalokho, bangase bacabange ngokuphelisa impilo yabo ukuze babalekele abahlukumezi babo. Uma ingane yakho iqhutshwa i-cyberbullied, ungaxoshi imizwa yabo. Qinisekisa ukuthi uxhumana nsuku zonke, uthathe izinyathelo zokusiza ukuqeda ukuhlushwa futhi ugcine amathebhu aseduzane ekushintsheni kwemizwelo nokuziphatha. Yenza ingane yakho ihlolwe ngumsebenzi wokunakekelwa kwezempilo uma isaziso nanoma yikuphi ukushintsha komuntu nhlobo.